IS/b is in Neroli right?
I gotta learn the scent so I know to put mental blocks up when I visit these establishments.
nods
Problem with your notion is that a woman or a man can wear any assortment or kind of cologne/perfume on top of the product so you’ll never be able to identify another mone user through scent alone. You also know as well as I do that neroli fades very fast and women themselves are way more keen/sensitive of scent than we are.
Ha, thats interesting, almost like the fragrance was stopping the pheros from working properly or maybe the guys didn’t like the smell… hard to say…
Doesn’t IS/B create the effect that men want to protect you? That would explain them being so possessive.
I like reading your journal, because it gives me the impression of how men react to the mones in an environment where men are allowed to openly express sexual feelings.
I will try using IS/b without fragrance too.
Btw, have you tried out cops?
Sorry for the super duper delays. A girlfriend of mine drove up to visit and I spent a week (was supposed to be a 3 day visit - but that’s another rant lol) playing hostess and hanging out with her son (4yrs)
Anyway, most recently I’ve been feeling like I need to leave th IS/B alone. I dont have an increase in money. I’m still making my average, but I’ve also had some really really bad nights when wearing this. The IS/B isn’t wanting men to spend any extra money on me.
Last week, I was literally in the dressing room crying due to being groped and felt up so much. Not to mention this kid (maybe 21) literally sucked my breast! I dont play shit like that, and I was so upset all I could do was cry. The club was closing in 20min, so what was the point in throwing him out. I’d had enough that night…
If anything, they turn possessive and get upset that I leave them to go talk to other men 
shocking right. Last night was my most recently crazy moment:
Guy: yeah I love me some black p****
ME: 
Guy: Yeah, my wife is black..and I just love black women, and I have an 11 week old baby at home.
ME: So, lets dance.
Now usually, I wouldn’t have danced for him, but he’d been practically following/in my vicinity everytime i went to talk to someone. The dance was torture. he kept repeating the same lines ^above^ for 2 whole songs 
Couldn’t wait to be done with him, went back over to this table that had been treating me well all evening. Don’t you know “Guy” comes over to the area…while I’m sitting with my other friend telling him about my dance with “Guy”
ME: (whispers to friend) OMG tha’ts H-I-M
Friend: He’s a douche I can tell already (possessive eh lol)
Some Girl: Hey “guy” Pull up a chair and sit with us.
-Me and Friend are looking at her like WTF plz don’t, she didn’t notice-
Guy: yeah, I want some of my nubian goddess (looking over at me licking his lips)
Some Girl: Well, she has someone we’ll find somone else for you.
Guy: Nah, I want HER, my nubian goddess
Ok, so i’m like super uncomfortable, and so was everyone else. Like a few minutes after all this, everyone was back having a good time..or so I thought
Guy: (Standing up) So, she’s ur girl 
(talking to Friend, while i’m on his lap now)
Friend: Yeah we’re great friends
Guy: Well, then what’s her name
Friend: It don’t fucking matter
sigh
This is what I mean about possessive behavior and attitudes like this. This all happened on Monday night!
I dont know wha’ts worse..the possessive attitudes or the sexual assaults!
I have no idea why they are being so possessive. I am still very new to pheromones. Which cops (is there only 1) should I try out?
I think it was more that the fragrance was blocking the mones’ from properly working. But hey, maybe for some men I smelled horrid too lol 
Last night was interesting! On a whim, I went to work at 10pm!! Instead of my usual mix of IS/B I used IS/A instead (2 sprays chest) with Instant Openness (one spray each side of neck)
As usual I check in wit the DJ. On my way around I made eye contact with a guy and walked over. I told him that we’d be doing a dance. Within 10 sec the wheels were turning, and I had him in the back. 3 dances. He even told me he wasn’t trying to spend any $ tonight.
The jealous older guy from a few posts back returned. He’s a great guy, but only good for 1 song. But, i admit I enjoy his company.
