Marihino's Journal

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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My first order from AD arrived this morning, and I started to have fun straight away. So far, it’s just a few ToGos: A314, IS(2X), IH(2X) and IO.

This was a good day for some testing, so I applied liberally. 2 sprays of A314 to sides of neck, 1 spray of IO to back of neck, 1 spray of 2xIH to front of neck and 2 sprays of 2xIS to wrists. Oh, and two drops of Alter Ego to the temples. I’ve been using AE for quite a while now and found 2 or 3 drops to be my safe sweet spot that I can exceed sometimes without any huge risk of OD.

I went to see that redhead… Well, I met her a couple of months ago already. She’s an optician in a good salon, belonging to a well known chain. I went there to repair my glasses and since then I’ve been there many times. On some of these occasions I was using AE, on some I wasn’t. There were some definite IOIs in both cases, more physical with Alter Ego, and more conversational without. We got rather comfortable around each other, I’d say we’re friends who flirt heavily sometimes. She’s got a boyfriend though, so I’m not taking any more serious actions. She’s telling me sometimes how unhappy she is with him, how jelous he is and how she feels like in a cage being a very social and fun person but not able to live how she’d like to. She is definitely a girl who I could fall in love with. But I think it’s not right to start anything before something else ends. And even if it does, I’d prefer to give it some time. For now, I really enjoy her occasional company, and she seems to enjoy mine.
She’s tall and beautiful, her behaviour always very professional, she’s got a slightly posh, sophisticated vibe. She’s Polish (as am I, although we both didn’t realize that until our third meeting), 29 years old. Some time ago she handed me a card with her facebook address. We became fb friends, I looked at some photos and found out that she’s really a blonde. So “does the carpet match the curtains” is not a question anymore.

So I came to the salon today, wearing all the pheromones mentioned. She was in the middle of the shop, showing two ladies new line of sunglasses. She waved at me, I’m always shopping for new spectacles, so I just started browsing and waiting for her to come over when she’s finished with other customers. But before it happened, her manager approaches me. Asks if I’m alright. Yes I am. “Oh, you’re just waiting to be served by D., don’t you?” I feel lightly tested, it’s first time ever I wear A314. “Well mate, that’s just one way to put it”, I said. “Don’t worry sir, she’ll be here for you in no time”. Test passed :slight_smile:
I shortlisted one model by Prada and one by RayBan and A/B them in front of a mirror. Then someone touches my shoulder. I turn around, it’s another girl from the staff, slim brunette. “Do you need any help here?”. “Yes, kind of, but I would have to teach you an awful lot of stuff first. I’m very specific about my glasses. And your colleague D. already knows everything about all my likes and dislikes”. I might have put too much amphasis on some of the words there. “Oh does she?”. “Oh yes she does”. The brunette walks away.
Few minutes later D. comes over. I greet her with a little neg that I came up with while waiting. “I really love you voice”, I said, “You sound like a character from an old east-german cartoon”. She frowns but laughs loudly. Then we talk business. We exchange opinions on my glasses, she takes notes of the models I consider buying and offers to print me a compilation. It would be a normal conversation, but some things are different than ever before with her - she blushes a lot, she loughs loudly, giggles like a 12 years old, at one point she was standing next to me swaying her hips and bumping her hip against mine. When she went to get my list from a printer, she didn’t walk - she ran through the shop, laughing and prancing like a pony. The girl went crazy :slight_smile:
She decides to take a cigarette break and we go outside. The day is hot for this time of the year, I’m wearing a t-shirt. We sit on a bench just outside the salon, on a very popular and crowdy shopping promenade. “My colleagues already know you” says D., “they’re always like “it’s D.'s friend, I’m not approaching”. They all think I have an affair with you” she laughs and grabs my hand. “Which you obviously don’t”, I reply, take her hand, put it on her own knee and slap it lightly to punish her. Then we talk some more about all kinds of stuff. After a while she decides it’s time to go back to work and asks me if I want to come in and have a coffee. I say I need to go, I’ll have a lunch with my friends. “You need to find yourself a woman” she said. “Come one, you know I’m not short on women”. “You need to find yourself a woman” she repeated, “or we’re in trouble”. Then we part.

Later I’ve had a couple of good hits - woman (about 35) behind a counter in a shop was apoligizing to me for several minutes for extremely little reason. Like, she dropped a coin while giving me my change, and the price of the chocolate I bought was different than the label read. Well, the difference was 1 penny!
When I came back home, the landlady came over, because there’s 2 guys who moved into the house today. The house is big, close to town centre, it’s got 6 bedrooms, 2 full bathrooms, huge kitchen, big lounge and a small garden. We decided that we’ll share it between no more than 4 people, so it doesn’t get to crowded. Anyway, when she came, I was alone in the house. We had some good talk, and then she started asking me for advice on the insurance of her own house. I mean, she’s a property investor, she’s having a nice career in finances, I’m a foreigner renting an overhead from her. wtf? :slight_smile:

Tomorrow I’m working as a bartender in private lounges at the horseracing course. Looking forward :slight_smile:

Some interesting A314 content in my journal
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Great writing. Props.

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Nice to hear that, man. Thanks.

Disclaimer: I know I should test each mix on each own, find my sweet spots etc. I will do it, next week I’ll order A314 in a proper form (oil) and proper size :wink: Some other stuff as well, IS for sure, haven’t yet decided what else.
But now, I’m just having fun with the ToGos.

