3.14.09 for events on 3.12.09 10 pm
intro
this is the update to my “exciting experiment” post. i wanted to do something new and fresh to celebrate another good testing series and start spring break by lingering on sarah’s mind. well, the female protagonist (sarah) of my journal is a blond caucasian and with all these reports of 203 flying around, i just had to try it out.
when i first knew things could get decently serious with sarah, i picked up a bottle of 203. it had been sitting on the sidelines until now. i chose 203 mainly to establish a focus towards her, and then with the help of things like ifm, ih, cttm, and others, eventually improve and maintain ltr with her.
setup and getup
9:30pm
showered fresh
~2s mx203 front neck. the first half spray that usually comes out was a lot bigger than normal, probably .75-.8 of a normal spray, then another full spray.
1s ih back neck
button down shirt with the top button undone to release more of the 203, nice jeans, nice shoes. basically wanted to make a very good impression on everyone.
a simple mix to get a feel for things. i don’t count this as an actual test since i’ve already broken some rules of good testing form, but it was a nice test in itself.
no self effects, but i do love game scent.
the good, part 1 (203)
before heading to the bar, i stopped at a house party to visit some other friends. a few unintended targets of interest included a random brunette (20-21, hb6) and a good friend’s girlfriend (22, white, strawberry blond). the mix was probably only 10 minutes old at this point. i think the brunette sees me occasionally on campus or something, as she kept looking at me like she knows me. i don’t know her. i walked past her and stood near her a few times and each time, she either leaned in or tried to get closer. i talked to her maybe twice and both times she could not keep eye contact. really felt the mix, and i guess people rebranding 203 as “instant caucasian magic” as opposed to “instant blond female magic” isn’t too far off target.
the interesting thing about the second target is that she seemed afraid to accept the mix. many times when i’m wearing a nice mix she’ll be interested but won’t show it outwardly. her bf (my good friend) is fairly shy and protective of her so i can’t go up to her and joke like i do with my other friends’ girlfriends. in turn, she won’t come up to me either. we have a nice “friendship” distance. with 203 she caught it immediately and then kept her distance for the whole time i was there, even as i was laughing and talking with her friends. interesting.
no negative effects on guys, wasn’t able to test on girls of any other race.
the good, part 2 (203)
then i head to the bar. my friends and i get there right as sarah and her friends are walking in. i give her a little hug and she goes to visit her bartender friend and i go to visit mine. i could tell she immediately caught the mix, like target 2 up above. sarah loves game scent so anything i wear with it is a quick hit for her. we all return and settle at a table. at first i’m seated across from her while playing cards. i definitely think the mix carried across the table but without me being next to/near her, it didn’t have much effect. her other friends were there, mostly caucasian girls and one asian. we play cards for a bit and then shift tables when a better one opens up.
upon shifting, i grab a spot next to her and the magic starts. she throws in a bit of random kino that gets progressively more constant and lasting, and slightly sexual. then she does her neck-sniffing thing over and over. face full of my mix now. as the night goes on she can’t get away from the mix. about an hour after getting there a group of girls comes by the table. these girls were mentioned in an earlier report; they’re old friends who haven’t been around much. they talk for a bit and usually i would give them hugs but two things stopped me this time: 1. a better relationship with sarah that i didn’t want to compromise by hugging random girls without an explanation first, and 2. i was wedged in my seat between the table and the wall. as the girls talk to me, they give signals of wanting a hug. one girl (22, brunette, hb7) pretty much came at me with her arms out and put them down once she saw i couldn’t really get up and that i didn’t really make a motion to get up.
sarah’s friends enjoyed the mix too. i did not notice any adverse effects with the asian. if anything, she probably loved it just as much as sarah, if not more. all of them leaned in close at first to talk, then after a while, even when it wasn’t necessary to lean in, they leaned in anyway probably to smell the mix. this led to the backfire i’ll cover in the next section. still no negative or weird effects around guys. it could be that my mind was playing tricks on me but i think they got some status hits off it. i stand, they stand; i sit, they sit. as their friends visited them, they worked that status angle from my mix and dhv’d their way to a good time.
