What: MX301 4 (TO GO) sprays split between neck and wrists
When: Two different evenings
Self-Effects: Started noticing an extra sense of self-confidence and friendly social aggressiveness (more likely to talk to people or strangers) much like with a good dose of 'none. No feeling of physical aggression I sometimes get with 'none.
Effects on Others:
Guys I knew were very friendly, others were very respectful.
One evening we were at a social function. When it was time to get up and dance, several of the guys made a semi-theatrical performance out of “There goes Bosshank - he is going to show us how to do it/make us look bad” kinda thing.
I like to dance to include some formal ballroom dancing. The year before I had been at this same function as had the guys - all around my age - I mentioned above. Music both times is mostly modern dance with a couple 70s dance songs thrown in. Very early in the “entertainment” portion of the evening we get up to dance. It was a current song, but something with a beat you could almost do a tango to. So I led with a modified tango. The same guys afterwards made the same comments.
(Side note to all guys, but especially young ones: Learn to do some basic ballroom dancing. Most women really love it. It comes under the “romantic” heading. It may seem odd - but it is really kinda like any athletic sport. You will learn basic movements you need to be successful just like learning soccer, football, hockey or even martial arts like I also like to do. If you do not have rhythm, you will learn some. You will also learn how to subtlely physically guide a dance partner. And learning how to lead also builds self-confidence. You will also learn how to improvise a correction to a mis-step/mistake on the move. And you will learn a skillset that will come in handy time after time. It is one of the semi-forgotten, older skills of being a guy.)
Most women were friendly to very friendly. A couple women stayed very close with a lot of direct eye contact to the point of being … almost uncomfortable. One lady in particular stayed very close for a while and did a LOT of talking.
Best of all Mrs. BH really seemed to be … very happy to be Mrs. BH both nights.
great report BH. i agree, proper dancing (not just the club moves) seem to be a lost art. when i get more time i plan to dip my toes into it. definitely helps with social situations like the one you were in.
Sort of but friendlier. A314 with no buffer can be a little “heavy” on me. This did not have that “heaviness”. It was maybe closer to a A314 and Ammo combo again without the “heaviness”.
Thanks. I think not only does ballroom dancing prepare you for more social functions but it also gives you a couple extra moves you can use in a club as well as the confidence to get out there and “bust’em”.
Ya know, Hank, I couldn’t agree with you more. Women love a man who can dance. There’s just something about a man who can dance. I mean really dance, so few can. And no, you don’t have to be Hank Astaire. Mmmm…there’s nothing like dancing in the arms of a great smelling man who knows how to move…and he’s leading you around the dance floor…mmmm…especially if it’s a man you like. It’s a real shame it’s becoming a lost art. As long as you’re not a total fool, I think most women find it sexy.
I love to dance (…women like to dance!). I think of it as another tool in my arsenal. Just another element to fine tune the whole package making it that much more appealing. It gives you a legitimate excuse for being close, you can touch and hold her. A little chemistry between you (natural or perhaps pheromone enhanced…tango, huh? ) You can even look at it as a form of foreplay. And it’s been know to put women in the mood for a little cheek to cheek dancing in more ways than one. Yes indeed. Very nice report, BH.
Peek-a-boo. Just popped in to make sure you weren’t steppin’ on anybody’s toes! Good to see you too, Spanky. Glad to see you’ve been paying attention in class.
Np, I’ve got your six…
Heh, here Hank, let me give you a hand…
…Bella smacks cowboy up side the head…THWACK!..
What?
Now I suppose you’ll tell Wolf I hit on you! Go ahead…at least you’ll be tellin’ the truth about that.
Don’t forget, Buster, I’ve got your number too. Hello…S?
…and I’m just the girl to do it. Now, get your butt over to the Ballroom, cowboy …go on get movin’… and stay the heck off my toes!