JohnM's Journal

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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Pheromones: 1x IG applied to neck
Setting: Busride and an NLP meetup

During the busride I sat next to a woman aged ~50. She was sitting next to the window. I was reading a book. I got the feeling that my presence made her uncomfortable.
After a while she got up but stayed in the bus and didn’t get up immediately.

During the NLP meetup I was practicing with a woman aged ~40. We both are doing NLP for rougly the same time. She commented on the fact that I’m very skilled and probably have had a lot of practice.

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You finally started a journal, look forward to your reports :slight_smile:

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There a bit of a privacy issue. I don’t really want to come in the situation where I have to explain a girl why I wrote online about every interaction with her. At the same time I don’t want to have a relationship where I have to hide something.

4

I went out for a night of dancing.

I applied 1x of MX297 to the right side of my neck.

The night went great. During Salsa dancing all girl expect one where willing to dance close when doing basic step in between all the turn.

The girl interaction with the girl who didn’t was noteworthy. She didn’t dance close with anybody else either. She seemed to say instinctly yes after I asked her to dance. Then my impression was that she got a few doubts about dancing with me. She said something along the lines of “be careful”. During over dance she starts laughing. After one song she says “thank you” to finish the dance.

Later that night she’s standing and chatting with another guy. I’m sitting next to her. She came close enough to touch me from time to time and was for a few minutes at a distance where out trousers touched each other. So my leg touched her hip from time to time while she was chatting with another guy.
When I focused my attention on being present she came a bit closer, so it’s always interesting how changing my own state changes the reaction that I get from girls.

I danced very sexual bachata with two girls who were friends with each other. IBoth of them could dance well. I could basically lead everything I wanted while our bodies where pressed against each other.
I had probably closed my eyes half of the time. The girls rather more of the time.

I didn’t tried to excalate anything on that night, but that’s wasn’t my intention for the night.

One guy who I saw frequently in the past but with whom I never spoke said “hi” to me.

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I have a huge problem with getting vastly different results from day to day based on how I feel physically. Did I drunk enough or not etc.

The effect seems to be bigger than the mones/no mones effect. That means it’s hard for me to do proper sweet spot testing.

The last 3 days in which I was out dancing I sprayed 1 spray of MX297 on my neck.

First day:
It was was pretty bad. At the end of the day I danced with two girls who stopped dancing during the song.

Second day:
Relatively good. Most dances flow nicely. One girl with whom I danced regularly in the past asks me to dance.

I dance intimite Bachata/Merengue with a girl A. A’s overweight but relatively cute. She excuses the fact that she didn’t dance Salsa a few weeks ago with me as she’s dancing Salsa on2 and I’m dancing on1.
At the end of the dance she asks for my name.

There a third nice interaction with a girl N. He’s very pretty and dances for some time but probably not more than a year. I danced three time with her that night Salsa/Bachata/Bachata. Each getting more intimite.

She says thank you after 2-3 songs each time, but enjoys it. The last time she asked me to dance. At the end of the last song she says that it was very good.

Third day:
When I approched M she said that they can’t really dance. I said no problem.
M is an attractive blond that’s probably early 20-22 years old. Dancing was really intensive. M had no problem with things like moving her hand through my face.
After maybe 20 minutes of dancing with her I touched her bum for a short moment.
Then M girlfriend came and the girl excused herself to follow with her girlfriend to the bar.

The next time I see M she’s on the dancing floor dancing with another guy. Given that she’s already horny from dancing with me, she also dances intimitely with him and it goes even that far that she they kiss which is something that happens very seldom on a Salsa dance floor.

That’s not the first time that dynamic happens to me. It seems I’m often quite good at getting the girl horny but then for some reason there’s a break and then she dances with another guy and all the advantages of the girl being horny seems to go to that guy.

The seem to be relatively good compared to other guys of melting the first resistance required to get the girl horny but then when it comes to stuff like handling the girlfriend or talking to the girl instead of only being physical I’m much worse.

Later in the night there’s also another girl with whom I’m dancing close but not extremly intimite (hands mainly do dancing instead of touching for effects). She get’s dragged away by her girl friend to talk to another guy who’s probably the best/highest status dancer in the room and the talk.

There also another good interaction with a girl I have seen a lot in the past but with whom I danced quite seldomly.
During dancing she among other things says that today has nice music. She certainly enjoys the dance.

Other interactions were also quite nice.