My first few days using the pheromones

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
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Ok I ordered Instant honesty (x2) and Instant Shine (x2) on Wednesday with regular shipping and received it on Friday. That was awesomely fast and I got a free MX 274!!!

Day 1: sprayed one spray of Instant Shine (x2) on me, it might have been two, I can’t remember, it didn’t really spray out because I pressed it too lightly ciz I was kinda nervous, so it sorta squirted on my wrist and then I rubbed in my chest. I was kind of self conscious about the smell. I had no self-effects either.

Didn’t notice anything unusual while I was at work. Didn’t talk much with people. The manager said something like “if you are nice I’ll give me a tip” cuz he gets on average 10 bucks in tips and I told him I haven’t got a tip in a long time.This shy girl who works there told me that the manager seemed to like me which I did not get that AT ALL. She said he seemed nice to me, not to her. But I didn’t notice much change in him. He is really good looking but I’m not really interested in him and he doesn’t seem interested in me, and he doesn’t say much to me. He didn’t say anything really to me today. This one time I glanced at him and caught him looking at me, which he then glanced away, but big whoop, I always stare at people too, seemed normal.

Day 2:

I sprayed Instant Honesty (x2) on me, 1 spray on my chest and a couple hours later another spray on the back of my neck. No self-effects.

Ok didn’t notice much change today either. I was working in the back where some mexicans who can’t speak english work, and they didn’t talk to me. This one spanish girl scared me from behind, but she’s always messing around. It was kind of hot in the back, I was cutting pizza. I was also on the cash register and didn’t notice anything unusual with the customers (and no tips) :frowning: . This Asian guy who never talks to me said a couple of words to me but that’s it.

The manager started to tell the other coworkers how he knew what everyones checks were even though he wasn’t supposed to know, as the checks have not come in yet, he was saying what this other manager got. Anyway, he wasn’t really talking to me. They were also saying how they found the boss anoying, but that was brief. I kinda felt invisible today.

Day 3:

I sprayed 1 spray instant honesty(x2) on my neck and 1 spray MX 274 on my chest. I really LOVE the smell of the mx 274.
I went to the store to pick up some items. No unusual reactions.

Later on another spray of Mx 274. I stopped at the food store. I felt more comfortable walking close to people. But no hits.

Day 4:

2 sprays Instant honesty - 1 on my neck, 1 on my arm, and then 3 sprays of MX 274, 1 spray on my neck, 1 spray on my other arm, and one spray on my wrist.

I went to the store to see my old manager who works somewhere else because I miss her and wanted to just chat and ask her to refer me to work there. I waited on this couch that they have in the store. A little while later this blonde teenage girl asked if anyone sitting there, at this other chair that is a couple inches away from me, I said, “no go ahead,” and so she sat and went to reading this bible she had with her. I was thinking of saying something to her but then this random old lady sat right next to the other girl to just sit. Then the girl got a call and left. Nothing unusual here, when I sit in the couches some strangers just sit next to you sometimes.

So I never ran into my old manager and felt very dissapointed. I walked home and felt this yearning to talk to someone, like I was literally staring at the strangers passing my by and thiking that I would not mind chatting with some random person. Usually I don’t feel that way, but whatever. Anyway I am really digging the smell of the Instant Honesty and MX274 on me. That’s all.

Anyway, no hits!! Can anyone give me advice. As you can see I am trying to analyze very carefully for any subtety but I am not really noticing a difference.

First try with five products at once and no results: advice on testing one at a time
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I gotta start off by saying, great first report :wink:

Secondly, I think you did get some little hits. You should remember that most hits, if you even realize they are hits, will be subtle in nature. They’re just little things that don’t usually happen, or are out of the ordinary. Big hits or DIHL looks are pretty rare, even for the more experienced users. I have, quite personally, never gotten a DIHL look :roll_eyes:

You said that you felt more comfortable walking close to people, and that you felt the urge to talk to strangers. It seems that your personal walls were lowered a bit here. When you mentioned that you felt invisible, did you try to talk to anyone? While pheromones do encourage people to initiate, they will also make people more receptive and responsive. I’ve noticed that, when I wear Instant Honesty, if I’m not open to conversation, everyone still gets the effects and they just talk to each other instead. Conversation flows around me whether I’m apart of it or not.

It’s been said that homosexuals (males at least… I don’t know about women :confused: ) and Asians are particularly attracted to androstenol, like the beta androstenol found in Instant Honesty. So keep that in mind, and make note if your Asian coworker who “never talks to you” starts chatting you up more often.

Also, don’t worry if you don’t get hits at a grocery store… lol… any hits you get there will probably err on the creepy side.

