anyone who’s tried both can tell the differences they found in terms of reactions from men?
Instant Sexiness A is strong, confident and in-charge. For a lot of guys this is a great attractant, and you’ll generally find that it attracts men who are looking for a woman with a somewhat more dominant personality.
Instant Sexiness B is softer, more playful and demure, sort of girl-next-door. This tends to attract men who are protective and want to take care of you.
These are generalities only, though. Everyone is different and there are not really any rules for what works best.
Wearing a phero that is not congruent with your personality can go one of two ways:
Either it can broaden the way people view you, and enhance personality traits that were otherwise overlooked;
Or it can create a very confusing pheromone signature as your natural pheros are not in sync with what you’re wearing. The effect you get often comes from how you wear them, whether your behavior is congruent or not.
I personally do not wear Instant Sexiness B. It is so far from my own personality that it leaves me feeling muddled and almost foggy.
thanks for the reply 
but Im still confused 
because I have both of those personality qualities! and I can’t think of what exactly my target is attracted too..
a little insight:
my target is my recently ex boyfriend who asked me for a break because he doesn’t seem to be attracted to me in a sexual way anymore.
my personality: I’m strong and independent, I don’t walk, I strut 
inside of the relationship, I was always the leader. My boyfriend is kinda clumsy and silly and I was always the one making important decisions and taking care of “the paperwork”. I pay the bills, if you will BUT , in bed, it’s basically the opposite! My boyfriend likes a girl who takes command and is spontaneous, he doesn’t like to “do all the work”, but he’s often the “one on top”.I like to be spontaneous in terms of starting a make out session but from then on I like the guy to take the lead
with that said, I’m inclined to think he’s attracted to someone who takes leadership (in bed) because thats something I stoped doing the last few months before us breaking up (I was always down and almost deppressed. he said he felt like I was just doing him a favor at times).
so maybe A?
I find the exact opposite… Instant Sexiness B would be closer to my personality but when I wear it, I sometimes feel like a dumb blonde! Whereas Instant Sexiness A gives me a confidence boost and I feel great wearing it. Suppose it just goes to show, everyone is different!