For experimental views:
Androsterone on female skin is roughly 20 pmols. Men range from about 20-1000. You can combine male essence with a mix of Sexiness A and B. Women have tested wearing straight AMMO, A314 and TUTH. Generally, they seemed to strong for female use. You might get some perfumer’s alcohol, empty TOGO’s and dilute AMMO. Women occasionally wore a 1/2 spray of TUTH. These were hetero. The AMMO and Sexiness are backed by guarantee. A starter dose might be 1 spray of ammo diluted with 3 parts alcohol.
Data on erone is from the book The Scented Ape. Combining Instant Sexiness A or B with 1/4 to 1/2 spray of diluted AMMO might fit the context below. Data on bisexuality and pheromones is lacking. I can offer no promises, only some experimental ideas based on books and previous user reports. You are correct however, gay men respond as straight women to men wearing male mones.
Gay or not gay your going to use the same pheromones as hetros would wear for there gender. Gay women are attracted to womens pheromones spiked with just a tiny bit of male essence. Gay men are attracted to male pheromones with just a small amount of softening female pheromones. I do think part of your problem is you are using alot pheromones for the wrong gender. Its sends confusing messages. If she is gay she will be attracted to female pheromones. If she is BI she will be attracted to both. If she senses a heavy male signature coming from you perhaps she thinks you are involved with a man. Simular to the effect cops on a man has the player effect.