Continence
WARNING: TMI
7 days continence as of today (for those that don’t know, that means no orgasm/ejaculation) in 7 days.
(Probably worth mentioning that I have been using cannabis lately and haven’t been taking a multivitamin, and have been eating a regular American diet)
{There’s a lot of info floating around in the ether that the longer you go without ejaculating/orgasming, be it sex or masturbation or a wet dream for that matter, the more women will be attracted to you.
This is a common belief in the realm of the ‘noFap’ community, (people who seek to quit masturbation and especially porn.)
This has been carried out by their own tests and observation. I’m quite certain the vast majority of them don’t know about pheromones so they probably don’t know why this happens but based on my own studies and reading I believe this is because the overabundance of pheromones you’re excreting at this point and/or the ratios that come out.}
Since I’ve heard of this I’ve been curious to test it out. I have a few tests in my journal. But I have never exceeded 7 days because quite frankly it’s difficult.
However, today was interesting.
7 days
So at work I wore no mones or cologne, just deodorant. I wanted to see how people responded.
It was a love hate relationship. Sometimes women seemed quite attracted, good eye contact etc. sometimes the complete opposite. The vast majority of women who responded were older white women. Strangely also women seemed super loopy and forgetful all around me. My coworker ‘Arie’ was all over me trying to be near me. She didn’t get too close or talk too much but she spent a lot of time around me. My other coworker ‘Izzy’ who’s been crushing on me lately, was trying to talk to me and stuff, was looking for me when I would pass by, etc.
The other day (6 days continence) she totally grabbed my arm and said ‘hey’ as I was leaving work.
It’s hard to say what happens here exactly but it definitely changes things.
8 days
So I wake up and head to work. Just deodorant no cologne showered before bed last night. First thing, Icy seems to have some attraction but she’s a little quieter than usual and is also making less eye contact, like she’s shy or giving me huge respect hits.
Throughout the day she kept acting like that.
When interacting with the general public I was getting what appeared to be major respect hits - to the point of even ghosting. Mostly older women responded well, in fact older women (50s+) were all over me constantly saying hi, making great eye contact, walking super close to me, even one 60s Hispanic lady was all flirty saying some strange sexual innuendos. The younger women <30 seemed to not give hits at all, like they avoided me out of fear. Some dudes were respectful, some seemed irritated. On several occasions, Asian women responded really well, regardless of age.
If I were to guess I’d say the continence leads to higher none and rone outputs.
Self effects have been quite interesting the last couple days. I’ve been having tons of energy and have been feeling really stern and to the point, like a take charge guy. I do what I want and what I want to do is right. People seem to go with the flow too, although not in a happy go lucky kind of way but more like they’re doing it just out of pure respect. Which these effects are what I’d expect from having higher none and rone.
‘Ellie’, this young Hispanic coworker, who used to give me major hits because I wore crazy combos around her, has given me nothing today.. very interesting.
All I got was a slight half way dihl with an almost smirk from 10 ft before I left.
I found it extremely interesting that at Day 7 my cloud still seemed slightly feasible with younger women, however just one day later, Day 8, it seemed to become exclusively useful to much older women, 40s+.
I feel like I could have seriously got some wild play and perhaps kino with these older women.
Most white women were totally oblivious to me like strong ghosting. Only older white women reponded and sometimes they didn’t. On an occasion I caught a quick dihl with a Hispanic 40s chick, which she looked away as if I was her father and caught her doing something bad. This was as we walked passed one another.
Very interesting results today.
Later on put on some EO on neck and wrists.
Then saw Ally and she seemed totally like she was giving respect hits, not looking at me, not saying much, etc.
So I take a shower and spray 1 spray IH in hopes of making my sig more useable since I think it’s rone and none content is too high.. figured I’d add some Nols to balance things out.
Well when I got to the store it turned out that I didn’t seem to get much improvement overall, however I found that blondes were dihling me hard.
After 15 minutes of browsing I slip into an aisle and add another spray to my neck.
As I walked passed a 40s black woman I ghosted her.
Walked near more women. It seemed as though my presence was normal, without mones. People noticed me in a normal fashion… but yet with a slight ghosting and at times dihl from blondes.
Thoughts
This continence thing is quite interesting.
I get the most hits from a wide variety of women the day after most previous ejaculation. Or closest to it… and in fact strangely, I get even more hits if I hadn’t washed off.
Then 2 days is ok, but by day 3-5 Hispanics and older women start to be attracted.
At day 6-7 the hits start to disappear and then it hits only older women, and quite strongly.
By day 8 it all goes south. At this point only older women are attracted and barely so, everybody else seems to become ghosted and/or respect hits. Mostly ghosting though. The plus side is my children behave better.
The cannabis might have affected things slightly. All in all I think after day 7 things just get worse.. hard to say.
One thing is for sure I really like the self effects but HATE the effect on others. It’s like I’m hated or invisible. Yet I got grannies trying to jump my bones. Very odd situation indeed.
Also at this point I feel my libido has dropped tremendously. Probably has a lot to do with the cannabis, but still I hardly look at women or even think sexual thoughts. However around day 6-7 it was more difficult to NOT think about it.