I’m a 21 yo male, from the middle-east. I’m considred as a smart guy (Got my BA very early when I was 17). Currently I work as a programmer.
I’m considered quite a charismatic person, and when I’m at work I can sometimes be very scathing and cynical. I can describe myself as cynical, nihilist, atheist, depressed, skeptical, pessimistic and introvert
Objectively I can be seen as a person with quite a good life, But unfortunately it is far from that. Around two years ago, I became clinically depressed - I’ve been taking pills (currently Zoloft) for the last 1.5 years. It seems to stabilize my situation, But it’s still there in the back of my head - It affects my concentration at work, and me often being down and just wanting to sleep.
But I didn’t came here to fix this issue - as it is not something that can be magically fixed (Not even by pheromones, I guess) What I came here for is my (non-existent) sex life.
First thing first - I am still a virgin, and I believe I’m gay (I’m not attracted to women at all) - not the feminine type, but also not the manly-type.
I’m not an outgoing person and I’m very used to being alone. I hate parties and as I’m still in the closet I can’t allow myself to go to a gay bar and the such. I tried browsing some gay meeting websites and even met this one guy for sex, But I was so nervous so I just couldn’t do it (imagine how embarrassing that is…)
I do, however, work at a place where many of the men are (closeted) gay (though they don’t explicitly say so - but they often give hints), So I do sometimes have the chances. I have been given/giving teasing to some - but it still seems a little far from going further - And I believe I could use a push there.
Hopefully I didn’t offend anyone with me being gay and such (It is a liberal forum, isn’t it? )
I’d appreciate advice for the described situation - Thanks !
Thanks for the introduction it provided a lot of information. Since you do believe that you are not into women i will make suggestion for you as being interested in males. Noone here will judge your sexual orientation so you will not have to worry about that.
I think you should start by looking at the socials which will help you to relax, feel more confident and help others to open up to you as well. Start by looking at Instant shine, Instant openness, and instant honesty as these are great for social interactions. Instant shine will make you and those around you happier and it will give you some confidence and ability to be more social.
The other that i would reccommend that is for men attracting men is mystery boy, however it is currently out of stock. You could always set it so they send you an email when it becomes available again, or call the 1 800 number and ask them personally if they have any information pertaining to the product and its future availability.
I still not sure that any of the above match my issue - I can be quite social when needed, and I consider myself quite confident.
What I do need is something that will help me go further with other guys, and make other guys who already know me being more attracted to me (I do have the looks but for some reason it doesn’t seem that anyone is attracted to me.. or at least not expressing it)
I understand what you are saying and thats why i suggest mystery boy. But since its not in stock if you used instant openness it may help to break down the other mens barriers and be more open and blatant in their hits on you that you can recognize, it may help them to express that they are interested in males as well. Im sure others will be around to make their recommendations as well so hang tight !
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