Is it love or is it pheromones?

:slight_smile: This is a question that i hope someone can answer. I have a friend, the relationship now is platonic, the problem is this, she has a former boy friend, who she cant seem to stay away from, even though he has browbeat her, told her she is worthless, openly flaunts his relationships (sexual) with other women. He has an erectile dysfunction, gets drunk and is verbally abusive to her. Yet she seems to think that he is the greatest thing in the world. i asked her why she loved him so much. she couldn’t give a definite answer, just that she couldn’t explain it. Based on this information, could he be using a pheromone to attract her. I have met him and i cant understand what the attraction on any level would be. He has numerous times called her a bitch and whore, would any woman in her right mind have anything to do with someone like this? Is it love or is it pheromones?

Hello Welcome to the forum :slight_smile:

No its not mones they dont work in that way. Its hard to say why she stays with him because I dont know her but she probably stays with him because she has low self esteem issues.

Mones can influence and enhance but they dont change a person or make others go against free will.

No she wouldnt so basically you anwsered you own question. She is not in her right mind. Not to be insulting but sometimes past experiences can leave a mind rather scarred.

Its neither, its dependence.

If you have a interest in mones and joining the group we would love to have you here. Just let us know a bit about you and what kind of effects you would like to see from mones and I will issue you a GC. :wink:

Tisha

welcome to the forum dorn :slight_smile:

tisha answered ur question perfectly… pheromones just enhance an interest that was already in place.

just tell us a bit about ur self and ur interests :slight_smile:. then we can give u some suggestions and a GC as tisha said :smiley:

bond

Welcome Dorn!

You know way too much about that girl’s ex lol :smiley: :smiley:

I think she is too obsessed with him too if all the information you have given are accurate :wink:

I don’t think that pheromone alone will be that powerful, the at least it is not only pheros that is doing that to her.

Hey welcome Dorn

I agree sad but true, all you can do is be there for her and support her it’s a vicious cycle, that most people don’t get out of, ultimately with time and support she might realize this.

Welcome anyways hope you have fun on here.

Ciao “J”