Lust After Me + Instant Sexiness B = silly putty

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I used my new Instant Sexiness B for the first time tonight (coconut scent) along with Lust After Me and I had very interesting results. Wore about 10 drops Lust After Me smeared on arms, chest, neck, back of neckline. Sprayed IS/b four times: head, neck, chest, back of neck.

First reaction: wow, I’m relaxed. I walked slower than normal. Was in a very laid back, in-the-moment mood. It was nice. I felt more relaxed than I had in a while. Felt no pressure to do anything other than whatever I was doing at that moment.

Went to my usual Tuesday night DJ gig and guys who know me were extra nice and attentive and a couple had reactions I can not even explain! One kept coming around me “I’m going to bother you…I’m going to keep coming to talk to you…” As I was DJing, I had literally an entourage of guys around me, rarely less than 3 at once. I would talk to them here & there but was focused on playing so I wasn’t too chatty, but I was friendly. Several commented numerous times how sexy I was, etc. They kept crossing into my personal space, repeatedly. Not really to touch me, just nearer than usual and certainly nearer than what I’m accustomed to. After my set when I came down to the bar to get a drink, some guys stood super close again and wanted to touch me: my hair, my necklace, my back, my arm.

A man I’d never met before came to speak to me, a little chit chat during which I denied him the request he made (didn’t have the record). About five minutes later he returned, asked me if I was married, wanted to make sure he wasn’t “disrespecting” me by being “presumptuous” and wondered if we might be able to have a conversation. He said he noticed me and was really hoping we could talk. Another guy, one I know, when he came to say goodnight ASKED if he could have a kiss on the cheek. :o

As I walked out, I got hugs from many guys, including one who wrapped both arms around me, took a huge inhale and said “you smell soooo good.” At this point, I was really convinced it must be something in the Lust After Me + IS/b that made these men so gooshy around me. You know cartoon drawings that show Xs for the eyes and little birds flying around the head when someone gets hit over the head? Those are the looks I was getting from men tonight, and when they spoke to me, they were just as googly.

I really liked the relaxed mood I had tonight. Best mood in DAYS, maybe weeks. But I am so not usually like this, to let guys be all gooshy and so forth. I’m just all business most of the time, and tend to go for “heart of the matter” convos instead of light banter. Thinking about my other post where I complained that I can’t seem to get attention from guys, I tried to be a little more open to whatever might come.

Anyway, this combo was the Xs for eyes and birds flying around the head mix. Gooshy men and touchy-feelies. I’ll test it again to see if I can replicate the results. Oh and self-effects: super-relaxed yet alert, happy, content mood.

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holy sheet, isnt this the result you have been looking for?

yay!!!

thats alot of LAM. was it regular strength,or higher?
ylang ylang or no?

i have LAM in reg strength and 6 drops made me very sleepy.
knocked me out.
something about it IS very very relaxing though.
in a groovy way, in a "you cant be uptight around me "way.

this is the key to your success maybe, with guys being somewhat shy around you? it mellows out the anxiety and they feel comfortable approaching?

gee, i feel as happy for you as if it were me discovering what works!:slight_smile:
after your last post about “ranting” i really wanted you to find something awesome,and it happened. instant sexiness B btw rocks. :cool:

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That is really great!

I agree with Lor…sometimes, when a woman is putting out a strong vibe, and she looks the part, men can’t handle it…looks like Instant Sexiness B is the ticket for you!

Also, here’s a tip, Chiri…if you prefer the way Instant Sexiness A affects YOU, try putting 1 spray of A on your chest, where you are huffing it, and put the B where everybody else gets it.

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LOL Lor it was 5x cops! I’m definitely trying this mix again to see if it makes the guys feel more comfy approaching me. I did not feel like a ditzy girl; I felt my usual self except I guess…more approachable :stuck_out_tongue:

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so what pheros were at play here?

Your reaction is akin to my TAL reactions. But it’s TAH in the IS B. So what’s in the Lust after Me?

Was you’re SO around? How’d he react to it?

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Actually, both Instant Sexiness mixes have both TAL and TAH in them…it is just that A has more TAL, and B has more TAH. Lust After Me is purely Alpha Androstenol and cops.

