And I played it very cool, firm, polite and slightly disinterested.
Till I got her home, a few hours later and:
Topped-up the IS 2x 1 spray - between forearms.
30mcg P83 - forearms
1 spray IJ to the throat.
Then upped my inner bastard to eleven!
After a while asked her why she had the “cheek” to have parked her red chemise in my bed without asking. She went through to check and came back wearing it. Before long, she was putting her mouth to good use in my chair, then good night and this morning ensued!
Now sitting in a coffeeshop, slightly shattered, barely washed. Put-on one spray of Edge, for scent as much as anything (it was in the car) and two out of a table of three young women - 20s were paying me a lot of very favourable attention!
Wandered off to a different cafe to get some solid food.
In the queue, a guy behind me caught my attention and I turned to be face to face with a very obviously gay young man. He said:
“Hey, butch guys like you usually smell of sweat and ass but you. You have no right to smell so good. What you wearing - I smell cinnamon but what else?”
So I told him it was an African cologne of mainly sandalwood and herbs and politely rebuffed his flirt!
There are some moments I probably shouldn’t wear pheros!
After work tonight, I just kept it simple - Two sprays heavy Ammo in F22, throat & between forearms, on top of the tail-end of my work dose of 2 drops of A314 and went for a coffee.
The place is dead but a couple, obviously on a first date have sat opposite me and are conversing painfully, he is demonstrating about as unattractive/unassertive body language as you can get.
She (late 20s/early 30s, French) however is looking a bit flustered and is paying a lot more attention to me, smiled when he went up for the tea, stroking her thighs and is shooting me sideways looks all the time.
Do I head for the bunker or continue to ruin his night? :o
‘I’m trying to figure out why my catflap keeps getting stuck…’
‘I love painting radiators with a black on black base, with just a tad of color to them as I like to have the undulations of metal speak for themselves…’
'Have you ever appreciated the intricate details in replicated, old 16th century, hand drawn maps?!? You’ve got to come up to my flat and take a look at ‘em!!!’
LOL!!! I’m just filling in the blah, blah, in my mind!!!
Probably so nervous, he was drinking all the tea!!!
Oh and Mobo, you were NOT helping that chump with your sexy mone aura…
2 sprays MX297 - Throat and between forearms.
3 sprays NPA 1/4 in Eternity. Each side of neck and between forearms.
Massive hit of two women sitting opposite me - late 20s, that started with the blond one checking me out pretty blatently, then smiling and eye-catching before primping-up her lipgloss, pouting in my direction and asking me if it looked good.
Meanwhile, her dark haired pal was twisting right round in her seat to get good looks at me, great open body language, smiling/laughing and the pair of them ended-up in a full-on play-fight for some costume jewelery before the blonde one threw it in my direction and asked me who should be wearing it.
I chose the dark haired lady!
They left soon after with smiles, laughs and loud goodbyes and their booth has been taken by two of the three Russian ladies I scored a hit on the other week. The BIG one and the pretty one - The big one is responding, leaning forward, making eye-contact and smiling!
Good hit off waitress now - came right over to the table beside me, started picking-up stuff then stopped dead, looked straight at me and broke into a huge smile.
This is a new girl (early 20s?) and I’ve hardly spoken to her before.
Nice! I hope I start getting some good hits from AMMO and IO. I sprayed it on this morning around 10:35 and will be hitting my college weight room around 2:30 and the whole softball team usually comes in around 4. A bathroom BJ would be nice. lol
Right, one of them is now resting her boobs on the table and looking my way constantly, whilst the other is keeps turning round, looking straight at me and saying “hope we are not bothering you?” whenever their tower crashes down! Hit?
I was wearing my normal 2 drops A314 and as I was expecting a colleague who I get-on pretty well with and enjoy a mild flirt occasionally, I put-on 2 sprays heavy Ammo as well. She’s late 30s, Polish, slim with dark bobbed hair. Works on external projects a lot, so she can disappear for months at a time.
However, the language barrier means that although we get-on well, conversation can sometimes be a bit stilted. So last thing I added two sprays 2x IO to see what that would do.
Well, she arrived, I made a coffee and we started talking, talking and talking - Over an hour went by before we even got to the work - Which was somewhat urgent! OK, the language barrier was still there but conversation just flowed and the odd hiccup in understanding/embarrassment was no problem, she just laughed it off, and we carried-on.
