I thought I would start off my journal by writing about my experience without any use of pheromones. The avid reader may make comparisons.
I am a young lady at the age of 23. Since I am not currently enrolled in college, I will be putting myself in club/bar situations to test my products. I will write down the last experience I had without the pheromones.
10/31/09 (Saturday Night, Halloween Party at the local sports bar, 8:30pm - 2:00am)
The bar was packed wall to wall with people. I was dressed in a modest costume with a red face mask on. I had arrived early and the first in costume, along with my male acquaintance. (Acquaintance will be used often as he is very good at reading body language and catching signals I may miss.)
Within the first hour, my acquaintance noted that a guy in a black cap was staring me down from the bar. When I would look over, he would glance and then look away. When I would look away, he would stare over. He passed our table and glanced at me as he passed. He turned his head and glanced at me before going into another room. We spent the next hour eyeing each other back and forth. Come to find out, he was the lead singer of the band.
After ‘lead singer’ began to set up with the band, a guy just walked right over to our table and sat down directly next to me, forcing me to scoot over. I looked at him oddly and he just kept staring at me directly in the eyes and smiling from beneath his mask. He introduced himself as Bobby and apparently he lives in the same town as myself, but we’ve never met. He laughed a lot and spoke plenty, giving my acquaintance a complete brush off. After talking for 15 minutes, he got up and went back to the bar. He returned two hours later to talk to me again and smiled at me repeatedly through the night.
A guy in a vampire costume (with a blow up doll between his legs) walked by my table and I laughed at his costume. He smiled brightly at me. I got up to dance with my friend and vampire-guy danced nearby, smiling at me whenever I was facing his direction. At one point, I stumbled over my heels and bumped into vampire-guy, where he smiled at me again and asked if I was alright. I apologized and he said it was alright and gave me a gentle pat on the side.
An elder man in a House costume approached my table while I was in the bathroom and began talking to my acquaintance. I sat back down and invited the man to sit and chat with us and he sat next to me. We talked for a half hour and we gave out our names. He offered to buy us a drink.
I honestly feel that I could have hit it off with any of these guys if I had pursued, however I made it known to each that I was not looking for a date.
I did very well that night, receiving plenty of attention from all over. I smiled a lot to look ‘approachable’. I am not usually approached by people that I don’t know. Everyone that I spoke with was very kind to me and treated me with respect. When I would approach men (even those with girlfriends), I was received well and made sure that their girlfriends did not feel threatened or left out.
If I can do this well on a night without pheromones, then I can’t wait to see how nights will be with pheromones on.
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