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ahh. thanks.

so chiri - i guess the higher TAH works in for you then.

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I have used that same mix along with 3-4 shots of Spaceland to great effects, too. Have you tried Mx135 yet? If you like SexiB, you will LOVE mx135 which is also a TaH-heavy mix.

Also, I absolutely love the way mx216 (Dolly’s special TaL/cops mix) affects me.. I feel even more of a self-effect than SexiA. Too bad it doesn’t come in a gallon size..

Do you find that TaH softens people’s image of you?

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HotMama, does TAH soften people’s perception of me? It’s hard to say…I don’t think I am “hard,” but for whatever reason I don’t seem to be the type of girl you just shoot the breeze with :o I think TAH makes me relaxed though, so maybe that comes across to others? I did order MX216, so it will be interesting to see if despite the tons of cops in it, the TAL in MX216 will end up creating a force field around me. Can’t wait to find out!

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You know, the reason that I was asking is that I feel that I come off too harsh, in people’s opinions.. When I first started using the products, I felt the need to “soften” up my image. Not sure on how that’s working out :smiley:, 'cause I love wearing TaL so much more (except for Mx135) than TaH.

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You know, he is an enigma wrapped in a mystery encased in a Twinkie (as my friend would say). I do not know how the pheros affect him. He’s the one I have the hardest time seeing cops reactions from. He has had more reaction to the Instant Openness mixes and become very chatty. But cops…it really is hit or miss from what I can tell. That’s a long way of saying I don’t think my mix had any effect on him at all last night. Then again, he sort of stayed away and let the guys hang all around me (how nice and long leash-y of him, but that’s his way). He did have a friend there keeping him company so he had other things going on anyway…

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better than the short leash, any day.

maybe you should try edge with him, and see what happens.

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So far 2 for 2 on the Lust After Me with SexiB. I went out last night to a lounge to hang with some friends. Wore 6 drops LAM (2 on wrists, 4 on neck/chest/hairline) and about 4 sprays of SexiB (2 to devil horns, one to chest, one to back of neck). I felt relaxed, just like the first time using this mix. Really groovy, totally not worried, just in the moment relaxed. I am getting the kind of flirty, friendly hits I have been seeking! This mix seems to stimulate my social conversation, and puts me in the zone of the chit-chat I’m usually not so keen on. I sat at the bar with a guy I haven’t seen in a while, a super hot guy who’s done military tours all over Europe. We chatted for about 30 minutes straight. He even volunteered his thoughts on committment out of the blue!

Chatting with another good guy friend, we were joined by one of his (older) male friends. Good vibes and easy convo all around. One thing I noticed about this mix is that if I am simply listening and not adding to the convo much (the topic was real estate as both these guys are agents; I listened more than contributed as I’m not in that field) I am content to just absorb and occasionally comment. Older guy invited me to the bar for a cocktail with him but I was ready to head home so I told him “I’ll take a raincheck,” which I’m proud of because it creates the potential for continuation.

I will probably go hang there with my friends in another couple of weeks. I may use it as my testing ground for building some social skills I need work on like transforming casual encounters (like older guy) into friends (and I set the stage for that with my raincheck comment). I also want to work on my small talk and so far, this mix is letting me at least tolerate hanging out and observing, marinating in the chit chat atmosphere. I know small talk is an important social skill, and while it’s not my favorite, if it will help me build my social skills, make more (and better quality) friends, and generally meet more people, I am all for practicing and improving my skill in this area.

So, so far, hallmarks of this mix for me are:
-relaxed presence
-approachable and receptive
-socially present without necessarily being participatory
-comfortable zone for men to be friendly and flirty without me feeling anxious that their attentions are too extreme
-in-the-moment-ness

I also got about four random comments from guys in the street, something that rarely happens for me these days!

