It's a Tea party!

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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Making little notes for myself :slight_smile: Hurray for mini-hits!

Went out today with DM (homosexual male) and phero friend (hetero female), plus DM’s bisexual male friend who I met for the first time today.

Only a bit today!
IHx2 to back of neck
ISx2 to back of head/hair (trying to prevent the sleepy crash)

DM and I cuddled as usual. We’re very affectionate :slight_smile: But he seemed a little sweeter than normal today… I don’t think he protested once to my cuddling and snuggling, though he usually will jokingly.

I was wearing a very nice top today that really accentuates my chest and thin waist. It’s very unique as well, so by itself it garners attention, but…

I got a sure hit from a middle-aged white woman with a tan and bleached blond hair. We were walking in opposite directions, and the moment she was parallel to me (only a few inches away, as it was kinda crowded) while passing, she spouted “I like your shirt” to the air in front of her, not looking or turning towards me at all, and without stopping or slowing. I did a 180 to shout a thank you at her back, but she just kept on going like she hadn’t said anything. :confused: Weird.

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I really need to update this journal a bit. Pshaw. Good thing I’ve been keeping more detailed notes on my computer, or I would have forgotten everything…

IHx4, back of neck, back of head
ISx6, elbow bends and wrists, chest, back of neck
EoW, 2 drops (I applied these… er, “down south,” if you will. Not precisely there, but around. Well, it was a bad idea. Highly acidic alcohol on sensitive bits? OUCH. Live and learn!)
Pink Sugar
I was in the mall waiting for my pals to show up, and this mother carts her baby girl by me. The girl didn’t see me at first, but then turned 180 degrees in her cushioned stroller thing and began staring at me. I waved and smiled. She didn’t take her eyes off me, and didn’t smile back. Her mother parked the stroller and began tying up the girl’s hair, and the girl suddenly smiled at me and followed me with her eyes until she got carted away. The mother (dark-skinned, best guess is middle eastern), ignored me completely. This was maybe 5 hours after application.

IS/A:TGx2
I had been totally afraid IS/A would turn me into a bitch. Not so! People were pleasant and I didn’t snap at a single person :slight_smile:

IS/A:TGx2 to chest
MX135x2 to chest
All in all, I had a good time with this combo. I really liked it.

IS/A:TGx2, chest
IHx4, chest and back of neck
ISx2, chest
MX135x2, chest
Basically I was happy with the IS/A+MX135, so I added my socials :smiley: Probably should have tested a bit more, but… :roll_eyes: Well I had a really good day, despite being very depressed for several days surrounding it. The IS/A and MX135 compliment each other really well, in my opinion. The Honesty mellowed everyone out, and the Shine kept me happy despite my glum mood.

In other news, Panda Bear is no longer a target. He treated me poorly on an accidentally phero-free day, and if that’s the way he treats the ‘naked’ me, we won’t work with or without pheromones.

Oh well :roll_eyes:

My Cheetah, though… it looks like we’re gonna be slutty buddies. Jeez. Things are jumping all over the place!

Long-term, I’ve noticed something else…
I’m a person who needs a lot of alone time. I will occasionally isolate myself from communication (turn off phone, stay off internet, etc.) for days or weeks. Still, though, I would normally go out of my way to spend time with someone who asked. I just never sought company. If someone else sought mine, I would most often comply, regardless of how crummy I felt.
Well, I have no idea whether it has anything to do with pheros, but lately I’ve been isolating myself even more. I’ve blown off several invitations in the past few weeks, for reasons no better than “Eh, I’m not in the mood.” Perhaps my Social Tolerance Meter is being filled faster? Heh. I dunno. I thought it was odd and figured I’d mention it.

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Oooo, chica, we have to talk…lol. You’re not the only one who thought that’s where I meant when I said …near there…not on there. So did Chickadee. Jeeze Louise, I was trying to be delicate about it. So much for that! :stuck_out_tongue: Ima clear up any further misconceptions…I nev..ah…put it on the part or anywhere near the parts…that rhyme with bit…:open_mouth:. Here’s wear I put it, exactly, when goin’ “down south”..ahem…it goes in the crease of my thighs right next to the foatee…rhymes with goatee. Aaaand, yes, it goes into the crease of the other entrance, too. Mkay? So much for subtlety. Now you know all my secrets. :o :smiley: Do you think I talk about this stuff with ANYBODY ON THE OUTSIDE?..besides Wolfie? Uh, no. A big fat no I don’t…lol. My best friends don’t know nothin’ that goes on sexually between me and my man. Don’t want a freakin’ line forming outside my door. :stuck_out_tongue:

You’re also getting reps for your “Adventure In Pain”…lol. Sorry about that, Tea. :roll_eyes:

Bella

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It works for me when I buffer it… which I always do…since I learned, early on, that Ima little naturally IS/A and I need to buffer it or it can get :open_mouth: quickly. I max out at two sprays, even buffered.