So yesterday I went to work as a bartender at the racecourse. I do it every now and then as an additional job, if it doesn’t collide with my usual work. I sprayed myself with 2 sprays each of everything I’ve got (A314, IS, IH, IO, Alter Ego).
Last time I’ve been there I met a lovely 21 years old girl named Katie. I was just wearing two drops of Alter Ego back then, but we managed to get kind of friendly, even though we’ve been serving different lounges and only had a few chats outside or in the hall. I was hoping she’d be there again, and she was. First, there was a briefing in a restaurant for all the additional staff. I was few minutes late (it took me 2hrs of driving to get there), so I just quietly walked between all the other guys to sit at the back of the room. When I walked past Katie and “haven’t noticed” her being there, she turned around and said “hi” loudly with a huge smile on her face. Then the manager (late twenties girl) who was just giving the group guidelines for the day noticed me and asked me for my name and if I signed in. “I’m Martin, no I didn’t”. She asked me to come and do it now. I approached her and took the list from her hands. As soon as I put my signature on the list, she told me she’d like me to take charge of a team of 6 bar people. She said she needs a responsible and outspoken person for that. Oh well :slight_smile:
After that we had a breakfast. There was a basket of sausage rolls and some crisps and chocolate bars. I told Katie that I’m not gonna eat any of that crap, I just grabbed a mug of coffee and an apple and we went outside. We sat on a bench, Katie started munching on her sausage roll (what a lovely view), and I, having rejected the unhealthy junk food, had one of my favourite breakfasts - a coffee and a red marlboro. After maybe three or four minutes we saw the manager lady coming toward us with a big paper bag. She took some food out of it and said “OK Martin, I heard you saying that you don’t like sausage rolls, so I think you can have something from what one of our bars is selling. You can have a salad or a ploughman’s sandwich or a beef&mustard sandwich or a chicken&stuffing sandwich or a chicken fajita wrap”. Katie was amazed. OK, let’s play it big and show this girl who’s the man, I thought. “Thanks, WE’LL have a salad and a ploughman’s sandwich and a chicken wrap please”. “Great” the manager smiled widely, gave me the food and went back into the building. I shared the meal with Katie, although I told her she’s not getting a sandwich as she already had the sausage roll and we don’t want her to grow a big butt, do we? Then we smoked some cigarettes (she asked me to give her one, but also said she usually doesn’t smoke). She had very dilated pupils (but this might have been caused by nicotine) and was staring at me all the time. When the time has come to go to work - which was about half an hour later - I stroked her hair and told her to be good and not work to hard. She was going for a kiss and made it obvious, but I grabbed her head in my hands in a way that my palms touched her cheeks and her ears were between my fingers and kissed her forehead. It just felt right, she’s very innocent, despite being really hot. She might be a LTR material, but I don’t feel the comfort has built up enough and making out at this stage might only ruin it. Each of us went their way - we worked in different buildings and I haven’t seen her later that day.
The bar I worked in has a 100-foot long counter with 6 cashpoints and 6 bartenders (me being one of them, in charge of others apparently) and one girl collecting glasses from the tables. Being in charged meant nothing more than telling one of other young workers to help with collecting glasses whenever the girl on the floor was getting too busy. For most of the day, nothing spectacular happened, but I was getting some signs of respect and many huge smiles. And my cashpoint was by far the most popular, I just had a queue all the time, even when there was only two or three people waiting at other cashpoints.
About an hour before closing time, a man told me to serve drinks to a group of his friends, and to give him the bill later. He was the owner of the horse that won one of the races earlier that day. I provided the group with the drinks and approached the guy with the bill. He took it from me and got angry. “£46? That’s impossible! It can’t be that much”. “Sir, every drink is listed on the bill. Just check what your friends are having. It’s 46 pounds please”. “You think you’re the boss? I’m not giving you this much, young man. I can only give you 25 quid for that”. “OK mate, you just pay for your beer. Guys, these drinks are on the house. Have a good Easter”. The man got all red and handed me £50 and told me to keep the change. I gave it to him anyway.

Side note: I was reapplying one spray of each pheromone roughly every 4hrs. I think it was building up, I got some huge DIHLs when I stopped at the supermarket to shop for groceries on my way home.

I love A314 :slight_smile:

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I love the way that manager, after asking you to sign in from being late, to be in charge!

How long from the first time you applied and got into that group at the restaurant? Was that 2 hours?

Like the details in your observations on your interactions.

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No, it was less than 10 minutes! But I have worked there several times before and she must have remembered my face; didn’t know my name though. I’m one of the very few people who go there on regular basis, just on other occasions I’ve been under someone else’s supervision. So this familiarity surely has something to do with it. But what’s funny, she really didn’t have to put anyone in charge of others at that bar. She could just have told the entire team to make sure that we’re on top of collecting empty glasses.

I’m nearly 31 and I’m rather experienced in all aspects of bar and catering work. The problem (and my blessing) is that I look very young - most people can’t believe that I’m any older than, say, 23. I have a feeling that particularly A314 counteracts this a little. Plus it kinda suggests that experience without me having to say a word about it.

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OK, time to start doing it right. I’m ordering a full size A314 in oil form and will start to test it on its own at first, beginning at 1 drop.

