I want to start by introducing myself and hopefully get to know the people of this community. To start with i’ll say I am a bit of a shy guy but not overly so, I just take longer to warm up to people than some other people do. I am a straight guy meaning I dig girls, so lets be clear about that.
I have worked in the same place for the past two years now and worked next to the same woman the entire time. I really dig this woman and we have a ton of stuff in common but she was married when we first started working together and I am no homewrecker. She went through a divorce a year ago and had a horrible time with the dirt bag that she was with, he was abusive to her and her kids and so on. We are only friends currently and have went on some dates and I hang out with her and her kids on the weekends. We have not had sex but that is not to say I don’t get mixed signals or otherwise from her. I am fond of this women and her kids and want to have a relationship with her not just have sex and move on.
With that being said, I want to add that I know nothing about pheromones or which ones might work for me but maybe it is something I need in order to get her in the right mood.. the way I am trying explaining this sounds so bad to me… it’s not like I am trying to take advantage of her, far from it.. she is probably more experienced in the bedroom than I am. :o
Good for you that you are serious and not a homewrecker, trust me, less people with morals now a days. Having said that, I have a few products in mind that would help you with her.
To help you with your shyness I would recommend p75, it totally removes the negative self talk and adds a bit aggressiveness to your nature.
P74 is an instant boyfriend/best buddy pheromone, it really is that good
P96 makes other people be soft around you and treat you with tenderness if you will
Combining them all together, p75 1 spray (2.5mcg, more than enough) p74(10mcg) and p96 (10mcg), would balance them all together and the over all result is a cool man that is very easy to relate to, but very hard to disrespect. It also helps you connect with her kids better( the p74, p96)
I hope I helped and if you have anymore questions, I would be more than happy to help
From my personal experience, the p75 in low dosage is already enough to get that more “masculine” feeling and get rid of your shyness. Don’t go too high with the dosage or you will turn hulk-green. An alternative is A314, but that is more if you are willing to show a more “respectable” kind of feeling. Its like emitting a feeling of a manager or the alpha dog in the house. I noticed that effect when I go on a rampage with my uncle’s kids, they were less rough with me than before wearing mones and were more careful.
Ammo in combination with TUTH will do wonders on dates and picking up woman. Some suggest to get the 2X for people aged around 40’s, but have to look on the forums what is best. While the Ammo will get them more relaxed and cuddly with you, the TUTH will get them more into an aroused state of mind. My personal “killer-mix” is a 4:2 dosage, 4 sprays of regular Ammo with 2 sprays of TUTH but thats a personal thing, dosages vary per person.
Thank you for the information. I noticed that Neroli musk is the default scent, does that smell good or is it supposed to work well with the pheromones? So, lightly scented, cologne scented? They have a lot of scents to choose from, wanted to have your opinion on them. What does the mcg mean exactly, is that the amount of pheromones added?
Thank you for the information. I did a little reading on A314 and was intrigued but I never considered myself the alpha dog type. Perhaps I just need something to instill a little more confidence. I will do more reading on these before I make a decision.
It eases the transition from being a beta male to alpha male, but you have to be confident in taking the lead and not be scared to make mistakes. Taking care of the kids, being their perfect role model are all traits of leadership and signs of being the alpha male in the house. If those kids control you instead of you controlling them, then it means you are not in control and you are not the alpha in the house. That is why she most likely left him, he was not showing any leadership nor taking care of the family. I would describe A314 as a mix to become the next president in the elections. If you are emitting that feeling of confidence, then I am sure that A314 will boost that effect.
Using A314/A I noticed the effects of being an alpha male pretty strongly. Think of Cesar Milan, who has the looks and the feelings of a very good alpha male and the leader of the pack. For me its especially that I want to look good & take care of my girlfriend, instead of the other way around (she taking care of me).