The hightlight of my night. When my older guy is done doing our dance I walk around to the DJ booth (someone lost keys) and a guy jumped in front of me. He wanted a dance. When I returned from the DJ booth he was there, pulled out money and told me he wanted me to dance for his friend. I guess I wasn’t the friends type so my guy took me in in the back for a dance. During our first dance he was ok, closing in one the start of the 2nd he told me he’d like a VIP dance.
Great, I thought. He starts telling me he wants a BJ..which I do not do! I continued to explain this to him..he didn’t seem to care. He wanted me + BJ = great time lol
Make a long story short, we go back to VIP within 8 minutes he whipped it out on me. I excused myself and go the bouncer and he was kicked out.
All in all, I think I enjoyed IS/A more. Why you ask…I was very direct and upfront. Men were telling me how they like being told what to do, and that “you can do whatever you want to me” was told to me a few times during the night. I had NO groping/assalts/possessiveness going on.
The only thing diff about tonight vs the first time I used IS/A is that I used 2 sprays instead of one.
I plan to work tomorrow, and I’ll check out IS/A again.
Glad to hear IS/a is working well for you (sorry for the bad experiences that preceded it though). My initial thoughts when reading this journal were that, though IS/b is reported to be more effective in general, IS/a would be better in a strip club environment…most guys want a stripper who’s going to take control and shove their head between her boobs lol. IS/a should only amplify that aura that the dancer makes the rules and is in control of any contact.
Like you mentioned, the extra spray served you well. I would suggest that after you get a good grasp on how 2 sprays works for you after trying it several times, you should try experimenting with 3, 4, 5 and so on sprays. I would assume you could get away with more before experiencing negative effects since you’re using them in an environment that’s more sexual than most jobs or even most clubs.
Very very true. I think I’m on my very last sprays of Instant Openness though. I tried shaking the tube and felt nothing. I do have a togo of Instant Honesty though. Unsure of how that will work in my environment, but I love being the guinea pig.
Work last night was ok. Very odd night. Like odd as in 80% of the customers there were couples. I dont mind couples just not all are created equal. Most times the women can be snotty and not want you near their man (uh why come in here) though you get those gems who have more fun than the man.
I didn’t approach too many people last night to dance with (honestly I’m going through a mental burn-out) but I still managed to do decently better than the majority. As with the previous night, no groping. I did have one guy try to touch (down there) he worked very slowly..trying to find my comfort level. I quickly scolded him :o and he still ended up buying like 6 dances!
Towards the end of the night, I had one handsy (not even on the level of the IS/B men) guy who kept wanting to kiss and lick my neck and ear. I really think that was because I’d gone over my reapplication time (I try to apply every 2hrs)
(FYI: please guys don’t do this! It’s gross. I’m sweating and other men have tried to do the same - so yeah you’re just licking their spit )
I’m taking tonight off. Im super tired. I’m going to attempt 3 sprays tomorrow! Wish me luck!
I had a fun filled day with a girlfriend of mine. We went to eat, movies, then pool, then bowling!!! I NEVER have that much fun.
Anyway, haven’t seen her in forever. She is lesbian (aggressive femme) aka tom boy type. Anywho, I sprayed on 2 sprays on Instant Honesty (though it seems like I got more on my shirt than my chest) to my chest area.
We hope in the car and off to dinner. Within 5min of sitting down we’re talking about her past relationship and how she contracted a non-curable STD from an ex! I asked her what made her tell me something so private..She stopped, looked at me, and said, “you know I dunno..it just came out” she shrugged her shoulders and kept on talking.
Does Instant Honesty also have the capabilities to have others not only open up to you verbally, but body language wise? I ask because her body language towards me was very strong last night. She was almost shy (smiling tons) around me.
Side note: I was going to work tonight, but I’m tired…gonna just hang out alone tonight. Watch a game or something!
I think I OD’d on Instant Sexiness A the other night. I’ve been reading about how the mones can carry over into the next day. Well, there was 3 days that I worked straight last week..
I usually apply I/S A every 2-2.5hrs. I found myself spraying it on, but men didn’t buy. They’d look as if they were interested as I approached but once I’d start talking I could sense the disinterest. I also found myself hustling harder/being more pushy with my sale.
