I too love to read your posts Miss. Dragon. I am in a similar situation as you. I go to several parties a week and would love to be the star like I used to. I was wondering how you use pheromones in the winter. I am in the Northeast where it’s cold, so how one puts in the pheromones with all the bundling up. Maybe you’re in some warm climate and don’t have to deal with this.
Thanks for the kind words, Traveler!
I also live in the northeast, and I definitely have to deal with cold. If you want to use them outside, forget about it. If you’ll be inside but wearing a sweater or something, try squirting your neck. If your neck is covered up, you can try your jawline. If your wrists might be exposed, you can try applying to the inside of your wrists.
Also, I try to apply them as close to interaction as possible. I usually spray in the car before walking in. Yes, you’d have to un-bundle a little bit in order to do that, but you’ll be inside soon.
P96 + io + ih
4 sprays IO (togo)
2 sprays IH(30ml)
50 mcg p96 (30ml), as 1/2 spray chocolatini, 2 sprays grapefruit
I know, I know, total fragrance ADD!
This was a really great mix! I used it in the evening, but I should’ve used it much earlier in the day.
(The following paragraph has nothing to do with mones, skip ahead if you want the relevant details)
Fangirl and a guy friend of ours helped me with moving. Fangirl showed up first, and we got into a spat right away. I had asked her the previous evening if she would contact Mr. Know-it-all and ask to use his truck. I was busy with doing stuff for my dad, and needed somebody to help by taking one thing off my to-do list. She got all hung up on social protocol and firmly refused to ask him. I called her out for just being scared (she still has all these silly girly feelings and insecurities re him), and she tried to turn it around and say I was the one avoiding him. Nope, that shit don’t work on me. I ended up calling Mr. Know-it-all, but the truck wasn’t available. I failed at tracking down any sort of large vehicle, and resigned myself that me and Fangirl were just going to have to try our best with our two cars. So the morning of moving, I had decided to just forget the previous night’s annoyances. But Fangirl pulled out some new shit about how she was afraid to drive near cities, and I was on my last nerve. I laid it out that if she doesn’t drive her own car, then she’s pretty much forcing me to do everything myself, because I won’t have room in my car for a passenger. She decided that we “need to talk”, and I was in no mood for games. But we did talk things out, and we finally saw eye-to-eye. And then the previously mentioned guy friend saved the day by showing up with a u-haul truck. Bless his soul. We had fun from then on, though we worked our asses off!
(Mone usage happens now)
After we got done with moving, the 3 of us were tired, achey, and starving. Guy friend (I’m sure I’ve given him a nickname previously; I’ll have to go back and see what it was) decided that we should pick up a pizza and head to a friend’s house. So we did that. It ended up being 6 of us hanging out. I sprayed the mones on in the car, just before walking in. I’m really happy with this mix! It took a little while to ramp up to full effects, maybe a half hour. But the p96 hit 19-year-old blonde girl (actually, she’s 20 by now) right away! She wrapped her arms around my body, buried her head in my cleavage, and gushed about how she was never letting me go, and she was just going to melt into my body! Yeah, the IO definitely hit her at that point, lol!
About a half hour later, everyone was sitting around looking at a vintage art collection, and yammering away! Everyone seemed to have so much to say, it was awesome! This is a great mix to use to stoke up the general interaction of a group! And none of it was fluff, it was all very thoughtful! One girl randomly dropped a comment about her crappy childhood. I couldn’t get much of a word in myself, but that’s ok. I was really enjoying the show! By this point, Young Blonde had removed her head from my cleavage, lol!
Everyone eventually either left or went to bed, except for me and Guy Friend. He started opening up to me about how he doesn’t know how to talk to girls. This really shocked me, because he’s a super charismatic, friendly, extroverted guy! Very quirky, but hilariously so! Apparently he’s texting with a girl he is being set up with, but he hasn’t met her yet. They’re really clicking so far, but he’s afraid of scaring her off. And he’s not madly in love with her yet, so he’s not sure if that means she’s not “the one”. Lol, boys. So I set him straight a little bit, but I was too tired to be immensely inspirational. That’s the first time he’s ever been that vulnerable with me, so I’m definitely calling it a hit.
