There is this girl (18 yrs old, Jamaican-born, american-raised, smart, good with technology, likes the arts (particularly singing and dancing) about to be a freshman in college in the fall at my school) that I have become fond of and she likes me also as she told me she did (indirectly) . This was back near the end of june . So its been about half a month since then . We went on a date last week (dinner and movie) and it went pretty well I say . At the end of the day we gave each other a hug and said goodbye .
Now I’m not used to things going this slow (all of my former girlfriend’s have come to me saying they like me before I could even say anything !). This girl has followed suit . But things just arent moving as quickly . Relatively slow imo . We are going out again next weekend . So I’m wondering what mone or combo of mones do you all recommend that I should use as a “catalyst” ? I am a 19-yr old african american male, smart, good with technology, think of myself as an athelte since I played a sport all through middle school and high school and am looking to do so when I go back to school in fall (I’ll be a sophomore) .
Ammo, Ishine, IO and maybe a dash of IH. BUT your the one that’s got to make the move. If things are moving slow its only because you are. Why didn’t you kiss her after the date? Did you touch her? Mones are only the tool, just like that cool necklace you wore. Its not going to get her naked, only you are going to do that.
I like how you didn’t recommend TUTH . lol . Yeah we made contact . She was cold and well I didn’t have a jacket so I just put my arm around her and held her close to me . Why didn’t I kiss after the date ? Well I’m used to girls showing me signs that they are ready for kissing . I’ve never actually been in the situation of having to speed things up and the whole first date thing probably made me second guess myself . But you know what Steve ? You right . The mones will help but I’m going to have to be the one to speed things up if they are moving too slow for my own taste . If she already told me she likes me then there shouldn’t be anything wrong with a kiss on the cheek . Making out, yea that MIGHT be pushing it but I could work a kiss on the cheek . I thought you would recommend more IH though . It builds comfort right ? We’ve already got the attraction part if we’re dating . (Only makes sense . I wouldn’t date someone I’m not attracted to.) Attraction, Comfort, and Seduction . I thought you would recommend a couple sprays of IH for comfort and then once that’s established a dash of TUTH (because at our ages, just 1 spray might make me OD) .
I would tend to Ammo rather than TUTH personally.At 19 and physically fit, it is likely you have a good none production already and TUTH is overtly sexual and unbalanced.
If she’s shy about kissing, even though she likes you, a shot of TUTH could be taken as more or less waving your balls in her face. Ammo however is balanced enough to avoid that.
And personally, I’d say that IS/IH might well help with steering things in a happy/close/bonding direction, so I hope you give that a shot.
If you are going to use TUTH, leave it till you are very physically close and well on the road to the bedroom.
However, there is no real right or wrong with this - It could well be that she is a woman who will respond to TUTH despite her age/shyness (it does happen), all we can go on is our general experience of pheros and particular age groups/personality types and IMO, the girl you describe does sound like she may well respond to a less forward signatire.
Another thing I’ve learned is that you can usually pull-off a more sexual/powerful phero sig if you are doing something active/energetic/fun on your date instead of the usual dinner/drinkies/pleasant chat. So maybe see if she is up for some dancing or other activities next time?
She also may be holding out for a bit of good ol’fashioned wooing too!
I wouldn’t recommend IH at all at this stage. You are already in a comfortable stage with her. IO has an air of happiness, you make me feel happy, easy go lucky vibe. Ishine is confidence and well-being, like she is secure around you and therefore can let her guard down. Ammo is sexy-man but he gets me hot.
Combine the three and you have a combo that tells her she can relax and let her guard down around you. IH is going to make things deep like relationship deep, but the best way to use that around a shy girl is after sex. This way she gets those deep feelings for you and isn’t feeling off. So yeah I stick with my original assessment.
Ok . Thanks Steve and Mobo . It’s funny though how I’m talking about using these mones and I almost couldn’t find them ! I forgot I had them packed away cause I ordered them when I was in college and was saving them for when I go back but this is a special case . lol .
EDIT: Oh I just remembered . It will be extremely hot today . (temps in the 90-100 range on average) . I know mones diffuse quicker in heat so should I just bring the to-go bottles with me so that I can reapply ?
Some People Need a Refresh but Don’t want to be Noticed While Applying it… For that I have an Idea… At Sometimes I Carry upto 3 Products… I Place a Strip of Electrical Tape (what have on hand) at the Top, Middle, or Bottom of the ToGo… That Way I can Locate a Certain Product or Mix and Refresh Without Looking at All… Or do what a Pa of Mine Does and label in Braille, it REALLY Messes with the TSA guys at the AirPort…
Well the date went pretty well . Earlier this morning she texted me saying she enjoyed it and she said my cologne has become her favorite ! I’m guessing that she was referring to the ammo because i had 2 full blasts to the neck with it but I also had 2 sprays of IO on the left elbow joint and 2 sprays of IS on the right . When we were close her nose was always closest to the ammo . But anyways, should I be using the same amount of ammo or can i take it down to one ? I’m just concerned that now when she thinks of me shes really thinking about me with the ammo on .
