Well id like to first start off by saying it will be hard to respond to every one of your situations and how you perceived the interactions but i am noticing that you are 20 years old and started off with 2 sprays of ammo. It is recommended, especially at your age to start with 1 spray max and test from there. Too much can cause OD and you will have people distancing themselves from you, or not have any reactions. here is a link to find the ‘sweet spot’
How to find your sweet spot… - PheroTalk Pheromone Research Forum
as far as instant shine goes, some users get self effects, others do not from this product nor any other ones. I myself do get self effects from it and love wearing it and find that its nearly as good as coffee at times. You were getting hits which leads me to believe that you have seen some effects and interest things, however you also need to take into account the ages of the girls your interacting with. If you have ammo on and high -none content you can be causing them to not act on urges because youre coming across as too pervy with too high a -none signature and its scaring them away like how she may have just given you her number because then you would stop pursuing her.
It makes sense that older women are more attracted to higher levels of -none and that may very well be why when you re applied some ammo you put even more -none on and therefore that older dirty lady was all up on you and dancing with you, so that is a hit if you want to count it, just not one that you wanted.
You may find that 1 shot of ammo is better for you and your body chemistry and then the scent also wont be as strong, and maybe your correct dosage of shine is 3 sprays and you havent hit that mark yet in your testing. Ammo does have a strong scent to it and you either love it or hate it it seems, or it will grow on you. if its too much on the neck, well try it on your sternum under your shirt, it will diffuse slower and the smell wont be so overbearing.
Lots to consider here but this is a starting point of things you should consider, and remember the mones arent going to do all the work its how you steer them once you have the correct dosages.