Since last time, I’ve had some nice moments, but nothing as obvious as above. Probably because, as opposed to being in company of strangers and/or girls I’m rather close to, in last few days I was spending time mainly with my housemates. It was kind of friendlier than usually and less “minding our own businesses”, but it may be due to it being the holiday time. What I definitely noticed a couple of times, is that I’m less willing to take any bullshit from others when I wear A314 (but other pheromones can have something to do with it as well, as so far I’ve only used them together). One of my housemates (and a good friend) is a 40 years old Sicilian. Single, good looking guy, ex-soldier. Now he’s got a nice and well paid office job. Judging by results, he’s a natural PUA, although his pick-up strategies are very AFC-ish :smiley: Like, buying drinks, saying a lot of compliments etc. It must be his italian accent and appearance, cause he’s got three female friends with regular benefits and a usually a couple of ONS’s every week. I wish I didn’t know this so well, but we have thin walls :wink: The guy is cocky and kind of alpha-ish, he likes to tease people. Without pheromones, sometimes I just didn’t feel like having pointless conversations, so I’d just say something like “OK, I’ll just let you have it again, I’m not replying to that, I chose to ignore it”. Or words to that effect. With A314, I tend to point out to him that I’m aware what he’s doing, like: “Oh, you’re doing it again. You’re asking me questions that I cannot know answers to, like your work-related regulations or parachuting stuff, then you insist that I try to answer, so you can say YOU’RE WRONG with stupid satisfaction”. It’s all said jokingly, but beyond that, I feel there might be a bit of positions rearrangement.

The other night I’ve also seen a girl that I’m seeing for some sexy fun since about 5 months ago. I was thinking about renting an apartament on my own back then and she was the estate agents who was showing me places. She’s 27, blonde, very curvy. I’d say voluptuous, in a very nice, feminine way. I wouldn’t consider her for a LTR, but I still like to spend a quality evening with her every now and then, and all these feelings are mutual. We still enjoy talking to each other when we meet up in town for an occasional lunch, though.
I must say, I didn’t see anything different with her this last night. It was the first time I wore any pheromones around her, and it was just as nice as it always is. Nothing wrong with that, the attraction is there anyway, some kind of comfort as well obviously and nobody wants to take it into another direction.

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Today I’ve got a VERY interesting observation on Instant Openness. I used a lot of it today, and was reapplying often.
Important thing here is that english is my secondary language, yet I speak it almost exclusively now. I was only speaking it for last 6 years (so since I was 25 years old), never learned it at school, no courses etc. Just conversations, reading…

Instant Openness certainly does make me talk more. But it also makes me not think about grammar, words etc. I just speak out, even if not quite correctly. Normally, I tend to be aware of how I speak and to rather do it slowly and pause sometimes than to let any mistakes out. With a few sprays of IO, it just flows. No cognitive process engaged in building sentences, just my ku speaking.
I know the effects of IO are well known here, but I think it might be valuable to look at what it does in case of speaking a foreign language. Different parts of brain work in such situation, the whole process is more conscious. So the pheromone might be influencing it differently as well. I will continue testing it this way, for sure.

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NICE! I think this is a good thought for those learning a new language. To break down the barrier of making a mistake and looking dumb in front of others… IO should just make you DO IT!!!

I hadn’t thought of it in these terms, but can see how it can help!

Thanks !!! :slight_smile:

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Yes, it might be good. I will continue testing Instant Openness this way.

Now…

Crap. Crappitty crap crap crap.
On tuesday afternoon I’ve ordered some A314. The DHL guy arrived on thursday morning (the delivery time is just amazing again), but I was at work. I’ve had a day off on friday, and I will have on on monday, but guess what? Both these days are bank holidays and DHL guys don’t work as well. They will work tuesday to friday, 7am to 6pm. Same hours as me, just I’ll be working in another city, 80 miles away.
Anyway, I’ll try to get someone to pick it up for me. I have to say, AD is just incredible again. My first order was delivered in 36 hours (California to England), this one even quicker. I just couldn’t make changes to my work calendar.

…

The restaurant where I usually work as a sous-chef is pretty much closed for a few weeks, it opens just for functions. Hopefully it will fully re-open soon, when the owner gets his shit together. He made a few business mistakes - like getting too relaxed too soon, about the condition of the business. Just 4 month ofter opening the place he bought a brand new BMW GS1300R bike, went to Brazil for over a month, refurbished his house completely etc. And then the quiet time of the year came with not so many customers…
Anyway, I was always filling my spare time with additional jobs that I was getting from an agency. They are usually able to provide people with two or three days of work a week. Most of them need more, but it doesn’t happen too often that they get it. Well, since I started showing up in the office wearing pheromones (usually a combo of A314, IH and IS), I easily get five.
So lately I’ve been working in several different places, from racecourse to selling beer at rugby games. I usually wear A314 to work on its own. I find 2 sprays to be my sweet spot, I apply it to front/sides of the neck. It works best after 1-3 hours. Straight after application it hits a bit too hard, I get some ghosting and shit-tests. Self-effects are really nice though and I don’t give a shit about the above mentioned. I just make some mental notes.
What surprised me a little, is that A314 seems to be a good lady-attractant even on its own. Especially ones in most interesting (to me) age group - mid to late twenties to early thirties - they get really flirtatious sometimes. And there was that really young busty girl (I don’t think she was any older than 16) who bought a bottle of coke from me and then just stood there with dilated pupils, wide-open nostrils and a red rash on her cleavage that wasn’t there a minute before.

