wasn’t sure how to word the title, but with more space to ramble here i can reword it like this…
if pheromones CAN be used as an attraction aid, and provided they can be shown to have a positive effect (which may or may not manifest in immediate public reactions but rather the thought of you afterwards etc),
will your intended target experience any sort of a “let down”, for lack of better phrase, after they have been exposed to you and pheromones and getting together with someone else?
i’m curious, i guess, if i were to bump into any ex-gf of mine (most of which i’m on very good terms with and incidentally only fall into ex-gf territory due to the fact that they almost invariably want a long term relationship and i don’t, blah blah blah) would the pheromones increase/decrease/have no effect on their ability to form a close personal bond with whichever guy they happen to be with now?
in other words, if they had started up a relationship with someone else which may or may not be permanent, and if the woman spends a reasonably significant amount of time with a former sex partner due to a working/busniness relationship outside of the personal relationship, would she feel at all let down the next time she was with her current partner?
most of the reason i’m curious is because i like to use gf’s as a pheromone observation tool, since i’ve read that different pheromones have a different effect on the woman during certain times of the month and not others. i am well aware when each gf is having her period, then ovulating and i’ve been trying to tailor my pheromone application trials around each.
i have no desire whatsoever to become involved with any of them on anything greater than a physical level, and if they have found someone that they believe will be around for a long term personal relationship, i am happy for them and don’t wish to have my own inquisitive lustful nature deprive them of it, if that makes sense.
having said all of this, i realize that as a guy i should just say F it let the chips and my johnson fall where they may, but as a man with a conscience i really don’t want any of them following me around like lost puppy dogs seeing me as their only hope for a long term hookup because their current mates don’t stack up.