Flowers?..lol…mine smells like stink weed…that’s been growing in the compost pile. 
LOL! sigh I wish mine could smell like flowers or stinky weed instead of deadly buttcheese and stinky foot
now that i’m almost over the jetlag and the such.. i felt the need to kinda vent it all out:
i think my TG just ignores me when i try something new 
i remember the post exam party right after my annoying exam was over (btw im officially 25% doctor! yay me!!) i wore:
3 sprays of MX135
1/2 pack of SoE
2 sprays of IS-B
random drops of EoW all over…
my memory is kinda getting hazy now tho: we pregamed and i was having some sort of a packing crisis 
so i was late to the pregaming place. he called me once to ask me if i was coming and i said, ill be there in a bit. i got there and i purposely didnt say hi or anything to him. i know he noticed me but he did a great job ignoring me. hmph.
we then went to the actual party. i talked to him maybe.. twice. in the beginning he was talking to me and brushing up on me and stuff. then after that, nada. i have no idea why. now that i think of it, i think he was cute in the beginning but somehow he stopped talking to me all together..
he basically spent the whole night talking to other girls. i mean, he’s not interested in them or anything but its just.. annoying. at times, i felt like when i came to talk to him, he left. hmm..
after the party, he still didnt talk to me and my flight was next day at 7am, so i went back. he called me once and asked if i knew how this other club has a cover. at this point, i got pissed off and said, how would i know, ask somebody else. and hung up.
i came downstairs to see my friends who wanted to say byebye before i left, and i ran into him. he was kinda playful (but less than usual) and i was pissed off.
i know he takes awhile to get used the pheros but i thought that was a bit extreme
he did call me the next day and said he called to make sure i dont miss my flight (i dont think he remembered last night) and so i was nicer to him. then while i was in my flight he wrote on my facebook which was cute too i guess. i hope he feels horrible for ignoring me the whole night. hmph.
hmmm maybe it was the SoE that put him off. or maybe he’s just moody. or maybe he’s just not that into me. or maybe he’s just really used to my natural scent that if i do anything different it puts him off. sigh. i dont know…
i thought SoE was supposed to make ppl friendlier if anything..
I like Philly too. I was there a couple years ago and am planning to go back. I love history and there is no shortage of that there …
Congrats on finishing the first year. I know a lot of Canadians come to the US for medical care - now they are coming here for medical school too - lol.
It can be any or all of the above. Not sure what to tell you. If it is just the pheromones throwing him off he will adjust in a while. It took my wife 2-3 weeks and Tisha says the same for her husband. Not usre if it would take more or less time given that the two of you do not live together …
When you add in changing phero-sginature, you leaving town on vacation, your relationship still not solidified … might explain his behavior.
Could be he is not sure himself how much he wants to commit into the relationship …
A lot of guys suffer from MPB and he might not realize how much YOU want the relationship …
Wish I could help you more girl …
I’m not too good at the relationship stuff, but maybe he was trying to make you jealous, especially if he spent the night talking to girls that you know he does not like. I bet he did feel bad about the way he acted, and was just kinda hoping that you’d forget the whole thing. That’s just my two cents though.
I hope everything works out for you and congrats on your progress to being a doctor!! 
The Scent of Eros For Women probably wasn’t your problem. Hm, well, alphanol draw people toward you, and the betanol keeps them there… so maybe you should add some Instant Honesty to the mix?
You should try some socials. From what I gather, you want a relationship with this guy, right? Well… it’s just speculation, but… maybe he misses the half of you that was his friend, and is intimidated by the new alpha-sexual you. Relationships can’t be founded on sexual attraction alone, and I know you two already have something going on, but… well, you get what I’m saying, right?
I dapple back and forth between the sexy mixes, the social mixes, and the sexy social mixes… I definitely prefer the well-roundedness of ‘sexy socials’, probably because I’m a Libra and get OCD about balance 
but still.
And girl, if TAH isn’t working right for you, don’t just go on preconceived notions. Test the waters! He liked you when you were alpha; who’s to say he wouldn’t like alpha pheromones? Pshaw, don’t listen to him. Guys don’t know what they want anyway Test your IS/A and see how he responds. If you try it a few times and it doesn’t work for you, pair it with MX135 or IS/B and try again. And don’t forget the socials! They’re definitely worth the investment in my opinion
aww thanx for the responses i was really just complaining like a little girl about it.. haha
yeah i do want a relationship with this dummy. i think we are kind of weird in a sense that we did have a really good relationship and then we had to break it off cuz of his parents (we are interracial) but then we never got over each other. and we only want to spend time with each other. although we claim we arent dating (more like he claims), he kisses me on the nose, go shopping with me and takes me out for dinner and etc etc. things he doesnt do with other girls i suppose.. haha i hope im not delusional.