The most amazing things happened yesterday. I was working as a bartender at a wedding. The party took place in a traditional english pub/hotel in a lovely little english town. There was a restaurant, two bars (one of which was reserved for wedding guests only, the other one open for public) and a garden. I used 2 sprays of A314, 3 sprays of ISx2, 2 sprays of IHx2 and 3 sprays of IO. Everything spread either on my neck or forearms. Every two hours I was reapplying a spray of A314 and two each of IH and IS. I decided not two reapply any IO as people were getting intoxicated and overly talkative anyway.
To make a long story short, I was the star of the wedding. OK, I am exaggerating a little, but co-workers were showing me so much respect, and all of it in a very happy, smily way. And the guests - they were making the point of being served by me and not anyone else. This made me busier than other guys, but I also got much better tips and much nicer behaviours from the ladies. There were especially two of them… I was getting massive IOIs from them, the most obvious ones like playing with hair, touching the chest etc. As far as I noticed, they both came to the wedding without any significant others. I will have something to say about them later.
At about 9pm I finished work, but the manager of the place told me that if I’d just stay one more hour hanging out at the public-open bar and having a drink, she would tell the agency that I was working until midnight so I would get paid more. She’s a nice girl about 30yo, she was very friendly but also very professional, and apart from that offer I couldn’t tell if I was getting any hits from her. Or actually… at one point, when she was standing in a hall waiting for the groom to finish his speach, I approached her from behind (she couldn’t see or hear me) and gave her neck and shoulders massage. She turned her head to see who it was, smiled and let me do it. So just the fact that, knowing me for a couple of hours and being my superior, she didn’t stop me, might have been a pheromone-related hit, but it wasn’t obvious. I am naturally shy, and to overcome this, sometimes I do this over-the-top kind of stuff, instantly after having an idea of doing it and before any second thoughts apeear. And more often than I expect, I get positive responses. This was the first time I’ve done something like this while wearing pheromones. Seems like “just go for it” is a good tactics. Next time I’ve done something like this, but naughtier, was the same evening, after I finished work and went to the bar to have a drink. The bar was almost empty, maybe 6 or 8 people there. That’s probably due to the fact that there was a big sign outside saying that the hotel is closed for a private function. I got a glass of scotch with one ice cube and sat in a soft chair in a corner of the room. Every now and then some wedding guests would show up for a minute, to chill a bit. At one point, one of the two aforementioned women came, with her little child in her arms. She sat next to me and started a generic conversation. Nice weather, good band, blah blah blah. The baby was now sleeping on her lap. Every minute she was leaning towards me more and more, and the cleavage of her dress was so big, that her breast were trying to escape from there. There was a definite “first minute of sunrise” going on there, if you know what I mean. “Nice decoletage”, I said with french-like pronounciation, remembering that little convo between Jude Law and Susan Sarandon from the remake of “Alfie”. But this lady didn’t go for a witty reply, she just took one of her boobs entirely out of her dress and asked me if I liked it. Well, I did certainly like it and I told her so. I cupped the breast with my hand and kind of embraced it in a friendly way, if that makes any sense. It’s weird, but whole this situation wasn’t really sexual. I’ve had an impression that the lady is looking for a confirmation of her attractiveness or youth or feminity. She was most definitely completely sober, I think she’s still breastfeeding. I didn’t feel very comfortable, don’t think anyone was looking, even though it was in the bar, but I was concerned that some other of the wedding guests might come in and see that. It all took probably less than half a minute though. The lady corrected her dress (in other word, hid the boobie :wink: ) and stayed for a few minutes more, just talking with me about anything.
After she’s gone, I went to the toilet. There was a narrow, 5m long corridor leading from the bar to the restrooms. It will be important in a minute. I was hoping that the manager girl would show up - what other reason would she have to want me to hang out in the bar if I didn’t have any more work to do? So while in the gents’, I reapplied some pheromones - a spray of A314, two sprays each of ISx2 and IHx2 and some Alter Ego (I didn’t use any that day until this moment) to the temples, one drop each side. I stayed there for a couple of minutes, wainting for the sprays to dry a bit and replying to some text messages. When I came out, the other one of the two women was coming out of the ladies’ room. She was older than the yummy mummy, late thirties at least. Very beautiful woman. And very tall, on her heels noticeably taller than me, I’m 5’11 (I had to look for an online converter just for you guys :slight_smile: ).
Well, this one was drunk. And she wasn’t self-conscious or looking for validation. And it was sexual. We started some conversation, just to pretend, but there was touching straight away, and very soon she just pushed me against the wall and kissed me. She grabbed the hair at the back of my head with one hand and my butt with the other. I pushed her against the opposite wall and, hmmmm, I decided to play it bold again and go SteveO :smiley: which means, my hand found itself underneath the lady’s dress. I was slightly disappointed that she wasn’t going commando, but at least I checked and found out that the styling was the way I like it.
I wasn’t drunk enough to move it any further, so I told the lady that it’d better for her to go back and rejoin the party. She insisted on giving me her number before that. And she lives in Manchester, where I’m going for a weekend in June to visit some friends :slight_smile: I know that the number thing doesn’t mean anything today, but it was a nice gesture anyway.

That’s it for now, I’m taking two days off from using pheromones.

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WOW… just WOW… jaws dropped open…

After re-reading the post…

WOW… jaw still dropped open…

:smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

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yeah…

I’ve had some of that when I was younger - like, 20-24. Then I got into LTRs - one, than another, and now here I am again.
I was smiling a lot at both ladies during the reception, the dinner, there was some light convo, there was some kino while I was serving them etc. But I didn’t expect anything like that :smiley:
I don’t know how much of that should I contribute to pheromones, but it sure was a lot of IH and IS on a solid base of A314 and topped up with IO and AE. And my sweet smile :wink: My face may not be extremely pretty, but I learned over the years, that ladies just love my smile and understaning bright eyes :wink:
I am still a bit shocked with the happenings from that evening…

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This is gonna be a short post.

