Introduction:
Hello, a) Your age, or general range Hi, I am in my mid forties, Married 23 years.
b) Sex (male, female), I am the husband of 1 wife and father of 5 wonderful children. (makes me male)
c) General location (don’t worry, nobody wants to stalk you ), Location is mid USA America IOWA to be exact
d) Most importantly, tell us a bit about yourself, your personality, why you’re here, and what you hope pheromones will do for you. SWM looking to respark my spouce. Willing to get help from all areas. She doesn’t seem to repsond to other pherimones that I have purchased. Wondering what to try next.
d) Tell us some more about yourself!
i. when did it start going slow?
ii. has it just become slow in the bedroom or in other areas of your life together?
iii. who traditionally starts up the spark between you? ie. takes the active part? describe where in the interaction something has changed?
Also what was it you tried before? and using it for what part of your relationship? Are you two still on good terms?
One thing I must comment on is that she is most likely used to your signature sent. Whatever you end up trying you may want to use it gradually so that she gets accustom to the change. Before she may have not known how to act to the change of vibes or maybe gotten confused.
That being said, tell us more about your situation and we can help more! At the same time it will help you qualify for a $25 gift certificate!
Welcome to the board man,
tell us what u have tried so far, including doses. Sometimes it can take your significant other awhile to respond, since she so use to you. My personal favorite with the mrs is a314 and ages shots of tuth. How well it works on her though in my experience is cycle point dependent. Works best mid-cycle IMHO. Let us know your experiences so far.
Hey - believe it or not there are a couple others of us around here that are not young and looking to meet someone somewhere …lol.
There is a thread in my signature block writeen just for guys like you. Give it a good long read - follow the threads a little to get some of the details - and when you are done please ask any questions.
The big thing to remember is that these products add to interactions and relationships, they do not really create them.
That being said, good reading and let us know what you decide to do.
Long story, My wife was a sexual abuse victum as a child. Our sex life has never been what it should be. In Mar. she snapped at me one morning. Found out that she was heavily flirting with a toned exfriend from church. She had just told him she wanted to leave me. I had been trying to promote our marriage. Since then it has been double duty trying to restore our marriage and improve our sex life. The pheromones have been the type you buy premixed in colone at the deptment store counters, to what you buy at the back of the magazines… Pherlure is what I still have in the bathroom vanity. I don’t use it all the time. Really doesn’t seem to make any difference if I use it or not. Things seem to be going a little better. We have a crusie planned Mar. 1st. purely coincidental… We took one in Mar. 4 years ago. I really didn’t plan on using it everyday. Just for the special occassions??? How should I use it???
Haven’t used pherlure myself, but most of the user reports on it are hit and miss at best. I would hang around the board and read all the stickies to learn what’s in each of the products sold at smartmones. At least here you know what your gettn.
Pheromones are not magic and can only assist. You also have to remember that if it’s simply a problem in bed then pheromones can do more than wonders but if there are issues deeper than that they will have to be addressed before pheromones can work for you.
Being married 23 years definitely means something and that is so many years to spend with someone and of course you want to try everything to ensure you guys have many more years together.
What type of personality does your wife and yourself have and what type of guy turns her on?
I suggest taking a look at the threads that bossy suggested and from that I think you will know exactly what products can assist if any.
Personality types: Connie is usually fairly shy until she gets to know you. I tend to be more outgoing. I was devasted when I learned of her intended affair. I became more withdrawn. She is more outgoing than she used to be. She prefers a toned person, (which I am struggling with). She is starting to tone up herself. I used to be the more toned person. She still has a slight more body fat than myself, but is losing weight faster. We are both considered fairly slim yet.
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