bosshank - i think he does know i want a relationship.. he just doesnt know what he wants. which really annoys me because i know he likes me a lot. i guess its kind of hard committing when he knows that his parents will be a problem again in the future if he wants to date me again.
bookgirl - yeeeah. he spent time talking to girls that i absolutely do not like. and im not sure if he knows that.. he’s not attracted to them and he says that those girls are supposed to be like his “big sisters” but it still bothers me a lot. its more upsetting because i know that even tho he’s not attracted to them, i know that they are. (they openly talk about it, but he doesnt know that they do) hmph. i guess the big sisters are into incest. hmph.
tealeaves - i’m thinking of trying IS-A also.. maybe ive neglected it too much. i mean, its supposed to be my natural signature anyways right? he was attracted to the scary me even before my pheros so i guess i should play that up more
maybe when i see him in 3 weeks ill start fresh with some IS-A mix?
<3
No - it can be tough.
OK - that tells me everything I need to know.
Here’s the deal - and especially if this guy is older than 21 - he needs to make a decision - is he going to choose the woman he loves and knows is a great find or is he going to acquiece to his parents’ unreasonable demands? Is he going to be a Man or is he still mommy and daddy’s good little boy who will let them live his life for him?
The fact that he backed down and gave in to his parents once already tells you something right there. And it does not matter why: Whether it is “a close family”, respecting your parents, or a really sad excuse: who is paying for what. Closeness and respect go two ways - and they need to be close enough to respect his decision. And he needs to be a Man about it and stand up to them and say so.
Here’s the speech: “Mom, Dad, I am in love with Remmy. She is a truely wonderful person. I know that she is the one. I know you do not want her in my life but I feel it is for all the wrong reasons. I also know that if you put those feelings aside and give her a chance you will see what a wonderful person she is. I would love to have your blessings for this relationship but we are going forward with or without them. If you cannot find it in your heart to accept her and be kind to her, then we will not be able to spend much time with you as I will not ask her to put up with poor behavior. If that means you stop paying for XXX then so be it. I will do what I need to do to build my life with Remmy.”
If he isn’t willing to do that, then you gotta ask yourself the question: Do I want a man who will not stand up to his parents and say she is the one no matter what? Cause if there is a rift over the relationship, it is his family who is turning their backs on the two of you not the other way around. He needs to grow a spine and set of gonads quickly - because you do not want to end up with a guy who is always gonna say “Yes mommy, yes mommy.” That is a recipe for disaster. Cause the next thing that happens is that he comes to you and says “We gotta do xxx because my mommy says so.” WTF?
Its tough enough combining two lives into one with all the decisions about what are we gonna do whose way or where do we compromise in the middle. It gets even tougher when you have two people coming from very different backgrounds. It is impossible when you have a third or fourth person in the marriage saying “Do it this way.” Asking and receiving advice is one thing. Having someones mom or dad standing behind them making their mouth move like a ventriliquist dummy is something else entirely.
So you gotta decide what you want, or more exactly what kinda man you want. Then you need to tell him the kind of man you need. (And I hope it is one that comes complete with a spine and a set of balls, but if not, well, no one ever hurt my feelings by ignoring my advice, but if that is the case, I bet you ain’t gonna be happy in the long run.) And give him a set time frame to decide if he can find’em or not. If not, then maybe he is friend material but never was husband material. (But who is into spineless eunuchs?) Move on and don’t look back. I know that last part is tough, but it will save you much pain in the long run. Hell - feel free to print out the speech above and hand it to him if that will help.
Now I know you already know this deep down. A girl smart enough to be in medical school is smart enough to have figured this out. Sometimes we just need someone to telll us it is OK to do something. I’ll be happy to cheer you on if it helps. Or pull my nose back into my own business.
Good news is that you have three weeks to mull it all over before you see him again.
thanx so much for the advice i really do appreciate it. i know that also, but when the whole parents thing happened… he was 19 so we were really immature. and now.. it’s been kinda too long so i cant bring the whole love back into the equation. if u know what i mean… id rather that we start again fresh, take it slow and see if we can build with a clear goal in mind. but the thing is, we are only 21 and 22 right now and just starting school. so it’s a little too early for us to worry about getting married and committing completely.
but yeah.. if we do decide to try again then of course ill tell him the whole deal before we get serious. if he doesnt even want to try or doesnt want to deal with his parents then.. well. i love him a lot, but ill try to deal with it. i want a guy with a pair of balls. hmph 
i think he knows that too.. and he’s just trying to confused right in the middle. he really wants me in his life and i think he still loves me. probably not as much as before tho.. but he also knows that his parents (they are indian, so very very strict) and our culture will clash so he doesnt know what to do etc etc.