I went to see D. today, the optician redhead girl I mentioned before.
My mix: 1 spray A314, 3 sprays IHx2, 3 sprays ISx2, 2 sprays IO. I’m not using Alter Ego around her anymore, she’s got a boyfriend and all. I decided to be the nice guy with this one and to friendzone myself deliberately.

Well, the thing is… looks like some girls know about the PUA stuff. Our conversation today.

“So, Martin, I know you’re a musician. But remind me, what instrument you play?”
“Bass mainly”
“NOOOOO! Please tell me you’re joking. Tell me you don’t play bass!”
“Why is that?”
“My highschool sweetheart was a bassist and his name was Martin. Oh my god. I can’t even speak to you anymore”

She didn’t use these exact words - we both speak another language, so I’m translating here. But I couldn’t help but laugh when I imagined her in a furry tophat and with her fingernails painted black :wink:

It’s not really a pheromone-related report, I just wanted to share as I found it funny.

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I have been overdosing A314 lately, on purpose. First, I wanted to get a good grasp of the effects it brings, to learn to distinguish them from the situations that would have happened anyway. Second, I wanted to practice dealing with shit tests that happen a lot then.

My sweet spot for A314 is somewhere between 1 and 2 drops, and quite a few times I deliberately wore 4 or even 5. I’ve had some good opportunities to test, working for an agency that provides hotels and restaurants with temporary chefs and bartenders (I do both kinds of work) and lately also having a permanent job as a chef-de-partie.

I don’t get any shit tests from women. They do start to avoid eye contact though (while at 2 drops they initiate it a lot more than when I don’t wear any Alpha), they also seem confused when conversation gets casual. A bit like a “why do you joke with me, it’s inapropriate; I want you to give me guidance, not entertainment” attitude. At lower dosages, or pheromone-less, ladies LOVE to joke with me.

Men notice my mistakes a lot more when I wear high doses of A314. Whenever I do anything wrong (at work, and it has to happen sometimes since I am “new” in most places), it seems more unexpected and gets more talked about when I wear any Alpha, and particularly when I wear a lot.
One of the most typical shit tests I get from 4 drops upwards is men forgetting my name. Newly met people forget my name sometimes when I don’t wear any pheromones, it’s only normal. They never seem not to remember it when I wear Alpha at my sweet spot level though. And then, when I overdose, I get called anything but my name by other guys (doesn’t happen with women). One would think, after a week of working together every day, 10hrs a day, it’s not too difficult to remember that I’m Martin and not Marcel, Mark or Massimo. It’s easy to solve though. It’s enough to call a guy Giovanni instead of Giorgio (it impresses him even more since normally I call him “chef” as he’s my superior) while putting some emphasis on it, and he learns my name back, instantly.

One of the other classic A314 hits that happened to me recently: I was on a train, a guy was checking the tickets. He was asking everyone for the ticket, then he was actually reading each of them before putting a stamp on it. I was the only person in that carriage who was asked “can I have your ticket please, SIR”, and my ticket wasn’t really checked, he just stamped it without even looking at it. I was wearing 3 drops, applied about an hour earlier.

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I haven’t posted in a while.

Life’s been hectic. I am working for a catering staff agency, specializing in providing temporary staff for all kinds of catering related businesses or events. Anything from few hours pouring beer at greyhound racing to VIP parties or several months long contracts. So, I work in many different places, basically gaining experience and money to open my own restaurant before I turn 40. Most people working for this agency get around 10 to 20 hours of work a week, so they need a “day job” as well. Well, I get 32 to 70 (!), which means that I couldn’t handle another job. I contribute this greatly to A314, as I’ve been with this company for almost a year before I started using pheromones and it wasn’t hard to notice when my situation changed. Whenever the agency sends me for a job, they receive enthusiastic feedback later, and even are asked specifically to send me again if that particular venue ever requests some staff. Apart from that, I got a pay raise, which is unusual in this company. We never work in any one place for too long, and the rates are normally fixed. Well, I just ask for a raise and I got it. Plus, the quality of work that I get improved greatly. I no longer sell beers at rugby games, now I make cocktails to celebrities or cover for a manager of a fancy restaurant during his holidays.

A job that will be hard to forget was two weeks ago. Some of you may remember Steve Winwood, singer/songwriter (“Higher Love”), who also played with Eric Clapton and Ginger Baker before Cream and who actually plays with Clapton again. His daughter Marie-Clare was getting married to Ben Elliot, very succesful young businessman, who I remember reading an interview with in GQ some time ago. The party took place in a venue made of several huge tents connected with each other by a labirynth of corridors. It was in the countryside next to Steve’s house. There was over three hundred guests including many musicians of Winwood’s generation, some modern celebrities like Jamie Cullum or Jemima Khan and the groom’s aunt Camilla Parker-Bowles with her husband Prince Charles. I was greeting guests with champagne during reception and later turned into a bartender for the rest of the party. Hard to describe any particular “hits”, but there was many, from intense and lenghty eye contact from the royalty to cheek-kisses and hugs goodbye from some pretty ladies at the end. Also Steve himself approached me many times for some casual chit-chat, asked if I am a musician and having found out that in fact I am, insisted that he’s definitely seen me onstage somewhere (which is very unlikely). Well, I number-closed this one :wink:

Oh, pheromones. I wore A314 on its own, 3 drops at the beginning and then adding a drop every two hours or so. Yeah, it was a lot.

