Lol, just rub it in their faces.
“You THINK you understand, but you don’t. And you never will.”
Hahaha. Poor guys. It’s not so much that they don’t understand… more like we’re all psychopaths. It’s true. For example, one of my closest female friends cheated on her “boyfriend” (X) with two or three other guys, and planned on cheating again with a guy friend of hers (Y). She eventually broke up with him, and later that same day, Y told X’s friend (Z) that she cheated. My friend wants Z more than any other guy, and she’s been after him for months. She wants a relationship, Z does not, plus he has certain morals and will not touch her. She was furious at Y for destroying the smidgen of hope she had for a relationship with Z. She tried to justify cheating on X, knew she did him wrong, but didn’t feel like it was the wrong thing to do because she was never interested in a relationship in the first place. She was the one who put the “boyfriend/girlfriend” label on it, too.
Put that in your pipe and smoke it.
(I love her to death, but cheating is horrible thing to do to someone Just don’t do it, people.)
I have never said I understood a woman nor would I ever assume that I do. I have tried in the past to understand female logic and the social interactions they present and after a very short time time my brain started to hurt and I stopped doing it. Now I do not think about it and I am much happier.
Ponderu
Moral of the story, you may also think you’re clever, and you may be playing us like chess, but what you don’t know is that the king you’re trying to take may actually be just a pond . You’ll have to be ware of guys like the ones you find here, but I’d have to say that we’re rather rare .
Same here, Bella. I must have a somewhat male soul as I’ve never found it to be alluring to keep a man’s head spinning.
A little mystery is acceptable, but it’s been my experience that most men consider “female logic” to be an oxymoron and get frustrated with it. I’m pretty down to earth and have found a lot of men find that unique and refreshing.
Ditto. I’m not interested in spinning mind games or twisting agates…aside from playful fun…men find that alone attractive. At least the men I’m interested in. They appreciate my straight forwardness. I might also add…that, in no way, compromises my feminine aura…I can put it straight out there and still be percieved as acutely feminine…but in, as ariadne said, a unique way.
If I was a man and had to deal, on a regular basis, with the crap most women dish out…I’d be f’in’ gay.
I’ve come to this conclusion women place too much emphasis on beauty. That’s why the women who appear average get all the play. They are really not average, just naturally beautiful. They have lots of other things going for them. If you have a whole room full of naked beauties, then I guess average is at a different level, then say a room full of hair net fatties at the cafeteria. Besides, it will be hard for the man to decipher beauty when his hormones are saying “me can’t think…me want boobies.”
See women equate beauty with glamor. Men equate beauty will pleasure. She who appears to able to offer the most pleasure is most beautiful in a man’s eye. Most women don’t see it because it’s that special twinkle she has with him. That twinkle of love/chemistry is blinding.
Besides, men don’t always leave their wives for a more beautiful pain in the ass. They leave their wives for a sweeter woman (possibly more beautiful or not) that makes them feel good about them.
I tell my females friends that all the time. But I guess when it’s coming from someone who’s been described as a living breathing Jessica Rabbit (especailly with the strapless leather red dress), it’s hard to believe. None of my friends now knew me when I was younger: 5’5", 100 pounds soaking wet with army boots on, braces, huge glasses, fro and VIP membership to the itty bitty titty committee. They’ve only known me since I’ve come out of my cocoon.
But as I’ve always said, I had the brains before the boobs.
As I say don’t knock the itty bitty titty. They may not get all the men, but Ive notice the ones they do get are quality. I’ve learn to hide my medium size built. Because, for the life of me I kept on getting meat heads, that I have to keep on baby-sitting. Sure he’s buff and good looking, but I never asked for stupid! Sighhh. Smart guys end up being my friend. Argg! I would like to brag about my smart and accomplished boyfriend for once. From this side of the fence, more is not better. And I’m only a b/c cup. My bigger boobed friends seem to get even lamer dudes.
I’ma DD cup and that is the story of my life–I can definitely relate to your friends. Although I do like the attention I get from “the twins,” it gets redundant at times…Especially when it comes to eye contact–I’m like hello–my eyes are up here!
I had no choice about breast size, I come from a long line of large breasted women. I wasn’t putting anyone with smaller breasts down. I would gladly go back to being a large C/small D (what I was before my son). I don’t attract a lesser quality type of man, it’s just that louts are more inclined to notice me due to my cup runneth over breast size. My boyfriend is the best guy in the world: educated, kind, sweet, grat with my son…I could go on. He took the time to see past my breasts and saw what I had before I hit puberty: intelligence and a heart of gold. Any good man would.
Debra? Were all still talking in your post except you. Are you still with us?
Not sure any of us are helping you if we do not get feedback from you.
Ponderu
That doesn’t mean drop-dead gorgeous. Just nice to look at.
I think the other posters are correct when they say that being nice and easy to get along with and truly loving a man makes a woman really attractive to a man. It doesn’t always work – and there are men who make fun of nice, attractive women who like them – but these men are in the minority.
If you aren’t having any “luck” with men, you may be around the wrong type of men. Also, it can take a while for pheromones to kick in. When I first started wearing them, it took about two to three weeks before I began to get hits.
Just don’t do it, people.)
. You’ll have to be ware of guys like the ones you find here, but I’d have to say that we’re rather rare 
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They’ve only known me since I’ve come out of my cocoon.