man looking advive from woman

I posted it in mans forum but I thought it would be useful to ask womans advice also.

Soo, basically I aint got balls to ask from woman how do I smell like

How to approach right? I mean I don’t want to be too lame and too direct. How do you womans feel if someone random guy is close to you and ask like this “Hey, What do you think about my scent, do you like it or not” or for example like this “Hey, I’m doing a little test to find out if this perfume fits to me or not so what you think about it, or can you rate it 1 to 10”:smiley:

All advice will be useful so write as much as you want :slight_smile:
Thanks in advance
mas7er

LOL i’d think he was a little desperate if he used those lines.
i ask people how i smell too, but they’re close friends. and i usually
pull my hair back and expose my neck and they smell that. :cool:
but as for a random stranger? i dont think it’d be okay to ask that.
but if you absolutely must, you should probably sniff yourself and then
turn to her for a second opinion “how do i smell?” or “do i smell bad?”
but don’t be too intent about it, or she’ll see right through you.
just kind of make it out to be a joking or playful manner.

Why do you need to ask women how you smell? Are you afraid that you smell bad or unusual?

Why not just relax and be yourself with women? Ladies like it when you talk about them.

I think a better icebreaker would be to comment on how they smell, like - “I really like your fragrance. What are you wearing?” Notice that you did not just compliment their perfume but their personal scent. Subconsciously this is more personal to them.

HUmmm … since i live with 3 grown men …

I would think it a question that was worthy of my honesty :slight_smile:

If a random guy asks me something like that, I would definately be nice and answer him sincerely. But when I leave, I’ll be thinking why the on earth did he wanted to ask me? But then I’d forget about it after stretching my brain lol

Asking your friends is the best thing to do, because strangers will react in a really awkward way (well, atleast I would if some random guy asked me about his parfume) It’s cute but it’s awkward.

If a man I did not know came up to me to ask me this question I would feel he was weird or needy and in any case I would try to get away from him as quickly as possible. This is not the type of question that makes me feel I want to get to know this man. A little scary, awkward and surprising :open_mouth: because it is not the type of thing you ask strangers. If you are using this line as an icebreaker, for me and the 5 female friends I have asked, it is acting more like a repellent.

I am not quite sure why you are posting this question here. My question is: What makes you want to pose this question in the woman’s forum to any of us or to any random woman you would meet?:confused:

I dont work here :wink: Just so you know.

I believe I anwsered your other post but I will weigh in here to cause you didnt mention random women before.

Nope not a good ideal. Get to know them a little first then ask. Frankly I never ask anyone except my girlfriends how I smell. I get complimented alot from men on it but a compliment means more when you dont ask for it.

I think when a stranger compliments you thats fine but when a stranger asks you “How do I smell” its a little weird. Like Msselva I would be polite thats just the way I am but as soon as you were out of ear shot I would say “ewww that was weird” .

Also as I mentioned in my other reply to you dont say perfume. Women wear perfume, men wear cologne.

Now asking women you already know is a different story. Then you can just say “Hey, I got this new cologne, what do you think of it ?”

Word of advice though, Dont tell them its pheromones. Mones work best on the subconscious mind. Once you make them conscious of it, even if they dont believe they work they try to control there reactions.

Tisha