I’ve had some not-so-great experiences with p83 in the past, but I’m soldiering on with it! I want to see some of the reactions I’ve read about from other ladies, and dammit I will!
So far, though, p83 has graduated from Instant Bitch reactions to Instant Touch, and I definitely think this has to do with the other pheros I had on.
Day 1:
6 drops EoW to wrists, inner elbows, and neck
4 sprays IS/B unscented to back of the neck/head and chest
3 sprays MX135 to back of the neck/head
2 sprays Instant Honesty 4X unscented to the back of the head
2 sprays p83 to the back of the neck
Pink Sugar to cover
Older Japanese coworker, who has been flirty with me in the past, completely stopped in his tracks as I was passing and asked if I speak French. I laughed and said “No, why?” He said he had a French language song he wanted me to hear, and initiated a long, rambling explanation of how this song was extremely emotional and moved him. The whole time he was speaking, he was lightly holding me by the elbow. It was less like a “hey, stop, come here and listen to me!” grab and more like a “I’ve just got to touch you; the elbow is probably the best place I could get away with” thing. He held on to me until the conversation was completely done and I indicated I needed to be elsewhere at that moment. He apologized, but still didn’t let loose until I started moving away from him.
Later at lunch, I met a couple of friends I hadn’t seen for a couple of months. Both of them were really touchy-feely, one grabbed locks of my hair and twirled them around her fingers when talking about how curly it looked, the other grabbed my hands several times from across the table. At one point he began massaging one hand and forearm between both of his. It didn’t feel like a sexual/sensual thing at the time to me, but perhaps it was?
Day 2:
Same exact mix as Day 1.
A superior of mine (A) was speaking to me and another department superior (G) about some things we needed to do over the next few days. A and G spoke at length and in circles for about ten minutes, which I attributed to the Instant Honesty 4X. At the end of the conversation, A put his hand on my upper back/the back of my shoulder, stared me deep in the eyes and said “Thanks”. He smiled at me in a way that was both adoring and lascivious. I’m completely uninterested in A this way, but it’s occured to me that A and TG #1 have become pretty close and have started doing things together outside of work. I wonder if something has been said between the two of them, or perhaps A has picked up on the vibe between me and TG and is trying to initiate some kind of competition. I’m not really interested in fostering that as I don’t think TG #1 is the kind to respond to that kind of game playing very well. Plus I don’t want to give A the wrong idea. ![]()
Went out to dinner with several friends (different than the lunch friends on Day 1). I had reapplied all of my spray pheros by this point. The friend sitting next to me at the table kept petting my hair for various reasons throughout the night. She also grabbed my sleeve at one point to compliment me on my shirt, which led to petting my arm through the fabric. I noticed that our waiter kept staring at me when he would come to our table, culminating in his putting his hand on my back several times when refilling my beverage. He was cute, I should have gotten his number! ![]()
I’m going to continue with p83 testing next week, albeit without EoW or any other cops-containing formula. See unintended consequences of daily pheromone use for an explanation why. :o