One of my favorite combos is:
Mx135-2/3 sprays
Instant Sexiness/A-2 sprays
Instant Honesty/4X- 2/3 sprays
Scent of Eros For Women
I also love this combo with EoW and/or Instant Sexiness/B

This is a winner for me. I find that the MX135 tempers the IS/A very well. If I need a little more…a shot of TAH or Instant Sexiness/B will tone it down… depends.
If I’m goin’ out I usually take it easy on the EoW. It draws a lot of attention…and, as we said, it can be unwanted. :roll_eyes: Also the above combination is really attractive enough without it. Instant Shine works well on others, but no Shine for Bella…does nothing for me.

Well, Tea, if it makes ya feel any better I get like this and feel the need to retreat. I get tired of being bombarded with all the yadda yadda. Leave me the f alone…ya know I love ya…I’ll come out when I’m ready, I need a break, mkay? Does anybody remember when there was no cell phones or internet? I hate the freakin’ phone. I have absolutely np being alone or amusing myself. When I go away it, seriously, doesn’t bother me to be out of touch…I like it. :slight_smile: Often the incessant/nonsensical chatter of people annoys/wears me out. Enough already. Don’t get me wrong I like people…but I, also, get “full”.

This is funny…When I was younger and lived in my own apartment sometimes when the phone rang, especially, if I was sleeping…I’d pick up the receiver without raising it to my ear…drop it back into the cradle…lift the receiver again…then drop it onto the floor. Therefore it would be busy until I put it back on the hook. Hey! My feeling was/is it’s, often, an unwanted intrusion. Sorry. I just don’t feel obligated to talk when I don’t feel like it/am freakin’ sleeping! Unfortunately, I’m unable to do that, now, as often as I’d like…such is life.

It depends, for me. Sometimes I actually need/get a refill that I didn’t know/realize I needed. Wolf has to drag me out. If he didn’t insist I’d, often, be content to stay home. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a serious party animal at heart…but I have to be in the mood. Then I’ll put ya ta bed. :wink: No kidding.

Just remember, don’t cut yourself off for too long. It’s good, sometimes, to get out even when you don’t especially feel like it. Ya gotta connect with others. It’s what makes the world go 'round and life worth living. Plus you’ve always got us. :slight_smile:

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Haha, I have to admit I got the idea from you. My logic was, hey, that’s about where they come from in the first place, right? It might even make more sense to apply there, right?
Well, I guess it was okay in the end, buuuut… :roll_eyes:
And thanks for the mega rep drop :smiley: for my lack of foresight of all things. Lol.

Hm. I think my next purchase will include some IS/B. EoW is something I haven’t quite figured out yet… I’ve worked between tiny smidgens up to four drops, and I shouldn’t need much… eh, no hurry I guess :slight_smile:
Mind if I try this combo out myself? :smiley:

I think the IS/A adds a nice sexy kick. I never noticed significant sexual hits from MX135 alone… it was attractive, fun, and hardcore feminine, but the IS/A basically turned it from “party girly girl” to “party girly girl who tents my pants”… or something.

I hear yah… I never pick up the phone anymore :roll_eyes: If it’s important, they can leave a message. The only person I talk to is my Cheshire, but he’s special… though I have to admit, I’ll ignore his calls occasionally…

I keep my cell phone near my pillow because it functions as my alarm clock. But I sleep really odd hours, and will pick up the phone in my sleep before I’m coherent enough to realize what’s going on. Happened to SteveO when he called… hehe.

I’m a bit of a loner, but I’ll keep that in mind. Hah, I feel awkward in party settings, but I always love getting together with a small group of friends…
Usually, I’m a read-only forum member. But you guys are just so killer cool, I had to join in on the fun :stuck_out_tongue: So thanks for having me, everyone!