A week later I applied 2 drops each of A314 and Alter Ego and a drop (probably about 50 micrograms) of LoveScent’s androstadienone, just before leaving home. Then there was an hour of driving to the outskirts of Oxford, where another VIP party was taking place. This time it was 80th birthday of the founder of popular chain of mobile phone accesories shops. The venue - jubilee’s daughter’s house, lovely georgian manor house surrounded by huge and beautiful private gardens. There was 25 people partying, mostly old, but there was one spectacular girl, aged probably about 19 to 23. Think what Amy Winehouse would have looked like if she never did any drugs or booze and was just a bit prettier, taller and of fuller figure. And then mix some Monica Belucci and Dita Von Teesse to it. I was stunned. And her boyfriend, fine young gentleman wearing scottish uniform, was pissed off, because she was that bit to sweet towards me. I was a butler there, so I’ve had a lot of interaction with all guests and all staff. Oh, the staff: me, the butler. A male waiter, about 50 years old. Similarly aged woman, I’ve worked with her many times before and like her very much. That feeling is mutual, she hugs me a lot and calls me “babe”. Another female waitress, 28 years old, very pretty and rather stupid. Then the chefs, working for a catering company that hired us: Sarah (the owner of that company), 39 years old, very attractive, latin style, think mature Salma Hayek. Her assistant, a girl in late twenties, attractive but with rather boyish charm. And a kitchen porter, twenty something guy.
Disclaimer: since I’ve found this forum, I learned here not only about pheromones, but found also a lot of good advice on interpersonal interactions, body language etc. I’ve read many books in last year, like ones recommended by Radman, written by David Deida, Carlos Xuma. I’ve studied all that as deeply as I could, followed everything that I considered valuable advice. Not to mention all the priceless and ingenious advice by Rad himself, SteveO, Tisha and quite a few others here. I also started practicing aikido again, studying huna, and in general I feel much better in my own skin than ever before. I started working out regularly and while I haven’t put on too much muscle mass, I got much stronger (I bench-press my own weight -76kg- 8 times as opposed to 25kg 14 months ago; I also do 4 series of 12 chin-ups as opposed to zero last year) and my posture is much better, straighter and more open. Plus I look very young for my actual age, I got asked for an ID when buying wine for my 31st birthday, good present :wink: I am sure that all this makes some things possible, that wouldn’t ever happen before. Or I wouldn’t have noticed. I’m sure not everything that happens to me is because of the pheromones. But I’m also aware of how much actually is, as I do not use them every day, and I just can see the difference and the edge that they give.
The action: best reaction that evening I received from Sarah. There was some good conversation, when she told me that she’s 39 and has six children, I thought that she looks amazingly fresh for that age and number of kids. “Well, I’ve had an eye-lift and a boob-lift lately”, she replied. She admitted that she got a botox last christmas as well, but she didn’t like it because of looking like an inflatable sex-doll. There was a lot of kino from her, too. Well, from me as well, but I was more subtle, while she was just grabbing my ass or stroking my cheek. After she unpacked the birthday cake, she waved at me with a purple ribbon and said “we’re gonna play later, kitty, mrrrreow”. Then her assistant (the girl) blurted out jokingly: “I’m jealous, I want to play with a silk ribbon with you”. Sarah then approached the girl from behind, threw her on the table, very quickly and expertly tied her hands with the ribbon, and spanked her ass really hard. Good fun :slight_smile:
At one point, when the waiter guy pointed out to Sarah that maybe she shouldn’t harass me sexually in such an obvious way (it was all being said for laughs), she said : “but he’s so beautiful”. Aaaaahhh. That’s one word I haven’t been called before, especially by a beautiful, confident, very well-connected, succesful woman. “It must be that beard”, she added. Yeah, I wear a big grunge-style goatie lately that contrasts nicely with my baby-face, but I almost had to bite my tounge not to tell her that it’s not the beard, it’s the A1 magic in works, baby. I got Sarah’s number at the end (which will be used in a professional way only) and a nice, wet (tounge-less though :wink: ) kiss goodbye.

I’m running out of A314 now, which means it will be time to order rather soon. Don’t know what else to get… I want to try some stuff that might work for my ultimate “Instant Love Of Her Life” mix, or perhaps even a “Stop Hating Me And Love Me Again Right Now, Ex” mix that I was dreaming about when I joined the forum. I don’t need the latter, as I’m over that thing for a while now, but as I know that I will probably see the biatch (just joking calling her that, she’s a wonderful person) here some time as her sister lives nearby and we bump into each other regularly, I’m curious if that thing is at all possible. There is also a girl here who I find very much perfect, we worked a couple of times together last year and she had a crush on me, but then I said something stupid and too direct and she shied away (she’s only 21). I know I will probably work with her again some time this year. And then there’s a girl that I met and went for coffee and lunch with a few months ago when shopping in another city, and it turned out that not only she’s from my country, but she’s also from the very same part of it, we actually went to high school in the same town. We pretty much found each other perfect, wanting same things for future and stuff, but as both were recovering after bad break-ups at the time, we both decided that we don’t want to be just a rebound to each other, so, as nothing serious and good could happen, we decided not to see aech other too soon. OK, she decided :wink: We kept a phone and e-mail contact though, and lately both seem to be ready for meeting up again. So, I want to see how much “omg, I love this guy, I think he’s The One” can I get with a little help from pheromones. I definitely want to try P74 based on what I’ve read about it. I’m eager to mix it with A1, IH, IS and some stuff that I still haven’t tried, like meo-est and P83 maybe, and add it on top of a solid base of A314. But that’s just fantasizing, so far I think I start to get a good grasp of what A314 can do (or more accurately: what it can do for me), I see the difference between wearing 1 drop and nothing at all, I also see the difference between wearing 1 drop and 3 drops, and 5 drops (and I can handle this much lately, and even more, while at the beginning 2 drops was absolute maximum for me or people were getting confused and/or unpleasant). I’m also starting to know the effects of A1 and I feel rather proficient at using small dosages of Alter Ego now. Oddly enough, I’ve never tried Ammo, which is supposedly similar to AE, and I obviously feel much more attached to AD and their products. Alter Ego has worked for me very well, though, I like its thick-ish DPG base and the kind of diffusion that it gives, I also like the smell, which is similar to A314. I think it’s the scent of androsterone.