I didn’t make money the last 3hrs of my shift. I was cranky, super duput tired both physically and mentally. Usually I’m very happy and cheery. But that night I was everything but.
I wore mones to a strip club a few times. I wonder how it affects strippers like you
I was wondering this also.. Thinking about trying it out. anyone have any input?
Well I’ve suspected when guys were wearing pheromones. It’s odd. Its like I think they are super amazing, keep wanting to talk to them when in my mind i’m like, “ok we REALLY need to get back to work to make money” Whenever I get this vibe from guys (super great convo, and my less desire to hit the floor to make money) they usually aren’t spending anything. They are there to talk to girls, and maybe buy a drink here or there. So, I suspect they were using the SC as their training ground.
There was a guy last week about 26y/o who gave me the same vibe. While I was dancing for him, I got goosebumps all over my body I actually mentioned him some posts up. Anyway, I told him he has something that is putting me under a ‘spell’ I was trying to feel him out to see if he’d come clean. He told me he had showered with some Axe (I think) bodywash that morning that is made with pheromones in it. But, he assured me that he had used that earlier that morning, and by now it was well past 10pm. So..yeah I dunno.
My advice: Check it out an post in here with your results. But please, I BEG YOU don’t come without $$$. Pretty please..for me
I did visit a strip club a couple times with mones on, lol. I stopped by after drinking at local bars to sober up, heh. It DEFINITELY affected a couple waiters. One of them just sat by me, looked at me many times smiling, and didn’t even try to make me buy drinks, lol. I don’t know how if affects strippers though; they always show IOI’s to guys, so they can get them to buy some dances 
. Who knows though? maybe, my wearing AMMO + IS + TUTH + IH did affect some of them. One think I can tell you is that one of the strippers did recognize my face - out of hundreds of guys she sees 
P.S. I am not in Ohio, lol
Axe doesn’t have mones, so he was BSing to you. He might be using REAL mones, lol
Yeah, that’s what I thought too. Even if a bodywash did have mones in it, how many every people know what pheromones are?? Lol
Ok work last night sucked for me. I applied one spray to my wrist and rubbed together, then once to my chest. I hit the floor confident and feeling hot! Make a ling story short I sucked lol! My allergies were acting up all day yesterday. Dumb ass me went to work anyway, thinking that they’d get better once work started. Wrong! I was a mess. I hardly wanted to talk to anyone. I kept sneezing…goodness. What a waste of a potentially good night.
I’m heading to work tomorrow. I think I’m gonna work without any mones. Maybe my body needs a break from it. We shall see
anything new?
Why yes! Well..for the past 4 shifts I went ahead with no pheromones. I have however, been using a caramel scented bodyspray (VS) that men seem to drool over! Money is about the same sometimes higher than when I use the mones. I’ve noticed something. When I use mones’ I find myself tired after so many hours. Since I’ve been working without it, I’m going into work more often.
Hmm I’ve also had insomnia since I stopped using it too.
The other night, I used like the last drip drop of Instant Sexiness B. Like, the little tiny squirts I could muster out made like 1 good spray. Anyway, I had a great night. I felt great. I also didn’t have all the possessiveness and all the grabbing going on my bodyparts as when I was using the 2-3 sprays of that stuff.
I’m waiting on a new debit card (my old one finally expired) and plan to order new mones’ as soon as the card arrives.
I’m starting to feel like I dont need a pheromone to make me more attractive..I’m already hot enough What I need is something that will allows myself to build a great first impression, build rapport..and umm maybe even loyalty towards me.
I’m on the prowl to build regulars (customers who only come in to see me) and I’m looking for something to reel them in.
I’m really curious about the instant shine. I still do kinda like Instant Sexiness B though. I also stopped using Openness along with the Instant Sexiness (A and B) Dunno why..I’ve never used my ToGo of Instant Honesty.
I wont be heading back to work again until Wed. Who knows, I may try out Instant Honesty all by itself and see how it treats me.