Hello.
New to all of this and need some advice. Thanx in advance.
Married 18 years and separated since march. She’s coming to visit for the weekend next week, and I want to re-kindle that old flame (if you know what i mean). And i know you do. There is really no other woman I am interesred in. I don’t go clubbing or anything. Very strict budget though. Paying a lot of bills that I probably shouldn’t be paying. Thought about just ordering a couple of travel sprays like IShine and TUTH. Appreciate you experienced ones letting me know what you think.
Look forward to hearing back, and will post again after her visit.
Take care friends.
TUTH is a good choice for the physical, but thats about all.
Get some A314. I know its expensive, but its the best thing for you if your trying to fix something. It makes you come off as being extremely high status, and trustworthy. It makes you appear to be the best damn man in the room, or even in her life. If she sees you in that light, and you act accordingly while wearing it, it may help to maybe fix your problem.
A good pairing for A314 in your case may be Instant Honesty. It will add a strong feeling of connectedness to you. Your ex will feel like she’s bonding with you in a strong way.
Its not a definite, but it could help. Your in a tough situation, and the truth of the matter is mones alone can’t do much, but they might be able to influence her in the direction you want.
It’s always nice when Maidenfan makes recommendations, makes typing easier for me.
Hello jj,
Welcome to the forum.
Maidenfan hit the nail on the head. Phero’s may help influence her a bit but they will not be able to do it alone.
I will be interested to see your results
Firstly, welcome to the forum! I trust you will find allot of useful tips on Pheromone usage from the experienced users, here.
But what is your personality like?
Are you introvert, extrovert??
How much will you rely on these products to help you?
Maidenfan01 made some awesome suggestions that i think you need to pay attention to them, about building a sense of closeness.
But how long has it been since she has left?
I think that if there is no other woman out there for you, then you need to work on a game plan on how to deal with the issue of ‘rejection’ if the results of using pheromones, are not the results you desired.
But Maidenfan01 has it spot on about creating a sense of closeness first, (of course, without knowing too much more3 about your personality…)
Hey there jj48fan01 and a BIG HAPPY welcome from me to you on the forum. I was going to let you know that your GC was on the way, but I see it was already issued yesterday by Mickaelia. I guess she just didn’t have time to properly welcome you and for that I apologize.
As our newest member we need to make absolutely sure that we take the time and ensure every one of your questions are answered.
I do think, as MaidenFan suggested, A314 could be a good choice but really we need some additional information to really get a good idea what to suggest. You see A314 won’t do you any justice if she thinks you are aloof or stand offish. Personally I would suggest some IG because its available in a to go size and there is not much monetary risk involved and everything emotional on the line. It has that same aura of alpha, but is still warm and charismatic. You won’t come across as to dominant, but rather come across as someone that is worldly and an aura of gentlemanly sophistication.
There is obviously after so many years you two split and while pheromones will not heal those divides they can certainly start the healing process. Perhaps some Ishine to keep the good times at the forefront and some IH to really get the re-bonding going. You could even add a little bit of IO in there just to keep the lines of communication flowing.
You can pretty much get a to go bottle of all of those and still come in way lower than a single bottle of A314 that may or may not be suited for this situation. We really can’t predict just how it would work without knowing the circumstances of the split. Of course I completely understand that might be personal, but that’s exactly why I am suggesting something that would work in any situation.
I’d also like to remind you, if you would please select a best answer for your introduction. This way you will let all of our members who are so willing to help others know just exactly what qualifies for a great answer. It’s just something to strive for and other than bragging rights it just changes your thread from that pesky red to green color 
I do hope things go well for you and the lady. I want to once again welcome you to the forum and look forward to your continued participation.