Enough, probably nobody read through all this :wink:

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NOT True! I enjoyed your post immensely. I can see that you’ve got a good grip on how A314 works FOR YOU… You don’t expect A314 to carry you… YOU carry A314 WELL!

I would like you to experience AMMO as it would be delightful to read up on your observations of it!

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Thanks 1Alpha :slight_smile:

Yes, and I definitely get a bit different results from A314 to what I read from others, and I’m sure it has a lot to do with my personality and appearance. I’m young and look even younger, I’m slim, smile-y and baby-faced. I don’t get much of the “James Bond” or “GQ man” thing with the A314. I get a lot of trust, and it works well for me at work. People assume that I’ll be the best person for any job pretty much whenever it happens that someone has to be picked from a group. Whenever I’ve done any job and I’ve done it well, the feedback is even better.
In social situations, A314 is complementing my personality nicely. It’s an amazing allround product. Works wonders as lady-attractant, gets me some domination in a group, although it isn’t aggresive by any means; it’s just not me. Warm, friendly authority. I don’t really feel that I need to buffer it with anything, I think I do it on my own. Without A314, I might have at times come across as a bit goofy. With it, I’m being received more in the way that I see myself. Having worked on my body language, posture etc for a few months now, I must say I get that more nad more even without the blue-bottled droplets.
I will try Ammo some time for sure, but I think now I’ll stick to what makes me most curious: the trust- and raport-builders, “Instant Boyfriend” potions etc. I guess that I produce a lot of androstenone naturally anyway, judging by women’s reactions. Now I know that not all people’s reactions are pheromone-related, but I guess with some experience we start to be able to assume quite correctly which ones are or aren’t; what’s common in certain age groups while wearing this or that etc.

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For last two weeks or so I’ve been working in a small pub-ey restaurant in the middle of nowhere, which just means side of a B road in english countryside. I still will be working there occasionally, but last two weeks I’ve been there every day. It’s in a small village and serves as a local pub for the villagers (many of which are close to the horseracing industry) but as there isn’t quite enough of them to keep the business going, there is also really fine food to attract people from far away.

I was wearing only A314 there, usually for two days and then I was taking a day of (pheroless), just to keep my effects judgement more reliable. One or two drops at noon, just before opening for lunch, then another one or two (regardless of how many it was before, based on my own will and thing like “who’s working with me tonight” or “what kind of guests do we expect”) at 6pm, before re-opening for dinner. So in the evenings I was wearing 2 to 4 drops, as I didn’t wash the morning ones off. Of course it would fade a bit.

I was spending my breaks between lunch and dinner services in the village, as I didn’t see any point driving back and forth to the city where I live. Bassically I would just hang out with some locals outside. Here’s an interesting observation: horses love A314. There’s many of them there, it was enough to put my arm over the restaurant’s garden fence to touch them, or just jump over it to be among them. They would come to greet me when I was wearing Alpha, and would follow my every step, particularly if I was wearing 2 drops or more. A horse of course is an animal with a very good sense of smell, and one that only really likes alpha-like behaviour in people: confident and open body language, straight posture, eye contact etc. When I wasn’t wearing anything, they would still be polite if that makes any sense, but keeping more distance, not so keen to be touched and generally rather oblivious to my presence.

Now for the human targets:

The locals - mostly what I would call “mature” to “elderly” people - in their late fifties or older. I became very friendly with many of them, even best buddies with some. More so than other staff members, some of which have been working there for years.

The owner - a 40 years old guy, a total Beta at the first sight. A succesful businessman though, talented chef and golfist and a good husband and father, from what I managed to observe. His body language though, face expressions (and colours), eyes lowering, voice, the way he’s asking people to do anything… Well, he could use some coaching there. The only person ever (so far) to evidently like me less when I’m wearing any amount of A314. He would very blatantly avoid having to talk to me when I’ve had any on me. Almost as if he felt threatened. Over the days I’ve worked it into more ease though, chatting him up particularly often and nicely when he was most avoiding it, asking him questions, seeking guidance from him etc. Simply put, pushing him forcefully into the alpha position, I didn’t really need him feeling insecure there. I want to work there more often :slight_smile:

Other chefs - extremely friendly and buddy-like contact. The youngest of them, twenty-something tiny little guy was a bit quiet and intimidated when I was wearing more than one drop. One drop or none at all was fine and there wasn’t much differenc with him whether that drop was there or not. Again, I was acting against that intimidation with conversation, kino etc. Other chefs on the contrary - the more I wore, the more they liked me. No lines that shouldn’t be crossed, I even called the head chef a Nazi when shouting at him jokingly; considering that I’m Polish and he’s German, finding it funny takes some self-distance.

