If you want to add the “dark fascination” or “witchy” vibe to a mix, consider some P97. I’ve had some interesting results from that paired with a sexual, again in a possibly unisex direction. Would be interesting to see what a woman makes of it.
Put it another way, if im ever in a certain kind of “circle” again, I know what I’ll be wearing!
And I don’t think the self effects of either IH, betanol or P74 will be any great problem for you. So long as you can keep your own counsel well and remain aware of the potential for letting things slip out. Neither are prone to the sort of stark responses you can get from none or cops.
P83 - I’d suggest you go for the higher end of the dose range - 40mcg or over up to about 80mcg (it gets unproductive/veg-out over 100mcg) and similarly, a fair heft of IS, maybe 3-4 sprays initially but you could go a lot higher - again, I used to love my 4x IS when things turned sexy and playful!