I noticed the same with WAGG, so I eventually ditched it. I had high hopes when I got WAGG based on the feedback that people gave it on LS, but in my case it had a pretty profound anti-sexual effect…to the extent of creating condescension from others. This all went away with low doses of WAGG, however at those doses I saw no beneficial effects either.
I haven’t noticed the same with IFM though. I will say that I haven’t had as much success sexually with IFM as others here, but I haven’t noticed it having any anti-sexual effects either. IFM works really well for me once you get some one-on-one time with a lady. Whether its a sexual situation or not, they just tend to open up to you. I’ve also noticed great effects in groups of women too. They eat up your jokes and listen to everything you have to say intently.