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Wore this mix again this weekend and in addition to “silly putty,” this mix makes people do stuff for me. They seem to just want to serve me, and I have to do nothing other than show up. When I wear this mix, I never, and I mean NEVER have to buy myself a drink. The last time I wore this mix, the same thing happened: I did not buy a single drink. A man I met at the bar who works in Fixed Income trading at a big bank kept telling me how beautiful and smart I was and that I should come work for his bank. He practically recruited me on the spot. He gave me his card and told me that I will make tons of money because the combination of looks and brains I have is rare. He even looked at his watch, spoke the date, and said “today is my lucky day because you are the first woman I meet in this country who is intelligent AND beautiful.” (he’s from India, been in U.S. one year).

So far, this mix has been very successful for me :slight_smile:

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You know something… I think I’m probably more of a IS/b type of gal..even though i havent tried it yet. iv’e been using to-gos of IS/a and i have gotten results from it but not exactly what ive been hoping.

I tend to be such a Scorpio…people tell me I always seem so confident(b4 pheros), strong-willed, outgoing, dont care what ppl think about me. Which I personally love! But I’ve even gotten the comments of “wow i thought u were a bitch..u have the look dont fuck with me, then i got to know u and ur totally differrent” yup I guess to some people walking with Confidence and standing up for what you believe in, is being a bitch or a feminist. They just cant handle it! jaja
Especially men, I’m an educated Latina and unfortunately a lot of guys are intimidated by this. the guy im targeting I know hes not this type cuz by all means where are in the same Masters Program, but so far i’ve notice he seems interested but doesnt quite feel he can approach me. I’ve been wearing IS/A, IH, IO around him…and now tryin MX135 and though it does give me boost I think IS/B will probably soften me a bit maybe that will make him feel more comfortable to approach me in a different level! :slight_smile:
But first I need some Dinero…No money means no pheros..No pheros means no fun!!! :frowning:

And right about now I would love to have some TAF in my hands…ive heard it helps u concentrate!!

Have A great Day Everyone!!!
Oh Lor I’m glad ur back…I was starting to wonder where u were!!

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Hey, I am a Scorpio too! Though I don´t know if I am a true one! I am pretty smart, I was going to become a lawyer, but decided it wasn´t for me!! actually I am very happy being a teacher, I love kids!!!
I am confident of myself, get on well with most everybody, but when it comes to emotional issues, thats a different matter!! Could be the fact that I was in a all girls boarding school from the age of 8 to 18, and getting to know men has always been a diificult issue for me!! I mean I get on great with them if its just friends or workmates but when things become more deep, the doubts and problems start!!! I started looking to the pheros to give me a boost, experiment and have a good time!
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And right about now I would love to have some TAF in my hands…ive heard it helps u concentrate!!

:stuck_out_tongue: well, well, i actuall have a full bottle of TAF, i have only used 3 sprays out of it. or if anyone is willing to make a fair trade i am lookin for a bottle of instant shine or IS/A

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I still have a full bottle of EOW and I’m waiting for LAM in the mail, instead of special ordering the 5X cops, would it be a good idea to just add my EOW to the LAM? Any tips on how much?

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Hi Karmiel,

I remember reading that it was not good to mix them together. Only found one post referring to that though.

I’d keep them separate and apply each, or try a small amount mixed for testing if you really want to.

Welcome to the forum, if you post in the Introductions section you’ll get a nice gift certificate. :slight_smile:

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[quote=“CharmfulScorpio, post:15, topic:3569”]

You know something… I think I’m probably more of a IS/b type of gal..even though i havent tried it yet. iv’e been using to-gos of IS/a and i have gotten results from it but not exactly what ive been hoping.

I tend to be such a Scorpio…people tell me I always seem so confident(b4 pheros), strong-willed, outgoing, dont care what ppl think about me. Which I personally love! But I’ve even gotten the comments of “wow i thought u were a bitch..u have the look dont fuck with me, then i got to know u and ur totally differrent” yup I guess to some people walking with Confidence and standing up for what you believe in, is being a bitch or a feminist. They just cant handle it! jaja
Especially men, I’m an educated Latina and unfortunately a lot of guys are intimidated by this.
I have that same exact problem, word for word :smiley: we scorpios are so misunderstood,that’s why I started with Instant Openness, I ordered instant sexiness but didn’t specify and I think I have the A version (don’t think I should use too much), but Instant Sexiness B is definately going to be my next order!