Good luck, and don’t you dare get discouraged! :smiley: I’m looking forward to more reports from you. You’re off to a great start, but try using each product alone for a couple of days. It’ll help you figure out what does what, especially since MX274 is a brand-spankin’-new mix :slight_smile:

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Thank you so much for your response.

I can’t tell though if they are random everyday occurances or subtle hits because things like that happen to me from time to time. Also I can’t tell if there is a change in their internal dialogue or how they are feeling about me since these people are not saying anything or expressing themselves. However, now that I think about it, I probably seemed busy to the girl sitting near me because I was there texting. And the other day at work I might have been unresponsive…couldn’t think of what to say at that time anyway.

Oh also another thing, my manager said after I clocked out, “thank you, I appreciate it,” which seemed kind of weird to me. However, again I can’t tell if that is a hit because my old manager used to say “thank you,” everytime I left and would hold my gaze which made me feel good. By the way this manager I have now is new, I have only known him for like a couple days so I haven’t grasped his personality.

There are these mexican guys who always flirt with me at work. I don’t work the same time as them anymore these past couple of weeks. I wonder what the pheromones would have done. However I work the same time with this second Asian guy who innocently flirts with me and he acted how he usually does.

Can I ask, what was your most noticeable hit?

I’ll try to test the products one at a time but I LOOOVE the smell of the MX 274. However I’m sniffing the faded Instant Honesty spots on my arm and I am starting to dig it too.

Also am I supposed to increase my amount of sprays now if I was trying IS or IH by its own now???

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If you’re working around pizza ovens the heat is really going to burn off your pheromones quickly. You could try to slow the diffusion by wearing over & under lotion but you will also have to wear a larger amount. It might be best to do your testing out of work so you’re not burning through them all and end up disappointed.

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Question about ODing and people’s reactions

II don’t work around the oven the whole time, usually I am around the cash register. I am concerned now tho…How do I know if they get burned off? I could still smell them at the end of the day.

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I am not near the oven the whole time, usually I am near the cash register. I’m concerned now tho…How do I know if they get burned off? I could still smell them on me at the end of the day tho.

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Hmm… you know, the neroli that comes default with the Instant products smells like men’s cologne to me.

You can increase the number of sprays if you want to… there aren’t any rules, so I can’t say “yes/no, you are/n’t supposed to.” Most forum members start out around 1-5 sprays of the standard strength, so you could start out between 1-3 of the x2 versions and see how you like the effects. If you want, you can go even higher! Totally up to you, and what you feel best working with :wink: Just because you’re only using one product, it doesn’t mean that you need to compensate for another that you aren’t wearing by wearing more of the first. (Does that make sense?)

Yes, don’t forget to have open body language! If you look broody, it has a high chance of overriding any friendly pheros that you may be wearing. You don’t approach angry/aloof-looking strangers, right? Not that you were being broody, angry, or aloof, I’m just saying :slight_smile: A smile is sometimes all it takes.

As for my most noticeable hit…? Hm, probably when I was passing by a middle-aged woman very closely (it was crowded) and she complimented me without seeming to realize she was doing it. She just kept walking, never faced me, and the way she delivered it seemed almost mechanical. It was odd.

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I didn’t know that big hits and dihl looks are rare even for the most experienced users. I learned something new today.

I’ve got a question though, I’m not an experienced user at all, not even close. But I do have occasional dihl looks, and some blatant hits oftenly, I’m not trying to brag just in case this comes out wrong. Just trying to make myself clear about the functions of pheros, to increase my knowledge. Could it be the body chemistry or how you show yourself to others due to the self “effects”?

Even though I do get hits sometimes without pheros, do the pheros enhance the hits when I wear them?

Lonewolf: nice report girl! reps! I agree with inking, try not to wear pheros in a very hot environment, or you’ll wash your pheros off when you perspire.

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Well, that’s what I’ve heard from them anyway :roll_eyes: shrug

Well jeez Selva we can’t all be as irresistible as you! :stuck_out_tongue:
Who knows? The Copulin Queens around here DO warn us about blatant sexual come-ons. I don’t know if your big hits occur when you’re wearing cops (and you’re only 19, so just one drop is potential overkill), but that might be it. Self effects (how you carry yourself) can also be a big factor, as people from out of your phero range can be compelled to approach just because they like your stride. Of course, natural chemistry comes into play as well… if you got hit on a lot before, you’re gonna get hit on even MORE now. But I’m sure you’ve noticed that… lol.