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Mi combo esta’ su combo. :smiley:

LOL. I get great hits with MX135 alone…with Instant Sexiness/A …and Eow…it’s EeeeOoooW! :stuck_out_tongue:

Me too. Though I’ve joined a coupla other forums, I rarely post. This is “home”. :slight_smile: :wink:

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aww tealeaves, ur such a sweetie :slight_smile:

i’m really difficult and a bit of a moody loner also, if that helps. i just have to be in the “mood” to interact with people and sometimes my negative vibe even overpowers mx135. (ya im relaly moody hehe)

but dont worry tho.. people close to u should be able to see what a sweet and a nice person you are.. and i think that’s all that matters :slight_smile:

and thanx again for visiting my journal also :slight_smile::slight_smile::slight_smile:

<3 remmy

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Whew! I’ve been out of commission lately, and missed about a week and a half’s worth of posts in the women’s section, and it took me about three extra days to catch up to you chatterboxes :stuck_out_tongue:

I have no idea what is actually wrong, but I’ve been experiencing bad pains just under my rib cage. 60% of every day was spent sleeping, or trying to sleep, as I would wake every two to four hours. I’m considering going to the hospital, but I’d really rather not.

Well! Before I got sick or whatever, I decided to try a little experiment. I’ve been going pheromonally ‘naked’ for the past three weeks or so, except for once when I went job hunting, and a few times I tried Bella’s mix. I wanted to really understand the ‘base’ I have to work with–my natural signature. So, martyr that I am (read: lazy frump), I’d gone from bathing daily/everyotherday to every three days. I had also used natural deodorant and perfume (usually Pink Sugar) to prevent mass hysteria, so my pheros could reign free without the charming addition of BO.

Empty-headed mess that I am, I forgot how my natural pheromones make me act… The few weeks or months ago that I gave natural deodorant a whirl, I was an unpleasant shrew the entire time. I didn’t remember until yesterday, actually.

There have been a lot more conflicts between my friends and me during this testing period. I’ve been crankier and more demanding, less inclined to use polite words (and have avoided using them just because they were ‘polite words’), apparently more full of myself, more likely to belittle or degrade others, etc…

Phero friend sarcastically referred to me as “your majesty” and told me to get off of whatever high horse I rode in on. She had snapped and told me she’d had enough of my recent behavior. My first instinct was to attack her back, but I realized (before I managed to screw things up worse) that it would be a bitchy thing to do, and she had a right to complain if I was treating her as poorly as she claimed I was.

With my Cheshire (who I interact with solely through the phone, as he lives too far away) there were maybe two little fights in the past three weeks, and before this, the only time I had fought with him was an argument surrounding our break-up.

I think I also had a minor psychotic episode :confused:

I hate the smell of my natural pheromones.

Summary:
I AM…
Bitchy
Rude
Inconsiderate
Stuck-up
and
Oblivious to it

WELL. This is my ‘base formula’.
Aren’t I lucky? :roll_eyes: At least this answers a few questions.

Before this experiment, I had been unsure of whether I’d be ordering IS/A or IS/B. Guess which one I’m going for now? LOL. It’ll probably be like trying to tie a ribbon around an ax head, but at least I know how badly I need the balance of the softer pheros :stuck_out_tongue:

The report on your mix is coming up soon, Bella :slight_smile:

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Hi Tea! :slight_smile: Chatterboxes? Who us? :smiley: Wondered where you’ve been. Nice to see you. Not nice to hear you’re not feeling well.

Nobody wants to go to the hospital, but sometimes you have to. How long have you had this pain? And you have no idea what’s wrong? Get your butt to a doctor, girl, pronto! Don’t make me come over there. Seriously, Tea, don’t fool around with this…go.

Scary mon.

That’s what friends are for…to tell ya when ya fck up…that’s their job. Swat happens when they get sick of your sht. :roll_eyes:

There ya go. Good girl. Just to make you feel better…I’ve been referred to as “She Who Must Be Obeyed” by “He Who Shall Remain Nameless”. Ahem. Little me? :roll_eyes: Gotta watch those aggressive tendencies/instincts just like pheromones. For me they’re like seasoning. A sprinkle or two’ll do it. Too much ruins the recipe. Learning to control our natural/biochemically induced tendencies is, to say the least, sometimes difficult. Especially around those closest to us. Who easier to attack? Think first…engage mouth second. These are your nearest and dearest. Remember to show the love. :wink:

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Mkay. So now you know, and so do the rest of us, that you should bathe at least…what?..every other day? :stuck_out_tongue: Not a crime not to bathe every day. Every girl is a stinky girl once in a while. Plenty of stinky boys out there too. It’s good/an education! to be curious/need even forced to smell your own self. I’ve gone as long as a week without bathing :open_mouth: …lol…long story. Some people don’t even know they stink. See, that’s how we’re different…we know we stink! Dun stop us any…lol

Well ain’t no luck about it, I’m afraid. There’s more to consider. Maybe there are a few more questions that need answering?

