How much did you wear and where did you apply it ?
If you feel you can test it some more I suggest spraying to the back of your body so your not exposed to it as strongly and playing with the dosage a little to see if that doesn’t change how others are effected. Be sure not to inhale it wet. Hold your breath spray on and walk away from the area.
I wonder if the self effect produced combative body language and other may be getting a stronger signal from that then from the mone itself.
The neck and jaw pain indicate tension and you may be holding your body in a tense stance so other can pick up on that.
Just a thought.
Tisha