well i can only speak on what i’ve got experience in but for me:
Primal Lust = Edge gel
deep connection = i’m not sure - androstenol for sure, but whether a beta product or an alpha product seems to depend on the individual, and also the pre-existing relationship, if there is one. I’ve also found some deep bonding with A314.
playful and flirty = cleo for me.
seeming in control = depends on the time of the month, and also context - soemtimes A314 sometimes cleo
I’ve got soem other products that I can’t wait to play with.
TAL - seems to be for an alpha female vibe
TAH - seems to be a cuddly flirty vibe
P97 - seems to enhance focus.
i’ll know how they work for me, once i’ve got them.