Instant Honesty (IH) vs Instant Openness: the serious talker and the fun talker

From what I understand IH increases the seriousness and deepness of the conversation. It allows hidden private things of the other person to come out much more easily..as if they had a few beers or something. I believe it can be a usefull tool in building up comfort levels and a deep history with new relationships. It would also be good to use around someone who seems to have something they are holding back.

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Originally Posted by SwingerMD
I’ve always had a nack for starting up conversations with complete strangers. The -nol really amplifys this and I’m really able to control the situation. Then again, ODs tend to get a little outta hand.

Instant Openness still works like that (it’s great for people who start up convos), but communication is more meaningful, that’s all. A little less craziness, and more exchange.

Also check out this thread that covers more information on IO, CTTM2, spaceland, and IH.