So I went through her analysis and added my part easily enough and thought that was it - but no, she started to question my findings! Now this has never happened in all the years I’ve worked with her and certainly not since I started using A314. So she agreed to come back later in the afternoon, where again we had a good long chat, before I took her through it step by step from three alternative starting points to prove that my findings were accurate to around 5%. Only then was she satisfied.
Oh and on the second visit, she brought a present!
I wonder if this might be partly the IO? Undermining my professional standing and the A314 air of authority?
All was not a failure however - I went for coffee after work and got a good number of nice flirty smiles and looks off a young lady opposite me. Mid 20s maybe but she was with a younger looking guy, so I don’t know what all that was about?
I think it was just a challenge. Women challenge us all the time. That’s their job in the eternal exchange of feminine and masculine energies. Our job is to prove our point, which you have And, as you rightly noted, she was satisfied by this. Many guys make a mistake thinking that women challenge us to prove us wrong. No, they challenge us to give us a chance to prove ourselves right. And that satisfies them.
Anyway, IO probably made her speak her doubts out, I don’t think it diminished the authority of A314 in any way. The girl probably feels comfortable around you after several years of working together, enough to verbalize her thoughts, even if they are not the same as yours. IME the authority aura of A314 makes people trust us also in the way that they believe that all valid points will be taken into consideration. Unless it’s OD’d…
I’ve had some observations about IO and language barrier in my journal some time ago, as I’m a Polish person living in the UK, too.
I enjoyed reading your journal, and I noticed something that may not be coincidental. As you know I am still a newbie at this and still testing the mones in different combinations, but I have found starting off with a few drops of A314 is always the start of something good
Anyway, you are about my age and it seems like you are consistently attracting women in the late 20’s/early 30’s range. I have found this in my experience as well so far. That age group. Not that I don’t enjoy it! I have not receive one hit from any woman from the late 30’s up.. but the younger woman, WOW. All smiles.
Any idea why this is occurring? Maybe the older women looking for the younger guys?
All-in, the standard is very very good indeed and responds reliably in mixes with other pheros.
Extra None Edition is fine on its own or with one other social (ish) phero but in more complex mixes I find it can be counterproductive. It also pushes into OD easily.
Social Bonding Edition is brilliant with TUTH but overpowered by NPA or IJ. Again I think kepping it simple is the key. Despite trying it with a good few other stalwart pheros - eg IH, P74, P83, P114, P96, AE, NPA all my best social/sexual results have been with 1 spray 2x TUTH and 4 drops SBE.
Ultra Fine Edition is great at high dose - much more presence at 4 drops and over, esp with TUTH NPA or Ammo and in workday quantities, not that different from standard but I get the sort of results from 2 drops that I might normally expect from 3 of standard A314. All-in, UFE is probably my favourite of the editions - as predictable and versatile as standard A314. It works well with all the same pheros that complement standard (see above)
This puzzles me too - Especially as when I was younger, it was the complete opposite - It was the older women who went for me. When I was 18/19 I was in a relationship with a 37 year old! MAybe not helped by my looking a lot older when I was younger? From 18-on, people would regularly place me in my 30s. Once I hit my 40s and really started taking care of my self and smartened-up my self-image, folk now place me at least ten years younger. Waa?
Equally, I’m not looking for a lot from women that age - I had a thing with a 19/20yr old in my mid 30s and won’t be making that mistake again. I would prefer someone from their mid 30s-up but most of the women I meet around that age are not looking for anything too serious, so fine, since my ex vanished into the middle distance - I’ll see a few of them!
Pushing more overt/higher none mixes alongside status pheros does seem to go down very well with woman in my age range but responses from the younger ones does tend to be best when I hold back on the none and pursue a more social/slighter status sig.
It may also say something about the places I socialise? Most of my contemporaries are settled with familes and don’t socialise that much any more. I have quite a few younger (late 20s-30s) friends who do socialise more and this place is quite split between places where “old” people go and places popular with a younger crowd.
I don’t really do the young clubs any more but equally, I don’t go for the boring and very white male/macho dominated pub scene here, so I go other places and run into a lot of people in their 20s/30s who are looking for more engaging entertainment. I also think I have maintained a reasonably young and fresh outlook on life, not stagnated or become too set in my ways.
The whole post was excellent and thanks much! It is a challenge to not get set in our ways as we age.
I am about to embark on finding my sweet spot for Ammo. I have used it sparingly and have enjoyed the responses just from the social and status mones. Now it’s time to do some work with the nones.
The social responses are great, but ultimately the sexual response is the icing on the cake.