the bad (honesty)
as expected, when the girls leaned in for a whiff of 203, they also got a whiff of ih. i thought this would work in my favor. get the 203, like it, get the ih, feel ok about liking 203, repeat. turns out this might’ve worked too well or not well at all.
sometime during the night somebody said “oh sarah, your boyfriend is so…” it was funny and everybody laughed but i think after that, sarah pulled that person aside and said hey, he’s not my boyfriend yet. this news populated like wildfire to all the girls at the table and eventually they’re hounding me about why she’s not my girlfriend yet. i explained that we were exclusive (decided mutually between us a few weeks ago) and thought that was relatively the same as saying she was my gf. it has been my experience that once you hit a certain point and feel right about things, the girl/boyfriend title is there (like “hey, don’t mess around with that girl, she’s that guy’s girlfriend”) and then you start using the title when you feel comfortable with it. i think i asked my very first gf back in high school to be my gf. all others have been this new way.
as a side topic, if you want to chime in on this, you can do so here: Ladies or relationship experts: is it good form to ask her to be your girlfriend?
i go more into detail about what happened.
long story short, i didn’t ask sarah to be my gf and thus we weren’t officially a couple, though everything else we did was very couple-ish. the ih fueled her and the girls to start thinking about this. pretty soon every girl there told me that i should ask her. i had a deep convo with one of the girls to pick her brain and see the reasoning behind asking her, why girls think this is important, etc. i got some helpful information and friday morning i asked her. i felt pretty high-schoolerish doing it but i kept a straight face, and even though she knew and saw all the girls hound me the previous night about asking her, she took it as if i was asking on my own accord. things between us haven’t changed, but it’s nice to get over that obstacle and not worry about it anymore.
why is it a backfire?
here’s where i break the rules of good testing. let’s assume that 203 works miracles on caucasian girls. you put it on and they come running. girls in friend stage will be very friendly and perhaps even try to move out of the friend stage; girls closer to you (like sarah) will feel even more attracted to you. layer on some ih and those feelings will be associated with a “true” or “real” vibe.
i chose 203 and ih based on my thinking described above. at the start of the night 203 overpowered ih for various reasons including game scent and the level of alcohol consumed. this means the girls were getting half of the mix, regardless of whatever ih they got. lots of flirty vibes, some attraction and kino from sarah, etc. as the night went on and they kept leaning in, the ih started to take effect along with some alcohol (we weren’t too bad though. if a normal drunk night is an 8 on a 10 scale, we were at about a 5.5-6). sarah has deep feelings for me but is a bit concerned that we’re not officially a couple, so she corrects somebody when i’m called her bf. all her friends know that she likes me and that she wants us to be a couple but before this, they never told me. knock back a few drinks and spend some time with ih and now they’re telling me everything. she really likes me, she talks about me all the time, she wants to be in a solid relationship with me, all her friends know this and are envious of what we have, etc. whoa. lots of info to process in one night. it seems sarah has been holding it in for a bit (it’d be even more awkward if she asked me to ask her to be my gf) and i think finally she let it out via her friends. again that’s a lesser matter than what’s going on currently and we’re past that now.
did this mix work? i would say yes. did it work a little too well? again, i would say yes. in turn, is this basically a backfire? yep. 
i think from now on when i wear this mix, it’ll be awesome. can’t really go wrong with it. 203 = instant sarah magic, add some ih on good days, some ifm on bad days, maybe ammo/tuth/292 or p79/83/taa for fun, and you have an indestructible mix. BUT… you gotta take the pain before you can make the gain. it’s like scraping your knee as a kid, or asking a girl out for the first time, or conquering a fear – you just gotta do it. if i hadn’t worn this mix, or if i left ih out, maybe i still would’ve had a great night but without the “gf” problem. that means it’ll come another time. i’m actually glad this backfired because if we kept avoiding the issue as we progressed further and deeper into our relationship, the outcome might’ve been more intense or worse yet, ended badly.
conclusion
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sarah and i are a couple now.
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it goes without saying but this really shows the true power of pheros.
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203 works. i can’t say for sure what it does until i start proper testing but i know it does something.
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damn you, ih. that stuff works too.
anything else you want to know, just ask. this report covers the situation well though. made some gains with 203, took a bit of a loss with ih, then wrapped everything up to continue making gains.
