Not long ago I got my first order of pheromones. I’ve been doing some light experimenting since then but thought I would ask for advice from some of the more experienced users.
I have a friend at university who I would like to date, but I’m currently just a friend to her. We have all the same classes and hang out during our breaks, so we spend several hours together on Monday - Wednesday. She is often busy with work and assignments outside of uni days so, although I would like to, I don’t see her much outside of uni.
Could anyone recommend to me what products I should wear and how I should wear them to maybe help push our friendship a little bit further into attraction? Should I stick to the one mix every time I see her or should I vary it a little? Do I even have realistic expectations?
Currently my inventory consists of Ammo, Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty (To-Go) and Turn Up The Heat (To-Go).
My personality is normally fairly shy, although I have no problem around her as we’ve known each other for a while. Her personality is similar to mine; not overly outgoing, but not a total introvert. We are both young (I will soon be 19 and she will soon be 20). If it matters, her nationality is Lebanese.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, even if you just want to shout me down for being a fool . Please tell me if I’ve left out any important information!
How does she see you? Are you someone she has really light convo with, or is she getting personal about herself? Are your convo’s normally short, or in the time you have together are you having real meaningful convo? In convo, does she ever touch you? Even a grab of the forearm, or a touch on the the chest, something. When she moves to a different spot,(other side of the room, a different room) do you follow her? Or if you move does she follow you?
I know they sound like stupid questions, but believe it or not they are important to try to guage what prt of the “friend zone” you are in.
We often have conversations where we get quite personal, particularly about our families. She doesn’t touch me, but I have talked to a mutual friend about her, and she just isn’t the touchy-feely kind of person. As for moving from one spot to another, it really works both ways depending on who moves first.
OK, here is my suggestion. Take it or leave it, it is just an opinion. You have all you need at this point. Wear some AMMO. Considering your age, I would suggest 1 spray to a pulse point on your neck. Put on a few sprays of IS to your hair or the back of you neck. Put some IH on your forearms if you are wearing short sleeves. Putting phero’s on your wrists is good, but if you are a person who washes their hands alot, you risk washing them off. Use this combo for a couple of weeks in class and your social encounters after class. Let her subconsious get used to the sexy vibe that the AMMO gives, the happy vibe the IS brings, and let IH bring better, deeper convo.
After a couple of weeks, invite her to do something you are already had planned. (going out with friends, a concert, watching a movie at your house with friends, a party you were invited to) This way it doesn’t seem like a date, but the two of you will be there together. By doing this, you can see her outside of your normal class/convo spots, and see how she reacts to you in a nuetral/social setting. Read her body language, and see if she maybe interested in you. Remember to be congruent with the signals that you are sending out, be playfull, and have fun. If worse comes to worse, you have earned yourself a good friend.
OK, great. Thanks for the advice. It’s currently getting into the colder months over here so I’m often wearing a jumper. Is it ok to put the Instant Honesty in my hair as well?
. Please tell me if I’ve left out any important information!