We both went home around 1am, because we didn’t want to crash for 5 hours, only to be woken up by stampeding kids at 6am. Good choice, because this morning when I woke up, I felt like I had been in a street brawl the day before. I just had to lay there for an hour before I could manage to get up! Worst alcohol-free hangover ever! Total confession: I haven’t washed the mones off yet, I can still smell them on me 24+ hours later!
One can get a hangover from pheromones ? :o
I didn’t know that !!! Interesting.
Yay you moved, I hope you love the new place! As the queen of over share.on my.journal I <3 when people post stuff that isn’t strictly mone related.
Lol, not really! The “hangover” was from all the moving!
I’m mostly moved, just a few last things to gather up, and some cleaning to do. Thanks, so far I’m quite happy at the new place!
Mx335 + p96 + ih
MX335 - 4 sprays
P96 - 60mcg from 30ml bottle @ 20mcg/spray
IH - 2 sprays from 30ml bottle
Everything applied to chest and neck
I was about to go hang out with some friends, and was feeling pretty vulnerable. I wanted to try for something that would make others feel…I don’t know, empathetic toward me? More likely to bond or be protective of me? I might’ve tried one of the currently embargoed MXs, but I didn’t know I’d be feeling this way when I was grabbing pheros.
I was the only one who showed up, so it was just me hanging with my married friends. That was cool though, we opened up a brand new Reiner Knizia game and learned it. It was fun, but I don’t feel like we particularly did much extra bonding. This mix might’ve had more results if some of the single dudes had showed up. But I got a few things off my chest, and that was good. The environment was appropriate for it, but not much connecting or conversation followed. I wonder if the mix might’ve worked better if I had used p130 or TAH instead of MX335.
Puppy! My friends have a new puppy named Pumpkin (not a codename), and she LOOOOOOVED this mix!! She’s some sort of a beagle/shepherd cross, and she’s usually real wiggly and excitable every time I’ve seen her. She started out that way, but as soon as she smelled me, she just curled right up in my arms! Little baby! Better than a baby actually, cuz she’s fuzzy! She fell asleep in my arms after a few minutes, but she’d wake up periodically to bury her nose into my app points and conk out again. After a while, it got a little uncomfortable to keep holding her, so I put her to bed in her crate. Usually, if she’s shut up in her crate while people are hanging around nearby, she’ll cry and whine. But not a peep from her all night this time! I really hypnotized her!
It’s a bummer that Young Blonde didn’t come hang, I’d been looking forward to some effects from her. Oh well. But Fangirl eventually came over. I think this girl really can’t handle her IH! You know how guys stereotypically complain about how much women talk? Yeah, I was starting to sympathize with that viewpoint! After the married couple headed off to sleep, Fangirl and I stayed to hang for a while. She started yammering away senselessly about the most inane nonsense! She apparently didn’t get to experience much of her teenage years, and she’s now making up for lost time! She was rapidly catching me up on the important news of the day, such as “So-and-so flirted with this guy, and random person got jealous, and she’s leading on this other guy, and these boys have crushes…” you get the idea. My general feeling: DONT. GIVE. A. SHIT.
But eventually the torrent slowed down, and I ended up breaking down and spilling my guts about the real-life shit I’m going through. So it was nice to have some catharsis. But I wonder how I can tweak things to quell Fangirl’s extreme reactions in the future. This keeps happening with her and IH, and she seems to be the only one.
…and I don’t have to worry about her pissing or vomiting on me, or wiping sticky fingers on my clothes and face! Lol, I swear I’m not a complete child-hater!
