I received my first order yesterday (great free gift, thanks!) and opted to try out Instant Gentleman first.
So I got to work, one spray of IG to each side of the neck (2 in total), To Go size bottle at 8am.
Self effects: none I was aware of
The effects on others though, I thought coincidence at first but too many I think(?) to be total chance. Would appreciate hearing what others think.
Without going into details of my day (too boring!):
Female colleague who sits next to me was totally focussed, ignoring me beyond being polite when she had to be. She arrived around 9.30 so the scent had settled by then, I’m sure. I’ve never known her so focussed on her work. I didn’t attribute this to the IG though as there are a number of reasons it could have been down to and I’m not narcissistic enough to assume it’s down to me!
At lunch two shop assistants were very helpful and attentive - impossible to say if they are always this way or not but I felt they were perhaps going further than they had to to help. e.g. asking where something was and the lady giving directions then changing her mind and taking me there in the shop. Again, no means of proving this was down to the IG however.
Evening, no further application, from 6pm to 8pm: my partner was more chatty and happy than she has been for a long time. Again, no definite means of proving this was down to the IG.
Then I went to a bar at 8pm, again, no further application, where a good friend who has been keen to meet for a long time went from very friendly to very serious / avoiding eye contact / difficult to keep rapport in the space of a minute - it was that quick - literally a near Jekyll and Hyde transformation, and the barmaid, who I also know fairly well was friendly enough to us but someone else (which is key to this experience really as it made it beyond my own subjective observation) commented she was “very serious, why is that?” - their exact words.
So to summarise: IG seemed to make
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those I know fairly well as friends distant and serious (too many to be chance? what could cause this?)
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my partner very happy
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people I don’t know at all helpful.
Does anyone else have this experience of IG making people more serious and intense? Bear in mind I am new to all this ![]()
Does IG benefit from being buffered with a social? Did I OD on it at 2 sprays of “To Go”? I like the possible effects for my partner / people I don’t know but not at the expense of other relationships. Tomorrow I’m going to try Instant Openness on it’s own applied to the wrist to see what happens, and will report back, then I’ll try combining IG and IO in a couple of days.
And what does this mean for my use of A314 when I get round to that - absolutely minimal so I don’t alienate people further as if IG is having this effect I think from my reading A314 could be worse, or is it totally different?
Or is this entirely my imagination, heightened by expecting results, and nothing like the above could possibly happen with IG? ![]()
thanks! lots of questions, sorry!