I’m a 45 yr old woman looking to reconnect with my husband, who moved out of our home about 3 months ago. As fate would have it, I’ll be spending the weekend with my soon-to-be-ex next weekend to attend a family event. I’m looking forward to it, because I want to use this opportunity to remind him of what he’s surely been missing!
I’ve been reading with interest the various posts, and have decided to make a purchase. Problem is, several of the products sound so great, so I’m not sure what my first purchase should be. I’m going round and round among Essence of Woman, Lust After Me, and Instant Sexy. Obvious answer is to buy all three, but I can’t afford that at this time. Can anyone recommend what product or combo of products I should start with?
My objective, of course, is to have him grab me, drag me into the bedroom, and lock the door for the weekend. Once that happens, I’m OK, I think. He’s always told me I’m the best bed partner he’s ever had.
Since he’s the kind of guy who says “I love you” through sex, I think the lines of communication will open if I can just get him there!!!
Looking forward to some advice from you experienced “pherophiles”. Thanks in advance for your help!
Bit difficult to make recommendations here as I haven’t tried all the products you name but I will throw my thoughts in and hopefully some of the other ladies will join in.
EoW, lots of folk swear by it -a few say it does nothing for them. Two things. It can be very difficult to get the application and your dosage level right. In my case it works best for me hours and hours after I put it on. I’m still trying to figure a great dosage out for me - in the meantime I am just using it diluted in other perfume or to enhance other mixes. On it’s own, so far it has not done much for me.
Instant Sexiness - well, I love this stuff. It makes me feel great and that alone gives a sexy vibe. It does seem to have a great effect on most men around me, some more than others.
Lust after Me I have not tried. But this is definitely going to be in my next order. I know that nols work well on me and seem to attract men my way - not always in a sexual way but at least in a social fun way.
As Gone with the wind has said Pheromones wont change a person or over ride free will but there is a good chance that they will still help in your situation. After all something attracted you to each other and sometimes that just needs to be re-ignited so it is defiantly worth a try.
While EOW is great it takes alot of time to get it right and since your planning on using it at this function I would not recommend it right now.
Instant sexiness is a great all round product and it would be a good choice. There is a small amount of copulins in it.
LAM is more of a sexual mix and would be your best bet. If you have the money I would couple it with IH. This will get him to open up more intimately. My husband is a man of few words as well but around IH he will say things that I never expected. If you cant afford the LAM (it only comes in full size bottle) go with Instant sexiness and IH in the to-go size.
If you do get IH spray it to the back of your head so you dont end up spilling all your secrets. Yes it works that well LOL
