Hi all. I just got my order last week - I ordered Instant Shine, Instant Sexiness A, and Come Talk to Me 2.
I have tried all three separate, and have noticed no difference in people at all. I have also tried some combining, and noticed no difference in my mood or the way other people respond to me. I have asked a couple of guys about the scents, and they all say that they are alright but not great. What am I doing incorrectly?
Last night I went out with a group of friends. I tried 2 sprays of Instant Shine on my wrists and behind my ears and then I also tried 3 sprays of Instant Sexiness - one on my chest and two in my hair. If there was a reaction to me, it was probably more negative than normal. I almost felt invisible as people tended to notice me and talk to me less than normal, and it seemed like shortly after I arrived everyone got into a bad mood. A couple of the people even started disagreements about trivial matters. The group was a mixture of women and men (4 women and 4 men) and I had never met two of the men prior to last night.
I would really like this to work for me, and would appreciate any feedback.
You ordered some really nice stuff. Did you get advice before ordering these products or did you do your own research and figure those were the best for you?
I think in your case it’s all about going back to the basics. If you haven’t i’d like you to read these two threads and remember that pheromones + effort = power.
We can’t be 100% sure what is that you are doing or not doing to give some good advice so do this :
Most women keep a journal , start with one spray and work your way up to about 6 and record your findings.You can also make a thread and post about your experience everytime you use a particular product. Ensure you put in as much detail as possible. That way when we read your posts we can see step by step what’s happening and better assist you from there.
It’s cool, sometimes it just takes a bit of trying in a different environment. We will work it out together. Keep on testing and have fun while doing it.
I did a combination of my own research and suggestions prior to ordering. I researched the products and initially going to order Instant Sexiness and Instant Openness. I then got feedback recommending Instant Shine and Come Talk to Me over Instant Openness, in addition to Instant Sexiness.
I have not really been keeping a journal. I will start writing down what I am doing and see if I get any response from others.
I heard that sometimes using too much can cause a no reaction or blah results. I thinks pheromones are misunderstood much like hormones . for example birth control is designed to work with your already occurring hormones in order to control the levels in your body. for certain things to happen, hormones need to be at a certain level. for example : females have a certain amount of testosterone in their system. a low dose necessary for the instinct of reproduction to take place. at higher doses however , you will grow facial hair and males characteristics. so try using less.
I use CTTM and tell others to try it.
Every time I use it I find myself ready to chat to anybody and others that will open me to chat. Next time you have it on, you might catch yourself like I do and say wow I need to shut up now!! I put 2 sprays in my hair and that seems to really work for me.
Have you tried each product on its own yet? When you first start out, it is important to find your “sweet spot”, which is the amount of the product that provokes the best and strongest responses.
Take one product and use only that for a few days. Start with one sprays the first day. If no reaction, increase the amount of sprays. Vary the amount of sprays each day until you find the right amount that works best for you.
You also need to be able to identify what constitutes a response and what does not. Step back and carefully watch peoples reactions to you when you are not wearing pheromones. As you continue to test and use your phero products, you will gradually become aware of what is a real hit and what is not.
Sillykitty makes good sense. I’d start experimenting with CTTM2 first. That is a pretty innocuous but effective product. I’d be shocked if you didn’t start noticing some good effects when you hit the right dosage for yourself.
As far as the Instant Sexiness, my guess is that you are more of an IS/B lady. The TAL in IS/A can make a woman (or a man, for that matter) seem real bitchy if it doesn’t suit their personality. You can probably salvage your IS/A purchase by buying some TAH and spraying some of that over the IS/A. TAH is the main ingredient of IS/B.
Instant Shine is generally considered a “feel good” phero that is hard to screw up. I can, however, see it possibly amplifying a negative vibe that already exists. [Tisha is gonna jump in here and snarl at me for saying that.] The main thing I experience from the TAA in Instant Shine is the reduction of personal distance. I’d add the Instant Shine after I got a good feel for the CTTM2 (and Instant Sexiness, if you continue working with it) and you’re sure you’ve created a phero signature that people want to be close to.
