It depends on each individual person, but overall I would say women would look more for the emotional attachment rather than the “hit it and quit it” attitude.
That aside, wearing high doses of overt sexuals can come across as pushy. The only difference between a woman finding it hot and a woman finding it creepy is whether or not she is attracted to you.
And that difference is often down to the steering/moderation, alongside your behaviour/appearance.
But yes, emotional/social is an often overlooked aspect of attraction - most women look for you to push buttons on these as well as the sexual/status aspects, esp the younger ones. They do get less complicated and tend to respond to more direct mixes more widely as they age.