I’m thinkin’…hum…you said you have a higher testosterone level, no? So you’ve been tested, right? Were your other hormone levels tested as well? If not you should ASAP. Sounds like a hormone imbalance to me. If so and this concerns you, and you haven’t already done so, you may be able to work something out with your Dr. that could/would improve/level out your mood if corrected and help you feel a little more balanced. Or do I got it wrong? Don’t know if you’ve considered it or it may be too personal to answer…just a thought. Anyways it might explain, to an extent, these feelings/attitudes/actions. I mean I know you’re an outspoken alpha gal with a strong personality, but you can be plenty alpha without being the..ahem…above mentioned. I think you’re being too hard on yourself.

I coulda told ya that. :smiley:

Now you’re getting the picture. :roll_eyes: Join the club. There are more of us than you think. :wink: And we haven’t killed anybody…yet. There is hope. Trust me.

Looking forward to it, chica. :cool: Good to have you back.

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Oh no! I’ve only just read this. Has it gotten any better since a few days ago? If not, I’m comin over with Bella to get your behind to the doc!

And LOL about your Base Formula. Isn’t it weird how each of us needs a slightly different TAH/TAL/socials/cops balance?

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Hey Bella! Good to be back! Nice to see you again too :smiley:

Actually, I’ve totally recovered! I knew I was steadily improving; that’s why I kept putting off the visit. I originally had an appointment for today, but I’m going to cancel. Thank you very much for your concern, and the loving kick in the ass :slight_smile:

Heh… yeah. I’m just glad they care enough to beat some sense into me

I hear yah. It upsets me badly when I hurt or piss off someone I love. Usually I don’t even know what I’m doing, because I’m socially inept in the first place and am usually in my own little bubble of obliviousness :frowning:

This time, I’m going a MONTH! :stuck_out_tongue: Better watch out, everybody.
Hehe. I was actually very surprised when no one flat-out told me I was funky. I guess they can’t smell my pheros?

Oh, thousands! :roll_eyes: But it’s a good start. I’ll take it.

I believe/d that I produce more androstenone than the average woman. I suppose testosterone would be a cause of that. No, I’ve never had my hormones tested… should I? I have no knowledge in the subject, so I don’t know how a hormonal imbalance would affect me, but I’ll look into it :slight_smile:

Actually, the more I think about it, I’m probably a beta girl with a helluva bitch shield :roll_eyes: The force is strong with this one.
I can’t imagine myself really being alpha. Situationally, maybe, buuut… I was a very meek little girl. That is still who I am underneath all the crap. Maybe my psychological alignment and my pheromonal alignment are conflicting, and that’s my problem…

Time for a little self-searching! :slight_smile: Thank you, Bella!

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I’d say I’m at 95%, and only because I need some serious sleep :slight_smile: Thanks very much for your concern, Kitten!

Seriously. I didn’t think everyone’s pheromonal makeup could be that different, or even matter that much… Especially since we bathe so often and wash the pheros off anyway :roll_eyes: Oh well. Being unlucky makes life more exciting :smiley:

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Okay, I haven’t really been around lately (again), and Bella I still owe you that report :o but I just wanted to say… I love TAH.

So, right, new order from Androtics :stuck_out_tongue:

IS/B
TAH 10mcg/spray
P83 7.5mcg/spray
MX274 to go size
Instant Openness to go size (which they gave me as a gift! :slight_smile:)

Well, about TAH, I went to a live music venue the other day and wore IS/Bx3, TAH20mg, IHx6, and ISx4. The crowd leaned more towards the dark/metal/alternative side, as most of the music was very heavy. I wore a pretty shirt with sparkles on it :roll_eyes: so I ended up not really meshing well with the crowd. (It was my last clean shirt okay! warily eyes giant pile of laundry)

Sooo, the bands were playing and all (it was a very up-close-and-personal type venue) and everyone was either head banging, punching other people in the face, or throwing up “the horns.” I was just sitting there with a big grin on my face, being happy, and not feeling like I need to outwardly project my enthusiasm at all. A friend noted how quiet I was being, and someone I met for the first time that night asked if I was even enjoying the music.

TAH seems to really internalize me. I’m quiet, lady-like, and don’t give a snowball about how people see me. My posture was so spine-straight that night that I was actually a bit sore from standing so long without relaxing. Usually I don’t slouch anyway, but you could’ve balanced an egg on my nose. These things are true with MX135 as well, but IS/B seems to give me a sort of quiet confidence that I really like.

