I’m a straight talk, no-bullshit, smart-ass type of guy. My friend once said" You say what others wanna say, but don’t!" I’m not really sure what I’m actually trying to say here and am having a hard time putting it all into words. I don’t try and hurt peoples feelings, I just don’t sugarcoat things to purposely NOT hurt their feelings. I have no problem with the ladies and am not socially shunned by any means
. People don’t despise being around me. What I guess I’m saying is that with A314 now my mone signature matches my personality and has so far been very warmly accepted by everyone. Almost like a “FINALLY!!!” They are no longer frustrated being around me(not sure if that’s what I’m trying to say exactly). Someone had said that there friends got aggressive with them when wearing A314… My reaction has been the complete opposite thus far.
I’ve been testing A314, also, lately. How much have you been wearing at a time? When I wear 4 drops at a time, certain women act pissy around me. It would be interesting to know if people react negatively to you when you wear more than you are right now.
How old are you? What’s your weight, body type, personality type, congruency vs incongruency level.
I’ll be 44 next month, overweight, am outgoing and my alpha vs beta would be roughly 75% alpha to 25% beta.
I got up to 4 drops and I didn’t like the reactions I got. basically people couldn’t make eye contact, women were clearly intimidated, I backed it back down to 2 and things are going great.
I’m 28 years old, 140 lbs, intense & hyper personality, and fall between (60%α, 40%β) and (40%α, 60%β).
One time, 4 drops A314 + 1 spray IH gave me the most complements I’ve ever gotten in one evening from male acquaintances, but the ladies seemed awfully quiet.
A couple of other times, I wore 4-5 drops A314, and certain women were noticeably bitchy and/or avoidant.
Yes, I feel you.
I always knew I was alpha, straight talk, said the things that made people uncomfortable, cause they are true, branded an asshole in some circles and a hero in others…since using A314…it’s like the reinforcement I always needed to complete the package. Now, my straight talk get laughs of approval, and my smart ass talk makes men back down…some betas try to bust my balls and without any effort, just a few simple words, they back down.
Cheers & Reps!
Have you tried backing it down just a bit, or upping the socials?
My fav mix and it seems as others around here include ammo with A314 plus another social.
If you check out my journal my last post I’m testing a whole series of ranges with this mix. A314 + Ammo + IS + IH or IO or CTTM2
The baseline I like right now is 3d A314 + 2s Ammo + 1s IH 4x, + 1/2 - 1s IS 4x.
What this does is give me the Alpha vibe, but attractive and approachable. It’s as if men see you as the go to guy, the leader who is approachable, and interested enough to take the time to mentor, and the women see you as strong, sexy, mysterious but someone they can connect with.
The men are seeing your status. Especially if you say you’re intense, if that’s a focused inensity not an emotional intensity then you are probably congruent with your phero sig.
Now women on the other hand can smell weakness on a man miles away.
There could be one or more issues occuring here.
- You’re not congruent with your alpha signature in terms of body language, vocal tonality and speed, and actions so they’re not buying it.
- They’re testing your alphaness for congruency by throwing up shit tests. This can take the percieved form of bitchiness.
- The avoidance is intimidation or “ghosting.”
You say you fall between 60/40 and 40/60, well that’s something you need to work on and as you do you won’t necessarily see less shit testing , but you will be able to handle it better. People will accept your phero signal more and more as time goes on.
Try dropping it down to 2 or 3, keep the IH but add Ammo, it really is a great mix.
Good luck!
I haven’t actually used it yet…j/k lol… I would follow thegentlemans advice(way more experience than myself), but I have only applied 4 drops on accident and definately had the “ghosting” thing happening… a spray of 2x SHINE and some AMMO helped later on but I would say with or without combonations of anything 2 at work and 3 in public seem to work for me. Some reason at work maybe how close we all work together, if I wear more than 2 people give me the “ghosting” scenario, but are forced to talk to me so it creates a tension filled work environment that I don’t care for that much. I work a three day weeks and use 2drops A314 day 1(1spray SHINE2x), 1 drop A314(1spray SHINE2X) day 2, and 3 sprays AMMO day 3(1spray SHINE2x). I do this to avoid none build-up and mentally I think my co-workers need less to re-act the same way as the work week progresses.Overall with the A314 and my current testing pattern I have noticed a lot more pats on the back. People touch me more since I added the SHINE2x to the work mix. I would like to lighten the effects I have with 3 drops at work, but haven’t tried adding IO or IH to the work mix yet.
When I work overtime I use my day 3 work mix all the time and am gonna dabble and see how much more AMMO I can get away with, because there are more women on the overtime shift.I would rank my current work mix as effective without using much product( for me that is). I want results, but cost effective results. I’m also gonna drop off the day 3 AMMO and just try SHINE2x and see how much none build-up I have from Day1 and 2 of A314.
And a side note more than 1spray SHINE2x after about an hour or so gives me a headache. It has happened 3 times while using SHINE2x alone
Thanks for the ideas. I do need to test the socials a lot more on their own; although, I already know that IS doesn’t get me the results I want, by itself.
Socials will probably be great for me with A314, as I think sometimes my level of intensity/energy makes people very uncomfortable. ![]()
I don’t have AMMO, yet, but will probably get some with my next order. Thanks, again, for the insights!