Hi! I reached this site because I saw a pheromone product in my Maxim magazine. I did some research on that one, and decided to go with another one, Pherlure. I did an impulse buy of $100 worth of it, did some more research, and realized I should have probably not bought that. But it does have a 30 day money back guarantee so..I’ll just return it.
Anyway, I’ve been doing extensive research on this over the last day. I’ve read so many posts here and am learning alot. And this stuff seems crazy! I need help with only one thing though..and that’s my current relationship.
Lemme explain:
Me and my girl have been dating for a month. We totally know everything about each other. And we totally click. And we totally love each other. We’ve both agreed that this is the strongest feeling relationship we have ever been in.
However, before we started “dating”, we were a lot more open with each other. She was chasing me, while I was running. She chased HARD. And that’s why I totally dug her! But as soon we became comfortable in the relationship, I’ve been showing a little too clingyness, she’s been calling/texting less, and coming over less. I tried talking to her about it, and she said “Because of my rough past, I like to sabotage everything good that happens to me. I’ve never met a guy that cares about me like you do, and I’m scared..but I promise I won’t sabotage this”. I don’t really get women, so I don’t get that. But she left me a message on my computer saying “..I totally love you baby..I’m sorry I’m not the best at showing it sometimes and that my mind plays tricks on me..” I don’t understand that either, but that’s women! What tricks me is the fact that I KNOW she can be more open and into me!! She was when she was chasing me!! Soon as she became comfortable, she backed off..and she can’t explain why. I LIKE it when she’s all into me. I LOVE it when she comes over more often. I LOVE it when she depends on me, crys to me..talks to me about her life and problems..and knows that she can come to me for ANYTHING. I’m a sucker for deep convos under the stars. And I wnat that to happen again. I’m starting to try to play hard to get and try that approach, but I think that some type of pheromone will come to my benefit!
Agree, or disagree?
Anyhow, I went ahead and purchased Instant Shine and Alpha A314. I also want to purchase Instant Honesty when I return Pherlure. Good choices? Recommendations? Advice in general? Help a brotha out lol
P.S. She is half latina. (If that helps.) She’s almost 18, and I’m newly 21. We’re both deep thinkers..and I know she loves me. But I want this girl to completely completely fall for me and make sure this bond lasts forever. And ever.
A lot of people have tried Pherlure and most without any real results other than some women like the smell.
I would contact Steve and Michaelia and tell then to change the A314 into eithr Ammo or Instant Gentleman. Ammo will bump up your none signature just a little but that seems to be just fine with a lot of latinas. Instant Gentleman will give you a cool, smooth vibe which should go over well too.
The Ishine is great - it should help open her up in its own way.The IH is also a great idea. It will help generate feelings of connection. That should help a lot too in the relationship department.
Just remember that these products give you an edge. They do not do the work for you. The real relationship stuff will still be up to you but the pheros will help.
The first day she met she said she is attracted to guys that remind her of her father, so that’s why I tried Alpha. I dunno what to do cause I bought it yesterday with the free overnight shipping (donno if they shipped it yet i did androtics direct).
I am kinda a gentleman towards her. I am overly nice sometimes, and she mentioned that I am clingy. I want her to open up to me!! I want to have more deep convos and amazing sex that just turn her on.
She has already expressed that she loves me more than guys she dated for 2 years and that she hopes to marry me someday, but can’t promise anything because it’s always possible to fall in love with somebody else.
And the weird changes in her started to happen as soon as I got mad at her one day (stupid me..) But as of now we’re all good.
She used to come over when she felt shitty..now she says “oh sorry i don’t think i can make it today i’m feeling sick. but i’ll be over friday and spend the night again”.
young people make more androsterone, and I think you wont need anything with that in it. you have good choices with the social pheromones. Instant honesty is great stuff, and you may find during your ‘deep conversations’ how much she didn’t tell you that you thought you knew KNOWING her makes it easier to figure out her needs, and hence, yours.
if you make enough -None, I would definitely try out instant Gentleman with Instant Honesty. its hard to overdose on it, and it is a different confidence booster than Ammo. Instant Gentleman may make her be more “clingy” to you, and it softens Ammo. I cant say anything about a314, because I have not tried it. but Instant Gentleman? I get cuddles all the time just sitting down and watching TV with my wife. she just feels “comfortable” being that close, and she’ll call me close if I have any distance between us on the couch. I am sure it would make a great Movie Night Phero
I live in Tempe, AZ. My personality isn’t “manly” by any means..I’m more of a lover..not a fighter. I have a huge heart that sometimes it scares me to lose her.
nearly all women try to find guys that emulate their father. is he nice, is he supportive, was he always there during her childhood? how did he treat her mother? do you discuss these things when you are together, or is it sunshine and lollipops? there are some things that pheros cannot help you with, and you will have to use your own talents and observations to navigate. instant Honesty will help you communicate, instant gentleman will help her relax (as will IFM, but you cant buy it anymore) and you need to be a good listener and ask these kinds of questions about her past.
fights happen, its what you do with them and learn from them that matter.
fights have a purpose, they uncover potentially fatal problems with the relationships that are begging to be fixed. they are never about the little things.
you did good by finding this forum, as many of the people here are excellent at giving marital, emotional, physical, and mental advice, not just what chemicals to mix together. I’ve learned alot about how bodies work, and how people interact.
please let us know how we can help, and above all, please stay
i dunno why she said that because her father did something horrible to her uh yeah. lol but
we USED to talk about those things until I got mad at her one day and she seems pushed away since..i tried talking to her and making more comfortable and tomorrow night is my chance again
wish i could take back the ones i bought haha and i’m gonna get instant honesty and instant gentleman asap
She sounds like she may have conflicting desires. Multiple approaches may be good to approach her various needs. Sometimes adventurous, sometimes comforting, sometimes dangerous …
There are never guarantees. You have some warning signs here. see below.
If love is a feeling rather than a committment it will always be challenged. It may be now, or perhaps in 30 years, when she might see someone who, even for a moment, she feels more “in love with.” Many people choose to make their love lives similar to comparison shopping in the grocery store.
The best way to keep her may be to not be scared or “clingy.”
You can probably cancel your order or return them but you may want to consider keeping them. That will enable you to switch up effects on various days. a314 will make you the opposite of clingy. You’ll seem strong and capable. On other days you may want to go with the honesty and rapport vibe of IH. Or the secure comfort of IG. All of these things mix together as she builds her mental picture of who you are, and that picture lasts far longer than the pheromones do.
hey can somebody hook me up with the gift certificate because i’m gonna purchase like 200 more worth of these today from andronics (can i use it there??)
Tisha will be along later to give it to you. It will be in your email address that you used to sign on with, and yes you can use it in the Androtics store
the search button is your friend. too many people independently reporting the same effects from the same products and putatives. the volume of guerilla research done here should convince you that it isn’t snake oil.
and if you give up, give me a holler, I’d be happy to take those pheros off your hands for you
hey i’ve been thinking about what would help the most..and something that makes me more “manlier” and confident would help out. I literally “feel” clingy and unalphamaleish at times…so do you think the alpha product would help me out? Because it sure seems to me that when I was running away, she was chasing
But now that I’m with her, I’m too attached becaseu i’m not that confident (i can fake it, but sometimes i need something else to help)
Hmmm I am thinking IG would be much better for your situation then A314. Seems with your GF mention of past problems she needs to feel secure and IG can help with that.
IH would be a excellent choice as well.
If you have any questions just ask. Your GC is on its way and we will see you in the forum
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