Joined for Jenny

I’d like to introduce myself. Sooo good morning and hello! My name is Amber I am a single black female of Nevada but my home town is far from here I am a native of Michigan originally. I have 10 brothers and sisters all scattered around the world and a dog named spot.

I am taking care of my Godchildren since their Mother passed away. They have no one left in the world but me. I really love the kids (6 and 8) and have sacrificed much for the little angels. But I do tend to get a bit lonely and depressed.

Its like I’m living my life, working and sleeping, just to wake up and do it the next day. ..On the other hand when I see Jennys kids smile and call me Auntie A. I know its all worth it, and I know Jenny is smiling down from above.

Jenny was an endocrinologist the best doctor in the world. She was always talking about stuff that effects glands and how to treat conditions with diseased bodies. She was also very experimental with gels and creams and would put things that I cant even try to begin to pronounce. The effect of some of those homemade concoctions were just crazy! We had a lot of fun.

Unfortunately that fun came to an end when her ex husband stabbed her to death in front of the kids . He went for the kids next and would have succeeded if it wasn’t for Joe ( Jennys dad) He died within an hour but was able to knock Ricky out(Jenny’s ex) and call 911 before he collapsed.

He also got the kids to run to the neighbors. The last thing Joe said (according to Jr. 5 at the time) was “Run don’t look back remember that your Granpappie loves you! .”

The reason I am telling you this horrific story is to give you some background and paint a stage in your mind of my life, and where I stand in this moment of time, which I think is a true introduction.

I joined this forum essentially for Jenny I know she would have loved it here and It makes me feel like she is still around and we still are having a laugh, even though I know she is gone.

Times are tough and money is strapped but I am happy with my little family. I should say we are happy, but most importantly they are safe.

I d like to add that I don’t know much about pheromones (I work at McDonalds and Smiths food king for cryin out loud!) But I think this forum could be fun and therapeutic for me.

Thanks for letting me blabber

Btw can anyone recommend some pheromones for depression?

Thanks in advance

Auntie A (aka Amber)

Hi Amber, and welcome!

I am so sorry about what happened to your friend. That’s so terrible and sad. Those children are so lucky to have a loving godmother like you. I can only imagine how hard it must be!

Can you tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to others? Are you shy? Are you outgoing?

What kinds of things were you thinking of using pheros for? Dating? Work? What kinds of effects were you hoping to see?

Hi Amber,

Welcome to the community. You will find lots of love in thios community.

Sorry to hear about your past.

For depression, you can try Instant Shine. It is good to make you feel good and lighten up your mood.

Cheers

Hey Amber and welcome to the forum

First let me say that I am very sorry. That is a terrible loss. You are doing a great thing by taking care of those kids though, and I have much respect for you just based on that.

For depression, Instant Shine has always worked well for me. It also provides a “lift” to those around you.

For some better suggestions though, can you tell us alittle more about your personality?

What do you want to use mones for?

I hope to hear back from you, and hope to see you on the boards in the near future!

I am terribly sorry about your tragedy. And I think you’re an amazingly strong woman to have come through so much and still be strong for those kids. Please make yourself comfortable here, we are all family and find support here.

I agree with jb and future about Instant Shine, it is a real mood lifter.
Have you given any thought to using pheros to enhance your job situation? I know working at McDonalds has got to be sapping your strength day by day. I did it once, long ago.

I have never thought of it before, as it is usually mentioned in regards to adult relationships, but I wonder if Instant Honesty could help those poor kids work through some of their grief and horror over what happened. Sometimes talking things through relieves so much. Instant Honesty does just that, helps people open up and address the harder topics.

The more you can tell us about yourself, makesawish, the better we can tailor our suggestions. Glad you’re here.

Amber -

You are a truly a blessing on this earth taking care of those children for your friend.

Hey Amber,

Welcome to the forum! Thanks for sharing that very honest and sad story. I can’t even begin to comprehend how that would feel but it’s great that you can come out of it all so strong for the kids. I hope that you get all that you want from pheromones.

I would definitely agree with the others that shine is a great mood lifter. You should also receive a gift certificate for introducing yourself here so that should go some way to helping you play with your first few pheros.

More Info: https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934

Good Luck with it all!

Welcome to Pherotalk Makesawish!

No ordinary welcome can be given to such a heart felt and amazing introduction.

As I read your introduction I thought to myself that not only has God blessed you and those children to take you so far but he has given you a tremendous amount of strength.

It is hard to imagine why God would allow certain things to happen but who are we to question. If he takes us to it he will certainly take us through it.

I wish that this was just not an online forum so I could put my arms around you and give you a huge hug. :smiley:

Welcome again to a forum full of real people with trials and tribulations, people with fears and doubts, we seek and search for answers. We get lonely and upset right here on this forum. Get pretty darn angry and have the worse cat fights. hint hint

Welcome to our little family. Everyone here is willing to assist and there are loads of information at your disposal to get you up to date on what pheromones are really about.

The first thing to remember is that pheromones are not magic and that you have to put in the work, it is just a little something to give you an extra edge.

You have so much on your plate and with a routine like that it can get anyone down. There are uplifting products like instant shine I can recommend but in my honest opinion what you need right now is an outlet.

We are all here to listen and take your time, ask all the questions you want and when the time comes the right product will come.

In the midst of all the tension on this forum and all the fighting and fussing your introduction has certainly reminded us what is important. I thank you for putting me in a great mood.

May God continue to bless you and your family.

Your GC is on it’s way!