Hello all. My name is Leslie and I live in Northern California. I’ve been lurking on these forums the whole day, and I have to say I’m pretty convinced. Lately, I’ve been looking for something that I knew had to exist. Something to give me and extra push in the self-confidence department. I used to be a really social person. I was very popular throughout my whole life. Then about five years ago, I lost my wife to breast cancer and it caused me to withdraw into myself and slowly I lost most of my friends. There’s still the occasional friend who will attempt to make contact with me, but I never have the drive to go out. Lately I’ve been wanting to change, but I can’t find the courage as I’ve been antisocial for so long. I hope you guys can help me out. If this is really as great as it seems then I think it’s destiny, because lately I’ve really needed something like this. It’s also my birthday tomorrow (the big 55) so this would be like the perfect gift (assuming it’s real.) This seems like a really great board.
Welcome to the forum,
First off, happy birthday!
We would love to help you choose out some products, but need to know a little more about what results you are looking for.
Are there any products you are already interested in?
What all do you want to achieve with pheromones?
How would you describe your personality?
Nice to meet you,
Tiffany
Hey hows it going, I’m DJ.
Lurking huh? well there is a lot to read as this is a research forum hehehe
well Instant shine would help with the uplifting spirit a lot, and it changes how others see you as well.
If you are looking for courage, A314 is the way to go, that is the flagship truth and respect formula and I as a 23 year old can use it to great success. I love it and at work I would hate to go without it.
Ammunition for her is a great attraction mix and would be suitable as well, it gets that spark going before you have a chance to try to kindle it LOL
A314 + Ammunition for her + Instant Shine
That is a wonderful combination, and what I think would help the best.
Steve should be along any time now to hand out that $25 Gift Certificate.
-DJ
Thanks so much Tiffany!
I’m not interested in any specific products yet. My nephew just sent me the link to this website and told me to look around.
This stuff is so unbelievable to me that I’m interested in trying anything, just to verify that I’m not dreaming! I’m sure you must have felt this at some point.
I would like to break out of my shell with pheromones as it’s just been hard to break the cycle. I used to be a really boisterous and loud type of guy, and I loved being the center of attention. Hopefully I can find that part of myself again.
Thanks for the reply!
Thank you so much for all the great suggestions DJ, I think I’ll try the A314. It seems to be everything I’m looking for. Maybe Instant Shine as well?
Thanks a lot guys. I really appreciate your help. I already feel welcome here.
Hello and welcome PrestoRiles.
Condolences on the untimely death of your wife. It is never easy to lose a loved one, and it can take a while before we’re really ready to unfold ourselves again socially.
This is a busy and active forum, and it is a research forum, so you’ll find lots to read and keep you busy learning.
Don’t feel bad about being skeptical, most of us were at one time, but the proof of the product is that we’re still here, and happy customers.
To encourage interaction with others I would recommend Instant Openness or Instant Shine. Instant Openness will increase the likelihood that others will want to converse with you, as it makes you seem more approachable and inviting. It tends to make people chatty.
Instant Shine is a great feel good pheromone, and it can also be a confidence booster for yourself. It tends up uplift the mood of any social interaction and makes people more cheerful.
A314 is the respect phero mix, and it is so popular here that there is a whole section of the forum dedicated just to it. This pheromone states that you are a class act, a cut above, of high social worth. It demands respect and may cause others to defer to you.
It is subtle and has a lot of depth of character as well.
And also, Happy Birthday! Congratulations. I hope you have a wonderful day tomorrow.
Oh yes, this stuff still excites me!
Well I would first suggest you try out a few to gos so that you can test and find what products work best for you. Instant Shine and Instant Openness can both help you break out of your shell. Instant Shine can help with the confidence. It will also draw people to you and brighten everybodys mood. Instant Openness will help conversations flow a lot better. It’s a great one for meeting new people .
Tiffany
Hi Leslie,
Welcome to the forum.
Happy birthday to you in advance.
To get back in social scenes, social pheromones will be helpful.
IO is good to promote more conversation with people. People will open up and want to talk to you. You will be seems more approachable.
IH will make the conversation deeper. This build relationship. They will think they know you since long ago.
Shine is mood lifter. It uplift your mood and the mood of the people around you.
Try then and good luck to you
Welcome again.
Instant Openness sounds like a good way to get you back into the conversations.
I am new to this too, and just got an answer that really helped me out.
ill be sure to try what they say, people with 2000+ posts cant exactly be ignorant in the subject
Leslie, welcome to the board! Don’t say you’re an old man! I mean after all, you’re only as old as you make yourself be or feel. So welcome, and we’d love to help you.
I’m VERY sorry about your loss, although I know it’s been 5 years I’m definitely sure it still hurts. I lost my mother in May and obviously it still hurts, so although our pain may be different we both know just how much it hurts. And you know what? I can also relate and understand how losing your wife made you become a social hermit, because I am currently going through the same right now. This totally made my life turn a complete 360, and in the process made me have to also become a social hermit. However, step by step I guess.
Since you really want that extra help with getting social again a few stuff I recommend are IO for social ice breaking and conversation flow, IH to deepen relationships with people on a more personal social level, while also making them feel like if you’ve been a good friend from a long time ago, and IS to make you feel good, and as well as those around you while also adding some confidence to help you get out there and start being social again. This is the reason why we call these “socials” (for that very reason,) and also to buffer negative side effects from Androstenone but you’ll soon learn about that later. In the mean time these sound like they’ll be good for you; another good one is also CTTM which is a 50/50 blend of the main ingredients in IO and IH. It’s a little different than IO and IH alone, but it’s supposed to hit two birds with one stone by giving the effect of social ice breaking and social comfort all in one.
Hope this helps.
Thank you all so much for your suggestions. I’ll be sure to let you know which ones I order when I get my Gift Certificate.
Heya and Welcome! One thing I’ll tell ya is that pheromones won’t give ya courage. You’ve got to find that on your own. What they will do is give you an excuse. Pheromones are a great excuse to put yourself out there. Go to a watering hole or a church or a meet and greet. Introduce yourself!!! Don’t worry about your social skills, you can work on those as you go. Pheromones won’t draw people to you from afar (well not in the sense that most people look for anyway). They will give you an aura, a mystery quality, an appearance, that people will notice. They will set you apart.
Happy Birthday! Get yourself a bottle of AMMO to celebrate! You will come to love it! At 55 it will tell folks that you are a VITAL 55. Of course that means the rest of you will have to follow suit. Be a VITAL 55!! Take it a step at a time but take those steps…you will be so glad you did. Welcome to Pherotalk and Welcome to a new chapter in your life!
Hi there and welcome to PheroTalk. I wanted to properly welcome you to the forum, but I am extremely backlogged with work since we are short on people.
I am issuing your GC tonight via email. Maybe if I get caught up I can come back around and offer some advice as well.