Waitresses and barmaids - total love. (Sometimes I find it exactly the way that John Sebastian stated on some occasion - A314 is a perfect mix on its own. It’s an amazing lady attractant. I still intend to mix it with other products, as I did before, but to be honest, pretty much out of curiosity. Of the mixes I’ve tried, A314 on its own is my perfect one so far.) One of them especially, a voluptuous 17 years old, gave me the most obvious IOIs, from diluted pupils to facing me all the time, showing skin (sometimes as bluntly as leaning towards me only - making it obvious, although I suppose she was finding it subtle - so that I could look deeper into her cleavage), smiling at me and looking for reaction. She’s beautiful, but too young, so I was just enjoying her youthful energy, charging my own of it, and generally friend-zoning myself deeply, which took some work, as the attraction was obvious. Mine as well, I’m afraid. One day I gave her a bit of the neck and shoulders massage, and later she basically invited herself into my place for a full one (it didn’t happen yet, and it won’t, promise!). She also admitted to play guitar and need lessons (I had mentioned earlier playing both bass and guitar, having a BA in music and having been a music teacher before). Other girls - very positive reactions, but not quite as crush-like. A bit of intimidation at times though, and a lot of authority.

Customers - wide array of reactions from neutral to enthusiastic and totally crush-y. Some obvious DIHLs at higher drop count.

Now the special one. Yana. The girl I was hired to cover for while she was on holiday. 27 years old, tall brunette, eastern European as me, but different country. She came back yesterday and came over to chat, that’s when we met. Oh dear. Biggest pupils I’ve ever seen. The girl is very outgoing and not shy at all, so she just asked me a million questions within few minutes and told me everything about herself. Withing 5 minutes I was asked if I am single, within half an hour we pretty much agreed that a “friends with benefits” deal would be perfect for me and her. Today we worked together, it was my last day there for a while. She lives in a little flat upstairs, above the restaurant. Well, I didn’t spent my break today with the horses, thank you very much.

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Great night out on Friday! I went with my housemate A. to meet his former housemate C. and C.'s new housemate J. :slight_smile:

now:

A. - 24yo, good friend, intelligent, opinionated, good musician. He gets beaten up by strangers a bit too often though, and, not trying to be an ass, no wonder. He looks like what you’d call a nerd in early '90s.

C. - tall, shy guy, mid-30s I think. Very friendly. These two guys basically kept drinking their beers at the tables at different venues.

J. - American, mid-30s. Not too tall, ugly and bald. Knows some PUA stuff though, and knows how to use it. Some peacocking, huge ring and a fedora hat with a silly feather. Worked well, throughout the night at least two girls approached us to talk about the hat.

Pheromones: I put as much A314 on me as I could squeeze out of the bottle, which was about 6 or 7 drops. Now I’m out of it (next one is already on its way though).

Venue: about 6 different bars and nightclubs in the centre of a medium sized city.

Target: everyone around, from the two guys I just met to go out with them to people in the clubs and on the streets.

Action: since we entered the first club, I guessed that J is doing the PUA thing. First thing, he was making a show of arriving with friends, high-fiving us for whatever reason, then he’d go and “open sets”. And he was good in it. Quite early on, right after we talked a bit about the PUA thing and I told him that I read a bit, he asked me to be his wingman and approach sets with him. No problem with that. The problem was that he’d opet and start the conversation, and few seconds later the girl’s eyes would be on me, even if she’s answer J’s questions. Even one of the girls who approached us on the street to ask about his hat, soon started talked just with me. Her name was Lindsay, and we took her to the next venue, where she received a text from her friends and left us to join them. I got a very nice boobie-rubbing hug goodbye from her, and a phone number (without asking). Next bounce off to another club and we meet a group of girls on the street, they turn out to be German, working in the UK as au-pair. There was three of them IIRC, J instantly started working on a spectacular brunette, she was somewhat immune to his rough charm though, asked him not to touch her when he tried to do some “kino”. I liked the shy strawberry blonde better, impressed her a bit with my basic german skills and having many german friends, and within maybe 6 minutes we started kissing. J did the same thing, not the brunette he initially liked though, but with the other one. Our two other friends in the meantime smoke their rollies and kept looking at their watches waiting 'til we finish, they started to get thirsty I guess. The girls refused to go with us or to take us with them, they also didn’t want to give us their numbers, so bless them.
A nice situation happened in the last club we went to, one for heavy metal fans. I was getting a bit tired, but was also very relaxed, so I took up some space, spreading my legs and arms, and feeling good in general while we sat at the table. The guys ordered some beers, I was having a glass if gin this time (not a great fan of beer, unless in the hot summer). Apparently a girl at a table naxt to ours (behind my back) kept staring at me. Like, she wouldn’t take her eyes of me. Long, continuous DIHL. Boys told me about it, and I noticed in the short moments while looking around for a waitress. The girl was very pretty, a 9 probably, but in a goth outfit that I don’t really like. She was with a boyfriend, too. The music was loud, so we didn’t hear the conversations at other tables, but at one point the boyfriend shouted rather loudly: “do you want to fuck him?!” and went to the loo. The girl kept staring.

So I’m probably out of A314, although I might get another couple of drops out of that bottle. Another one is being shipped, together with something that I’ve always been curious about - P74 :slight_smile:

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I also enjoy your posts and as such your journal. I often read but don’t always get a chance to post in every journal. I did want to stop by though and say keep it up. Its very informative :smiley:.

Also now I’m subscribed.

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i agree with alpha. great story, hope i’ll have some to share one day