I agree with a lot of what you said on the A314. I think it is hard for her to trust another man after what went on with her first marriage. She trusts me I just think she is reluctant to have a intimate relationship because she feels it might take away her new found independence. (she was with him for 10 years) As far as her kids go, I am great around them but when it comes to disciplining them she wants to be the one to do that. They are her kids not mine and I can respect that. So, perhaps some A314 with AMMO or TUTH.. shrug The instant shine sounds very intriguing as well.
Neroli smells like a citrus, orange flavor. A314 smells like clean linen, Ammo smells like a hotshot and TUTH like a night club. The mcg = microgram and is usually referred to the strength of the spray. It has nothing to do with the smell itself, that one stays the same.
From experience, girls LOVE the Neroli smell. I tried it with A314, Ammo and even TUTH, and they all told me that Neroli smelled the best, strangely enough I prefer the Ammo because it gives that smell of being a tough guy.
I would say, start with what you think will work best on you, and try different combinations. Or, if you are unsure what to get, get the newbie pack and start experimenting. Trust me, its fun when you see the reactions on people’s faces when using pheromones.
There should not be any difference in the amount of pheromones, however with the togo sprays you cannot get the bigger dosages that you can get with the normal sprays. Its more like a “quick spray” for on the road. Also, they do last around 40 sprays compared to the 200 for the 30mL bottle, which for me is exactly 20 days (2 sprays per day).
If you are more confident in yourself, and know what you want for the long run, then the bigger bottles are much better. I have 2 of them, Ammo & TUTH, and the rest of my “arsenal” are small togo bottles that I can quickly hide in one of my pockets “just in case”.
It almost seems like you need no welcome at all. You seem to have gotten all of the best advice from two of our most popular phero-experts.
You’re in more of a common situation than you think. Approaching any woman after a relationship is hard. But you’ve been successful. And she trusts you around her kids, which whether you realize it or not, means a lot. She might be guarded in the sex department for a while, because for us that introduces emotions. The only thing I can say is make sure to be clear about your intentions. If you only want something physical, then let her know. And if you want a relationship…well, it sounds like it might already be going in that direction.
Shine will help boost your overall confidence for sure. And AMMO will help move her in a bit closer the next time you two get some alone time.
Since you’re on the right track I fast-tracked your $25 gift certificate to your inbox (but check junk and spam just in case). And while you’re on train, check out our weekly pheromone specials before you purchase. It’s a winner!
I see you’ve used your GC and I assumed you placed an order. Hope you received it fine and now already kicking ass on helping you up with winning your friend’s heart.
Don’t forget to share your test results my friend. You can create your own journal here to keep notes of your dosages and usages, plus its different effects, including those you consider a “failure”. Journal helps a lot. Its your own phero time machine.
For further questions, you can also create your own help-seeking thread here. Expert pheromone users usually browse this area.
Chat soon!
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Sorry for the late response, I have been very busy lately. Back in late December 2014 I made an order for some AMMO double strength, Instant Shine double strength, A314 1.32a, and TUTH. (also got a free sample of p95)
I have been using the ammo x2sprays shine x2sprays and a314 x1sprays at work. I used this dosage monday through friday through the entire month of January. Also used the same dosages on some of the weekends. The only thing I noticed was she was more chatty and she loved the scent of shine. I haven’t tried out the TUTH yet.
I think I should of listened to Joe12 advice and bought the putatives first. I placed an order earlier this evening for the p74, p75 and p96. When I get these I will let you know what happens.
I’m thinking now I should of made a journal when I started this thing.
Its fine. We understand your enthusiasm to see results leads to neglecting, unintentionally, the importance of documenting every test results.
You can still create a journal after reading this, specially now that you’ve embarked on a putative testing, you need to have a journal where you can compile your experiences, reports, results, and feedbacks.
Great hits by the way, considering her situation. Her being chatty with you is an indication of one thing: she senses what you meant and she’s keeping you near. That should make you smile. And watch out. She’s studying you. AMMO and A314 vibes surely intrigued her.