Some of you who have read another thread I started know I am using the mones to aid me in sorting my life out. One of the tools I am using is a314. The problem is, I am not an alpha guy (yet). I’m building the confidence, but I still have a long road in front of me. Right now I am enjoying the journey.
Now on to my question ( I hope we can discuss this):
Most of the experienced users on this forum agree on the fact, that if you are not congruent to your pheromone signature, the pheromones will have little or no added value. Both IG and a314 supposedly have ‘self effects’ (confidence) on the user. A314 gives you an alpha sig, IG gives you the ‘cool’ sig. As I am definately not an alpha type of guy yet, I am pretty sure that most of the time I am not really congruent with a314. But I do think I am a ‘cool’ guy. I dress nicely, I make people laugh etc..
My question/discussion point is:
For guys like me, wouldnt it be better to use IG first, because it would be easier to be congruent with. And maybe later switch from IG to a314?
Overall, is it easier to be congruent to IG then to a314?
A314 is easy. Everywhere you go, act like you own the place (but stay friendly and playful!) You need no excuses for being who you are, for staring others in the eye until they look away or for expecting every woman in the place to be attracted to you.
The longer you postpone wearing A314, the longer the Fallout effect will take. Really, some mones can help shape the user. Be ‘The Man’ that A314 helps you become.
Look, imo there are three main personality traits that are “alpha” those are assertiveness…being able to speak up for yourself firmly yet without being an aggressive asshole.
Confidence, belief in yourself and your abilities without seeming unjustifiably arrogant.
And “cool” by cool I don’t mean trendy or even likable, though that is important too…it means being calm cool and collected under pressure…anger and stress management. Alpha’s don’t freak the fuck out at crunch time. Go to amazon and pick up some books/workbook on the subject.
Dale carnagies “how to win friends and influence people” is a good book for honing your social skills.
Alpha are above all else leaders. Any and all books by john Maxwell…amazon is your friend.
Read, follow, apply, practice, internalize. As you BECOME more alpha, your signal will carry more weight.
John Maxwell’s books are all great, there is not a bad one in the bunch.
However, since right now your main focus is picking up women, for quick immersion for dating go here and download this guy’s ebook:
John Alexander’s Alpha Male System’s The Lazy Man’s Way To Easy Sex & Romance
I think everyone’s point here was go for it with the A314. Start now, don’t wait. It will take some time to build up with friends and family, but with strangers you can pull it off as long as you follow their simple suggestions.
As the weeks pass and you learn some key leadership and socialization skills, well not just learn, ITERNALIZE and EMBODY them, you will BECOME that guy you know you can be.
OK I’m going to throw some things out that some may not agree with, but I really don’t care. I haven’t been at the pheromone thing for long, but I have been studying body language and leadership for years. I give a lot of newbies here advice on whether they should use IG or A314. My criteria are simple. I look at age and belief. If you think you can pull it off, then you can. If you think you can’t pull it off, then you can’t. I honestly believe that A314 get’s easier to pull off as you age, because androsterone increases as you age. People expect you to be more A314 like as you age. If you are younger and try to pull off A314 without actually having the skills you may just come off as cocky.
Here is the crunch, if you are really the Alpha in the room then it doesn’t matter what you are doing. Whatever you are doing is the right thing to do, unless it really goes against society then you better be able to pull it off. Alpha’s don’t make excuses for their behaviors. They aren’t trying to fit in and be someone. They are themselves and everyone else conforms to them. So roll your shoulders back, stick your chest out, lean back (BTW this is what they teach in the US Marine Corps) and be the best you that you can be. If you start being ok with yourself and make no excuses for anything you do, then you will be an Alpha and it won’t matter what you wear. Mones just enhance that and give you a good buffer.
Perhaps redundent. A314 already has androsterone in it but if I use 3-4 drops , the smell of something else in there is bad. So I just use 2 drops A314 and supplement with 2 IG. Oh and 1 IH to smooth things out.
not really, on the contrary it means, when females expecially alpha ones are exposed for quiet a while to someone wearing A314, they tend to get possesive with the guy as in marking their territory arround you a.k.a wanting you for themselves. this effect may be more pronounsed if u have been using IH along with A314
I’ve read that one, Leadership Gold, Today Matters, and the name escapes me but about Teamwork.
I own all of his 101 series but have not started it yet, and my girls gave me his Leadership Bible for Christmas..that’s a great addition even if you don’t believe in Christianity he uses the bible stories as examples to compare with his leadership books.
I’ve read the thread. It is by far the most serious and interesting thread on the forum. One of you prominent poster guys (you know who you are) should definately bump it ! I want to know what you guys think and hope you can carry the torch in that discussion.
Lol!