Hey everyone. I’m Meg, I’m a female in my mid 20?s. I from the hand state! The U.P actually?brrr. I first heard about pheremones in my human sexuality class in college. The topic fascinated me but I was also very skeptical. We did a lot of research on it in class and it seems to me that its something worth looking into. I have been looking up stuff on pheremones online lately and I really think I want to give them a try.
A little more background information. I have been dating the same guy for 3 years now. We lived next to each other in the dorms our freshman year and the rest is history. I really do believe he is the one. We have lived together for over a year and as you all probably know things tend to get comfortable and sometimes routine. Id say we have a good sex life but it has definitely slowed down some since the initial ?honeymoon period? **
** Recently I have found out that I have been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis and it has been a really hard time for me. I know he doesn’t see me any differently but in my mind I wish he could have better, like a girl who will be healthy and he wont have to be tied down dealing with everything the future has to bring. I also have been a little down in the dumps so obviously not in the mood for any alone time really. But I want to get the spark back, and I need help doing so. His sex drive is always a lot higher than mine so anything that could help would greatly benefit our relationship. Plus im also a little reserved and need help breaking out of my shell. I have been researching the pheremone perfumes and colognes and there are many ![]()
Welcome Meg.
There is a lot of advice available on how to spice things up, but I’m going to suggest something a bit unusual to try. The social product IH often stimulates conversations about the things people really care about and that are on their minds. You might give it a try. Who knows what a really good conversation with someone close can lead to?
Hi meggy, welcome! I’m sorry to hear about your diagnosis. You have your chin up and getting through it and that’s a positive sign of something better for you.
I would suggest IShine for yourself as well as IS/A. IShine will be a comforting/comfortable vibe that I get in self effects and others around you as well. However, the IS/a is a bit of an Angelina Jolie vibe, sexy in a tough way. You’ll need to adjust your attitude to be mone in line with that vibe.
I would also suggest you get AMMO for HIM. You can dab a bit of it on your upper lip to try to see if you get self effects of a sexy man vibe… with the reactions to that vibe. If he wears it around you, you may have a bump in that sexy attraction.
Conversations are the BEST in deepening attraction. Honest conversations about YOUR feelings along with Listening intently to what HE also wants and feels about the situation will deepen your feelings toward each other. Mones are a smaller part of the equation, but, will help if YOU put yourself forward.
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Welcome Meggy,
Alpha and some of the married women on this forum can give you some excellent advice seeing that you guys have been together for some time and living together.
In a marriage things can get that way especially if you don’t work towards spicing things up etc.
With the help of these mones and the advice of the more mature , married crowd we will be able to help you
I have heard of your condition but didn’t know too much about it so I had to use my faithful friend google
Everything happens for a reason and nothing happens per chance and I am super glad your guy is by your side at this moment and it shows a lot that he isn’t going to bail out
I hope everything works out for you
Your gc was issued!