So I finally ordered a whole mess of products, and after gathering some iniitial impressions of their solo effects, I decided to try my hand and mixing.
Now I’ve got this one girl, with whom I’m in the surrogate father/brother zone - It’s a common theme with me and women. Not a barrel of fun, but once in awhile things’ll get physical. Regardless, she’s one of my primary targets.
Last Thursday I made her REALLY uncomfortable with a p83/TUTH combination (she started crying, getting really mad, then apologizing, crying, getting mad, etc..) it was interesting to say the least, but also pretty sad. I ended up walking home that night.
OK, so you guys are probably going to think I’m a bastard based off that alone, but bare with me. We made plans to get together again last night, and I decided to go for an ease-tensions-but-with-a-hint-of-sex type mix
Here’s what a went with:
3x Spaceland - 1x back, 2x top of head (decided to go for dispersal. Spaceland rocks!)
4x Instant Female Magic - 2x back, 2x chest
2x Instant Honesty - (2x str, from to-go bottle) one per shoulder
3x TAL - 1x chest, 2x back (5mcg/spray)
3x p83 - 2x chest, 1x back (5mcg/spray)
3x Turn up the Heat - crotch
Yeah, that’s a lot…
So I show up at her house, and her cat starts freaking out (I found that really amusing). Things still arent too cool between us, but after awhile we decided to go and rent a movie. Twenty minute car ride later, and as we’re in Hollywood video, she keeps nuzzling me, then freaking out about it and walking away.
After another 30 minutes of indeciciveness, we dedcided to head to another, local, video place - but not after acquiring a craving for candy. So we start walking across the parking lot to a supermarket, and out of the blue she starts pulling my shirt up wanting to check out my assorted scars. It’s pretty awkward, considering it’s 40 degrees out, and we’re in public. So I put and end to it. We buy some processed sugar, and get back to the car all without incident.
In the car on the way to the next rental place, my buddy calls me (who pretty much hates her), I tell her not to make a sound. So I’m parked in the lot, talking to him, and she starts licking my elbow. That’s new. Pretty sure she was just looking for attention, but still…
As we’re in the store, she’s all kinds of all over me. But eventually we ended up picking a movie, and headed back to her place.
I’m thinking alright… tonight’s gonna be a good night.
So we get back about an hour and a half after we left, her cat freaks out again, and we end up making nachos while watching random crap on youtube. She ended up deciding that her bed was the best place to watch the movie from.
I’m good right?
No.
Thirty minutes into it, she falls asleep curled up next to me.
I’m sure she was tired, but still… damn.
So that’s my report. If I went into too much detail, sorry about that.
I’ll probably end up seeing her again next week, and it’s pretty obvious that mix the worked, but what I’m wondering is should I go for a little less comfort, a little more intimate mix the next time around? I’m thinking some tweaks are necessary, but I dont want to push her to the crying-point again.
I came up with a couple options, and I’d love your opinions/insights on them:
- Reapply TAL before the actual jumping into bed phase (maybe it wore off?)
- More Turn up the Heat (it obviously works)
- Turn up the Heat applied to a different area
- More p83
- Throw some p79 on top of the rest of it
- Caffinate her
I’ve got p79, p83, IFM, TUTH, Spaceland, Honesty, Openness, A314, Shine, TAL, Edge, and Liquid Trust at my disposal.
I’m wary about A314 (got some great stories about that one), but everything else I’m totally willing to dump on.
Any advice is absolutley welcome.
Thanks guys!