Do you use IH mostly for self effects ? I was going to get some IH but decided that it might not be good for me lol I’m so not PC and if I said what I thought I’d end up pissing a lot of people off - my “be nice” filter is already broken lol
Is your chest your sweet spot ?
I don’t really get much by way of self-effects from IH. It’s a bit introverting and a bit bonding, but I’ve never revealed secrets that I didn’t intend, or dropped my discretion because of it.
I don’t think you’d have problems with it. It doesn’t really turn off filters, rather it creates a safe and trusting environment where people feel like you are a safe person to talk to. It gives a bit of a “mother hen” vibe. The things you say might actually be accepted with more understanding and less offense. It’s also my cure for resting bitch face, lol!
I tend to use my chest a lot. It gives me the best effect from selfies, and is warm enough to diffuse well. It also is the spot that is usually closest to people’s noses, whether we’re standing or sitting. I switch to my neck if my chest isn’t exposed, but my chest usually has better exposure than my neck. My wrists aren’t often exposed, because might be wearing sleeves, holding them downward-facing on my lap, crossing my arms, etc.
“Sweet spot” actually refers to the number of sprays that works best for you with some particular product.
Interesting ! I’ve got a lot to learn !! I’ve been nervous to try iIH. lol
Ok so what’s it called when you have a spot that works best on your body ?
Being bi, the women who have used “sweet spot” usually mean physically on the body lol confuses me !
Cure for Resting bitch face? Ok you have my attention lol I have that problem too
You were afraid of IH, and I was afraid of p83! Funny!
That’s usually referred to as most effective app points, or something like that. App point effectiveness can shift, depending on the situation or environment.
Yeah, I usually get people asking me, “what’s wrong?” When I’m just zoning out. IH seems to help people intuitively understand that I’m in my thoughts, rather than unhappy.
IH
I’m interested in finding something that will cause someone to bend the rules to help me out. Every now and then, I might find myself in a situation where I need a stranger to help me in a way that they’re not exactly supposed to, yet I know they have the power to. This is definitely a challenge, because it means ingratiating myself to someone within a matter of minutes. I’d need something to act fast; there would be no time for slow-burn to take effect.
First try was today. 4 sprays IH, regular strength, 30ml bottle, applied to neck and jaw. Unsuccessful results. I had maybe 5 minutes of contact with the guy. I tried to smile, stand as near to him as I could (roughly 2 feet away), make eye contact, and be super pleasant. The guy was friendly, and seemed to have the beginnings of that nervous, uncomfortable attraction. He was patient and kind, and tried to be accommodating in other ways. I only sensed a brief moment of possible suspicion of motives from him.
Definitely not good enough. Perhaps it might have been more successful with an added disinhibitor or attractant. Or perhaps a disinhibitor or attractant on their own might do the trick. Suggestions welcome.
I didn’t have a way to remove the mones when I was finished with them, and I started to feel a little overwhelmed by them roughly a half hour later. I think I’ll start keeping some wipes in the car so I can take them off if I want to. I smeared on some sanitizer, and that seemed to cut the effects in half.
Socials and p130
I had that second interview yesterday that I mentioned. I can’t stress enough that the socials are worth their weight in diamonds. I didn’t realize we’d be doing the interview just outside of an internship fair. That definitely made things interesting!
Roughly 2 hours before the interview, i sprayed 15mcg p130 (Togo sized, cookie scent) on my neck for the selfies. I was a bit nervous, and this definitely helped. Moments before the interview, I put roughly half a spray just under my nose (roughly 3mcg). It delivered some great selfies, but if I had been thinking more clearly, I wouldn’t have just sprayed the stuff straight on my upper lip! It started running down my face, and I had to find a way to wipe it so that it stayed near my nose, rather than wasting it by blotting with a tissue! Good thing I had the sense to do this in a bathroom stall rather than in view of anybody! I was expecting to start choking on an overpowering smell, but that didn’t happen at all. Even though there was wet alcohol right under my nose, the cookie scent kept it mild enough that it didn’t bother me at all. It smelled kind of nice.