I wanna test more! I really do! But the only times I’ve been able to get out lately has been for work… anyone notice that I haven’t mentioned work yet? You know the saying… if you can’t say something nice… :roll_eyes: I’m job hunting.

By the way, if anyone was curious about Panda Bear… lol… I see him sometimes still, but don’t pay attention to his reactions (if there are any). I realized we just don’t click and lost interest after that, so I don’t wear(/waste) pheros around him anymore. He’s still cute though :wink:

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Great report Tea.
So what did the sparkly shirt look like? I am intrigued.
Also, are you okay? Ummm, mb still visit the doc? Could be a funky gallbladder…

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http://i33.tinypic.com/34edz7c.jpg
Generally, I have a strict no-sparkle policy for clothes, but I really like this shirt anyway :slight_smile:
I guess it’s not exactly “pretty,” but it’s much girly-girlier than what 90% of the other chicks were wearing. Most were in all black, black+jeans, corsets, fishnet leggings… etc :smiley: At least I glowed under a black light!

As far as my health, I’m sure whatever was wrong has passed fortunately. Though hearing all of your suggestions to get checked out has got me thinking it wouldn’t hurt… I mean, if everything is okay, great, I waste an afternoon maybe; if something is actually wrong, well, good thing I listened to you guys :roll_eyes:

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Nice order Tea…more to play with! :smiley: I’m still testing other stuff and haven’t ordered MX274 yet…maybe I’ll get around to it before it disappears. Let us know how you like P83…I’ll be curious. I just put in a report that includes it in a mix I’ve been testing.

I ain’t goin’ anywhere…lol

You are not alone, chica. What can I say about TAH? That it’s wonderful?..marvelous?..too marvelous for words? Brace yourself…I may start singing…

I love a girl who’s got her own style…so many follow trends…attractive or not…running with breakneck speed to keep up…to buy something “different” so they can look like everybody else. :roll_eyes:

Perfectly acceptable…though this has been known to dictate “style” in and of itself…lol…look the other way…oop, no…dishes…maybe the ceiling? :stuck_out_tongue:

TAH is interesting this way. I find it to be very mood directed when I wear it. I wore it under similar circumstances and had a surprising, unexpected result. I should report on that, I guess. There’s a thread that I’ve linked for the ladies a couple of times that discusses TAH in this way. If you’re interested I’ll insert the link or PM you if you’d like to read it.

To me Mx135 is similar to IS/B but with extra punch and more of a soft, fun, playful, flirty edge. IS/B is a little more sedately feminine.

Me too! Unfortunately, of late, I don’t have as many opportunities to test as I’d like. Sometimes it’s just a waste so I don’t bother.

Well, not a lot of fun but you’re not happy where you are. At least, you have the motivation to get out there and look…you’ll find something. :wink:

My my…I think I know of an opening for a person with your unique acrobatic talents…it involves animals…is that OK?

Speaking of animals…time to take that walk in the woods Gretel…

I know, I know…but cute will only get you so far…great if you’re furry or six. :roll_eyes:

Bella

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Have you been lifting anything? Sounds exactly like what I occasionally do to myself lugging 5 gallon buckets of water to my planted fish tanks, one in particular is over my head on the fire place ledge and it can hurt like hell. I went as far as buying a hose contraption to avoid the strain but sometimes I’m stubborn and lug the buckets anyway..I have great looking arms. LOL

I’m in the club. Hell I think I’m a founder. I’m tying that pretty pink ribbon to the blade. :stuck_out_tongue:

Glad you’re back & feeling better Tealeaves. Interesting experiment also, explains a lot that I hadn’t bothered to consider myself.

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Wow, TeaLeaves!

I love it that you’re putting your whole phero-life on this forum! I’ve read up to March 25th but I gotta go to work. Your descriptions are addicting! Please continue to put everything up here, and when I get my first package, I’ll start doing the same and invite you to read my diary! You’re the meaning of inspiration! Thank you!

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Me too… I just wanna get IS/B and TAH down before I dapple with this one, but I’ve heard interesting things about it, so I’m excited :smiley:

Don’t leave a girl hanging!

You could post it here, in case anyone else would be interested in reading it as well :slight_smile:

I definitely smile more with MX135. IS/B makes me feel like my job is to be quiet and look pretty, and I feel comfortable doing it. I really like it; it’s similar to MX135 which sort of pressures me to be girly, but this makes everything effortless. I’m digging the lack of chocolatini, too :roll_eyes:

Anything will do thanks :smiley:

Do furry six-year-olds count? My friend’s brother has a unibrow, and so does his baby boy. It’s the cutest unibrow ever :cool: