It seems that after a good dose of pheromones on a target that even afterwards they have this impression about me as if it were set in stone. This answer the question about relationships, and whether or not I would need to use pheromones 100% of the time if it were founded on pheromones. It seems that the pheromones are the buffer, and can change the impression/signals that one recieves about you; but like with normal psychology, I think it registers into the targets memory/subconscious about their prior feelings/thoughts they had about you when exposed to the pheromones. I hope I’m conveying this well.
When I first started pheromones, I thought they were more of a spur of the moment kind of neuroinfluencer, and not the kind that would literally change the perception of others about you even without the usage of pheromones when around the target in future situations. Has anybody else experienced this? If so, is it on a consistent basis?
If attraction doesn’t already exist, artifical pheromones won’t make much difference. That is, you create attraction, not the pheromones (also realize your natural pheromones are always active). Artifical pheromones are merely one component of the massive whole of human attraction. In my experience they merely enhance or amp up existing attraction, drawing it out with more urgency.
I think alot of that has to do with first impressions. First impressions are reaaaaaaaaaaally important. If a target sees that you are a leader of men, and you have a really interesting conversation, and you leave her wanting OH so much more, she may never forget you.
Even if you have quite the same interaction the next time she sees you(assuming it doesn’t suck), its probably ok, because she still has this lasting impression of you.
On the other hand, in terms of LTR’s, over time people will start to see who you really are, and hopefully come to appreciate the finer nuances of your personality. Pheromones can help keep things interesting, but they can’t change who you are.
well i dont think first impressions are that important, cuz like u said, as they get to know u better, people will form different opinions of u. liike 4 me, i generally never make great first impressions as i am pretty shy around new people but open up as i get to know them more
I’m glad to find this thread. This is something I’ve been wondering about ever since I first started toying with the idea of pheromone use. This is pretty much what I was suspecting, but I wasn’t sure.
Disagree somewhat. If someone doesn’t “impress” me right off the bat there may not be any chance for them to “get to know me better” 'cuz I’ve already moved on.
I’ve had some conversations with people who have flat out told me that if someone doesn’t give them a positive vibe (good first impression) there is not likely to be any further interaction/interest. So it’s not just me. Others feel that way too.
Of course first impressions are extremely important and most of us try to place our best foot forward. Nevertheless, I have many times been befuddled by students, friends and lovers that transform into someone very different once you get to know them. And this works both ways as in negative or positive transformations. That is, once they feel comfortable enough to reveal themselves you glimpse their true inner beauty, brilliance, dullness or ugliness. Anyone that lacks the patience and wisdom to see past the initial positive or negative vibe is missing out on the richness of human experience and a potentially rewarding relationship (not talking about a thug or hoe on the corner but normal social situations!). Such behavior also demonstrates a certain amount of shallowness in their character, so perhaps the rejected person is better off not revealing themselves.
And, yes, some of my dearest friends and lovers flunked the initial positive or vibe test but later proved to be far more valuable than those with better salesmanship and acting skills. There are many reasons you may get a negative vibe, e.g., the person may be shy, nervous, from a different culture, suffering from indigestion, PMS, etc., so it is best not to so easily abandon new acquaintances.