Then I applied the socials to my neck/chest:
2 sprays IO (Togo sized)
3 sprays IH (30 ml)
5 sprays IS (Togo)
I interviewed with the VP. She wasn’t giving me much in the way of nonverbal cues. She was really hard to read facially, tonally, etc. She was very nice, she wrote down a lot, and we did talk a lot. Things seemed to be going well, until near the end. She seemed to become disappointed. I didn’t know what to make of this, and it was making me nervous. As we were concluding, she said, “I do have one major concern. You are so professional and polished, I’m worried that you’re going to be able to find much better internships than this one. If you go in to that internship fair, I think you’re going to find a lot of good opportunities, and not be interested in this one any more.” I was shocked! The reason she’d become a bit sullen is because she thought the position was beneath me! And I’d been busting my butt to get in! She encouraged me to check out the other companies, and email her next week to say if I’m still interested.
Roughly 50 companies were at the fair, but I wasn’t interested in the majority of them. But I made incredible connections with about a handful of them! One lady was so thrilled about me that she was treating me like a long-lost family member! And another company was so excited about me, they wanted to bypass the internship and just hire me as a regular employee! I can see now why the VP was worried, there were some incredibly tempting opportunities!
One thing I noticed: when I first approached a company rep, they responded with the sort of bored, general low-interest baseline that says they’d rather be anywhere else. But when I stayed engaging with them and keeping them in my cloud, I could see the effects start to build. A twinkle would start to grow in the person’s eye, and their level of enthusiasm ramped up. After a few minutes, they were eating out of my hand! The fair ended after 2 hours, so that was the perfect window of time to keep my mones working well the whole time. Even the IS didn’t have time to burn out!
I think there might be something in IH that feels agitating to me after a few hours. Not majorly agitating, just mildly enough that I’d rather wash it off than keep it on. I first noticed it with my megadose experiment from the other night. Maybe an IS crash makes it more pronounced.
The original position feels most right to me, so I’m just going to stick with that. I’ll still keep the contact info for the rest of the companies, because I might be able to reach back out to them in 6 months. I might even see if the company that wanted to hire me might let me do a part-time, make-your-own-hours deal. For now, I’m lending all the info I picked up to Fangirl, because she’s in a life-reassessment phase, and I’m trying to encourage her to go into that direction so she’ll actually feel fulfilled in life and make a decent living.
Hi Miss Dragon, re the “crash effect” you mention, it could be just the IS, but another thing I notice is that on those days where I end up putting on a lot of pheros (quantity), I can feel kind of burnt towards the end of the day. So much so I just have to get them off me. 10 sprays of pheros just might be roasting your neuroreceptors..
The 2 pheros that I personally have to watch are IS and P75. Too high a dose and Im making a pot of coffee later.
Yeah, I think you have a point. I need to pay better attention, because I think there may be one particular molecule that burns me out more than most. It could be that it’s putting me over the edge when I’m already wearing a barrage, or maybe I’m od-ing on the one thing. Maybe I should go through and od on single molecules to see if one of them gives me that feeling. But I don’t exactly feel like wasting a bunch of pheros!
MX335
I had some fun with MX335 last night, on Valentine’s Day!
I had been considering grabbing a date for the night, but Fangirl randomly decided to claim me to hang out with her. So I figured, why not. I’m not desperate for a date, so I might as well help my friend enjoy herself. (Side note, the 23-year-old black guy I’ve previously mentioned might be playing the long game to woo me, i can’t quite tell for sure yet…I’ll report back if developments happen) So she ended up inviting me to an “Anti-valentines” party. That pretty much means a bunch of bitter single people gathering together to mope, so I knew I could have fun making some trouble! I piled on 4 sprays of MX335. I had been considering IS/A, but I haven’t gotten a good read on how it affects Fangirl, and I didn’t want to risk messing up her mood.