of course, i’m from a background where if u love someone, everything works out. but i guess its not like that for every parents
anyways, thanx so much it means a lot ill also think about what i want to do too and ill def. keep you updated on things <3
<3 remmy
wow! bosshanks your da man! lol, I’m pretty much in the same situation as renny but in my case it’s me
Don’t get me wrong - I am not advocating people cutting their families off, etc.. What I am saying is that - in those cases where you have family that comes from a culture where they and not you pick who you are getting married to or have final say over your choice - at a certain point in your adult life - you may need to have a good heart to heart talk with your parents about you making those choices - respectfully listening to their advice - but in the end them having love, trust and respect for you to respect your chioce.
It takes a lot of courage - and there may be some severe repercussions you may need to be ready to face and live with … and either you or your spouse deserves someone who can establish appropriate boundaries between you as a couple and the rest of the family.
o yeah i def. agree with you.
i felt that it was a little too early to make such big decisions like that when ur not even 21, u know? but i was really annoyed with him. because i was prepared to do so if it came down to it. i mean, of course he had some other excuses too. but i thought it all really came down to him being a baby. aaaand its really my fault for going around robbing cradles
hopefully, he’ll grow up sometime. haha
<3 remmy
ps. i owe u reps. ive been trying for the last couple of days to give u
out in korea
soooo i went out clubbing last night. and i whipped out some of the pheros i brought with me and thought id report on the results
what i tried:
- half a gel pack of SoE
- 2 sprays of IS-A
- 2 sprays of MX135
- i did the exact same to my sis without the IS-A.. i wanted her to try pheros hehe
(couldnt try anything else really.. those are the only 3 things i have in a to-go sized containers)
hits:
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as soon as i tried MX135, ppl were friendlier towards me and whenever i asked for direction, ppl went out of their way to help me with it
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it was nice one of the guys who helped me out was ridiculously good looking. hehehehe.
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with cover ($30..eww) you are supposed to get a free drink. so we went up to the bartender to claim our free drinks. afterwards, i talked to him for awhile and then he made us free drinks… which, would’ve been 40 dollars if we paid for it. it was kinda cute
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some guy kept walking by our table as we were sipping our drinks. he walked by 5 times.
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we were dancing and these group of guys kept eyeing us and following us around..
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the same group of guys eventually started dancing near us but couldnt work up the balls to say something.. so i took the initiative and said that we liked their hat (they wore.. matching mafia hats. ya…) and they got really happy and friendly with us.
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they invited us to come join their table. as we walked towards their booth, other group of guys looked at them really enviously
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basically we were surrounded by 6 guys trying to get our attention and our numbers
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i think IS-A made them a little intimidated also because although they found us both very attractive, they were respectful of us.
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we came back and our mom was hanging out with her friends. they were really friendly and invited us to come tell them what happened. hahaha i’m not sure if thats the pheros or alcohol because they had a beer or two or three i think..
conclusion:
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although we usually get a lot of attention and guys without the pheros, pheros def. adds to it.
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we had an awesome time!
that’s my first time going out clubbing in korea
<3 remmy
Good for you - sometimes you just have to take things into your own hands … er, … the intiative that is … but anyways, good job, great post.
First things first! Reps for your report sounds like you had fun and doesn’t it feel good when really hot guys are sweet to you lol!!! I love mx135, but I haven’t tried scent of eros yet…as I’m poor at the moment! (I bought a full size bottle of mx135 and some scents at love potions…sigh I hate being a student!)
Yea, and I like the fact that you didn’t chicken out to talk to the dudes (I’ve got to learn to start doing that!)
back in philly
i tried to buy MX135 to lift my spirits but it was out of stock
and they lost my luggage.. hopefully its coming tomorrow… and after i got out of the airport it started pouring so i got soaking wet
welcome back to philly remmy 
Welcome back remmy! Here’s a little sunshine for you…
Just curiously, doesn’t it rain in Korea?
Don’t worry about MX135…it will be back soon enough…too popular to discontinue.
Cya, sweetie.
Bella
I get the same way after a good vacation someplace interesting. Chin up. Sorry about the luggage. I have had the same. But it has always caught up to me.
Remmy was lucky - it is typhoon (hurricane in the Pacific) season in Korea. She coulda been real wet.
hehehe ya
but in all seriousness.. yeah i actually JUST left the typhoon season. i was there for 2 days with the typhoon going on until i left and thought i escaped it.. until i came to philly
but yaaa. im gna head over to see if MX135 is on and then sleep!
<3 remmy
just placed an order for MX107 and LAM to mess up my TG… hehehe i wish i get one of those MX250 samples too fingers crossed