When I say DIHL, I mean they stop in their tracks and it takes them a few seconds to actually start functioning again. I don’t know if you use the term this way, or if you have a looser interpretation. As for what I term “creepy staring”… hun, what’s not to stare at? :stuck_out_tongue: If you mean what I mean, and they stop in their tracks and go comatose for several seconds, then god damn, your results are hella better than mine :slight_smile:

Not that I’m any sort of expert! Take what I say with a grain of salt… or a whole margarita :roll_eyes:

Probably. We use them to give our natural appeal some “umph.” :slight_smile:

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that’s cool, that cool! I love learning new stuff!

LOL! I wish I was irresistible! :o

I do use cops occassionally but not like everyday. hmm…that makes things very intadesting!
Thanks for answering my annoying questions sweetie! you’re da best.

As for the dihl, LOL! I don’t think they loose track. It’s just this type of stare. It’s hard to describe, it’s like they’re staring at you and you see them staring at you, but they don’t give a rats as* lol, they keep starin’ at you for like a long time where you start feelin’ awkward!! I call it creepy though lol!

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No problem! You’re not annoying :slight_smile: I just wish I could answer your questions better. I still consider myself noobish.

Creeps will be creeps… heh. Well who knows? I’ve never caused a DIHL look, so you’ll hafta be the judge of what it was. I personally consider “DIHL” to be a sort of shock, like their brains have trouble registering your pheros, but each person uses each term in his/her own way. Though, truth be told, I probably wouldn’t even notice a DIHL look if I got one… lol, I’m so oblivious. It really is pitiful.

Then-boyfriend: “I saw like ten guys staring at you! One even started to approach you until he saw me glaring at him!”
Me: “I’ve never noticed a guy staring at me in my whole life.”

:roll_eyes:

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LOL!!! OMG!!! that is hilarious!!!

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I think DIHL is different from staring. DIHL is where the guy’s brain gets suddenly beamed away to another dimension and he just stands there like he’s waiting for someone to give him a jump start. And then when he comes back, he loses quite a bit of fine motor control and is likely to drop stuff. I’ve seen it happen to a few women too. Androstenol is the biggest cause of DIHL for me.

I agree with Tealeaves that a great perk of pheromones is that you get a bit of a reputation as a head turner. (Although I feel I have to say that everyone here is gorgeous already and a change or improvement in reactions from men does not imply you were not a seriously hot commodity to begin with!)

Lonewolf, you’ve described all sorts of hits. Your manager was trying to impress you with the limited privilege he possesses. “I know everyone’s salaries!” etc. I think we girlies are sometimes a little too modest when noticing others’ reactions.

“Oh, well he was just in a good mood…He offers to buy cars for everyone, so that’s no big thing…My doctor started breathing heavily around me; he must have asthma…The mean old lady in accounting made me some coffee; she must be on a new medication or something.”

See what I mean? Why not assume we are affecting our environments? Anyway, just enjoy. :slight_smile:

XO Kitten

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Yea but the manager wasn’t even talking to me. He was talking to the other coworkers even though I was listening to him in the background.

If I was to have recorded my day to day observations of people before trying pheromones I would see bunch of random things like this, some even more pronounced. I always notice things like these from people, like little “hits” without using anything.

I tried two sprays of only Instant honesty, and was with a group of people but there was absolutely no effects. So I’m going to try three sprays… Do I just keep increasing it until I get an OD to make sure of it??

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Fantastic thread reps for all involved.

This is a perfect example of how pheromones work. In fact I used it as a example by link in another thread in the mens section.

Lonewolf your report is excellent because it gives us a clear picture of whats happening around you. Hits can be subtle in nature and most times they are. I know you read mostly about the big hits on the forum and this is what alot of new users are looking for but for every report you see of a big blatant hit there are countless days of the subtle mild hits in between.

Its the accumulation of consistent behavior changes in people for a extended period of time that really show you what pheromones can do.

Hits will not always be blatantly directed at you. Take Instant Honesty for example. Sure when I wear it alot of times people will blab out there life story to me. 75% of the time though they just are more open to everyone they are exposed to when around me. They do tend to gravitate toward me more but unless I give them a que they wont interact directly to me.

Example. again using IH.

I will wear it to work and almost everyone will open up and start having deeper conversations. People will say things they wouldn’t normally talk about.
Now if I ignore it and go about my business they will focus on someone else but if I simply look them in the eye and give a que… “Hi How are you” the flood gates open up. Some people pick up the pheromonal signal easier then others and can narrow it down to you without the que but we are all different with different sensitivity to our surroundings and its harder for some to pin point where that vibe is coming from.

The more you work with the products and dosages the better its going to get. I can already see your right there teetering on your "Holy shit these work " moment. Keep it up you will get there.

Tisha