The party was at the house of a guy we can call “Boring Dude”. He’s mid-30’s, short, bald, white. I don’t know him very well, but I’ve heard enough people complain about him. Apparently he thinks he’s super laid back, but he’s actually quite a control freak. When people just want to see where the night takes them, he insists on sticking to a scheduled gameplan. Like he thinks he’s the leader of the group, but nobody wants to be led. Like he feels obligated to provide entertainment, but he’s not a very entertaining person to be around. But I knew most of the other people who would be at the party, so I went.
I think I’m learning that mid-to-late 30’s guys are very affected by MX335. Boring Dude was not his usual bland self at all! It may have had to do with my bright red hair hanging free in loose waves, or my tasteful bit of cleavage, but he was a surprisingly delightful person all night long! He kept plying me with his homemade spinach-artichoke dip, and he got right into my personal space! He smells surprisingly good, like mild soap and crisp wood. When I didn’t want to play video games, he joined us in playing a new board game about monsters destroying Tokyo. When I vetoed the watching of Diehard, he was fine with watching Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon instead. We even had a conversation about Tarantino and Mel Brooks movies. Fangirl even remarked later about how he was surprisingly enjoyable to be around that night! I’m not particularly into him, but I wouldn’t be opposed to giving him a chance if he made a move.
Mr. Know-it-all was there, and he was pretty cued into me. Fangirl lamented later about how he apparently kept turning his back on her, but I had the opposite experience with him. During the movie, he kept showing me cool and funny things on his phone, and talking to me about fireball launchers. During the board game, he rooted for me initially, but then decided it was more fun to tease me by willing me to lose with his mind! I didn’t, btw, I got second place.
Uke Friend was there, and I think my mones messed with him in a negative way. He’s in a LTR, and I know he’s sexually frustrated at the mo. He seemed to be in an okay mood at first, but he and I chilled together off to the side, and he gradually started becoming in a funk. Then he moved from being generally down to acting a little spitefully toward me. As soon as his girlfriend got off work, he ditched us all to go see her. I hope I didn’t mess him up too much, and I hope it doesn’t complicate their situation.
I also met a new guy there. He totally seems like the low self-esteem kinda guy who doesn’t know what to do about girls, and has a crush on them all. He was very DIHL and nervous with me. Like he REALLY wanted me to notice him, but he was too terrified to do anything about it. He managed to squeak out a personal “goodbye” to me as he was leaving, but he dashed out the door before I could be friendly back. Fangirl resents guys like that, but I pity them and want to help coax them out of their shell. If they misunderstand my kindness, I try to let them down in a kind way that doesn’t ruin them for trying again with a different girl.
Uke Friend’s puppydog brother was also there, and he started up again with his over-talkative, over-boisterous showing off and making a fool of himself trying to impress me. I wish he’d lay off, but I’d rather he figure it out in his own time rather than risk crushing his fragile confidence.
Sooo…I ended up crashing at Fangirl’s house that night. They have 4 bathrooms in the house, and I ended up using the one that is claimed by some of the boys. I didn’t know which boys, and I was just REALLY HOPING it might include her oldest brother, whom I majorly have a thing for. So I sprayed 4 sprays of MX335 on the walls, hoping to get him thinking of me in my absence. I asked Fangirl later, and i was wrong. The only person who uses that bathroom is her 18-year-old brother who already has a crush on me, LOL!!! Guess I just cemented that one! At least I got to jump her car battery in the morning alongside the oldest brother. My mind kinda went numb around him, so I couldn’t think of a way to maximize our brief alone time together. So I just tried to be charming and a bit engaging. Let’s hope it was enough to build on later! But at least I got to stare at his beautiful body as he milled around the house for a bit. He sure takes care of himself! Oh my gosh, I need to stop now! I’m ending this before I go any further!
Lol you sound like a delightful trouble maker !!