Lol, I have taken many breaths since i posted that. Was just needing to vent in the form of typing words. Been doing hw all day and just talked to my friends about a guy I like prior to typing that.
He’s just gotten outta a relationship, but it wasn’t serious at all so I thought it’d be ok to like him. The way my friend explained it tho it seems like he’s not ready yet. This is a guy who had liked me for about two years…and finally when I decide to like him this happens. This would happen to me.
Also I just recently got fully over my ex so I was completely ready for something to happen relationship-wise.
I was ok before I heard what my friend had to say about him…idk I think I’ll be ok alone for now. But I still can’t help but think some force is working against me in an effort to keep me single.
Oh well…I need to focus on school work anyways.
Hey…that sounds rough…you women are most volatile…I have 3 sisters, all younger than me and had to comfort them when the guy they liked didn’t reciprocate…guys don’t have a clue what the’re ineptness and callousness does to women…sometimes guys DON’T think at all… AND I AM A MAN!!!
Now, you need to focus on school work, great. Though, that will only get your mind momentarily off the subject that your ready for a relationship…Look at things that you can do to improve yourself… get into your kempo… give to others, think about what you can do for others, like neighbors, friends, family. By looking selflessly at others, you’ll help polish your inner personality! If a man comes into your life, you’ll be ready! Keep an eye out and let them think it’s their idea to come to you!!!
You mentioned back in september of '09 you weren’t sure if you wanted a LTR, officially with a guy or to enjoy your singleness… you are young, sharp and witty!
Enjoy your singleness, enjoy what time you have free from the shackles of school work…to be a happykitsune… you don’t need the drama of guys, but want the interest of a MAN!
However you want to go from here, you can go NUCULAR on the forum whenever you want to let it out! I’ll listen…
School work really is the only think I can work on at the moment. It’s getting worse every day >.< I did manage to curl my hair last night and this morning tho. Makes me feel a lil better when my hair looks nice.
Back in '09 I believe I was trying to figure out if I wanted to date my ex or this other guy. Looking back I kinda wish I had gotten over my ex because not being over him spoiled what could have been a lot of good relationships. Now that I’m over him fully I can finally realize that I would date certain guys I would have said no to a year ago. I like my guys manly, but I’m also starting to lean more towards the nice guy now. I want someone reliable…not looking to get into it with someone whos unstable. I’ve taken care of it now myself so I think I deserve the same.
Thanks. I figure better here then out there. Not many people to talk to over here so I need to vent every so often.
Here’s some other people that dropped out of college or never went..
Rush Limbaugh (Richest radio broadcaster on planet,)
Abe Lincoln,
George Washington,
Jackie Kennedy,
Tom Hanks,
Ben Affleck,
Chuck Berry,
John Mayer,
Jay-Z,
HG Wells,
Bruce Willis,
Clint Eastwood,
Thomas Edison,
ALBERT EINSTEIN!!,
Yoko Ono,
Gene Hackman
Aye, tis what I was going to say as well.
I also don’t just look at if they’re going to college tho. I can tell if people have good potential, if they’re motivated enough to do something at least semi-big.
I don’t know this guy yet so I wont write him off. Then again I haven’t gotten a text back since we discussed the date, if that says anything about his character lol
Can’t stand unreliable people almost as much as I can’t stand unloyal people. Unloyal…is that a word?
Anywho…I think I’m a pretty good judge of character. I may be single, but at least the boyfriends I’ve picked have been guys I would consider marrying. Good, trustworthy guys who I would definitely date again.
Maybe that’s why I’m still single…cus I don’t just rush into dating just any guy who looks my way. I’m kinda picky…it happens
You gotta be picky, cause it’s your standards and its potentially someone you’re going to spend the rest of your life with. You can’t just pick up someone who’s got no motivation or doesn’t click with you.
They don’t neccesarily have to be perfect, but there has to be enough there to make it worth it.
My hypothesis is it will create this sexually charged confidence. The P75 will create the “hungry wolf” sexualness I usually get when I wear it. The B-nol gives me that confidence I only get when I’m drunk that can be quite sexy. And then the P79 intensifies, and I believe also gets ride of the hesitation. Sounds like a good mix for a sexy good time. Haha too bad I’ll be using it in a class setting.
I have 3 boys I can talk to in that class. One I really like…one who I have some interest in, and the other is like a brother to me (someone I can joke with).
My prediction: Lot of eye contact, maybe some touching, perhaps some sexual joking, lots of smiles, hopefully more talking (It’s an art class so we’re usually all pretty quiet with our head phones in. Maybe I’ll get more of a reaction from the people nearest me or during break time)
We will be in there for 3 hrs. Hopefully the pheros last that long
o.o
Not sure if I should wear them right before I leave or bring them with me
Thoughts?
I am a handsome, Christian guy, who went to a top undergrad and is currently in a great professional school. I play basketball and work-out a lot. I like reading, traveling and exploring new areas in town. I take shower regularly; once or twice per day.
This REALLY sounds like a great personal ad, eh? But it really is how I would describe myself
The P75 might help facilitate the men responding back to you better. For me it brings in that raw masculinity for me. I have to watch myself sometimes.
P79 (2 sprays) 12.5 mcg P75 (1 spray) 2.5 mcg B-nol (1 spray) 100 mcg
All sprayed around face area and neck. I need to start spraying on my arms again xD
Effects:
I dropped part of my easel today in drawing class and one of the three guys I mentioned helped me put it back together. The teacher ended up having to help me too, but the guy stayed there even while the teacher was helping. Didn’t get a chance to look over to see if the guy I really like was watching or not. The guy who helped me is the other one im interested in, but not the one i really like.
I was really talkative to the two girls next to me and to my other guy friend and to my teacher.
Sadly the guy I like (we’ll just call him TG for now) couldn’t draw by me because a girl was in that spot…but it did seem like he was trying to get to that spot when he told the girl there were other spots in the back. that could have been because she was trying to find a spot tho so she didnt have to take someone elses spot, so that could have been why he mentioned the spot in the back…it was weird tho because I had mentioned a spot in the back as well to her, but I only said that to get her away so that he could stand there. There actually weren’t any spots…i wonder if he knew that too o.o…its kinda obvious when peoples art bags are sitting right by each easel..
Soooo later we were drawing with our feet…don’t ask…and one of my guy friends asked sacastically if I was doing No Shave November…of course I gave a sacastic response then TG made a comment saying “yeah, can’t you tell?” And the teacher laughed.
Then I complemented him on his drawing and he denies it’s good. And I tell him “Whatever” that his drawings are always good, all the while smiling and laughing at because I know he knows he’s good. Psh! He’s a leo so this is gonna be cake if they love compliments…cus boy can I give em
I wanted to talk to him after class, but I misjudged when he was gonna leave and left before he did x.x I was hungry, gimme a break sigh
Also I wanna add that when I was talking to the two girls it felt like we had been friends forever. I think the B-nol really helped with bonding.
OVERALL:
B-nol definitely did it’s job in making me feel confident and bringing people together. It was a lot easier to talk to people than usual.
P75 helped to stop some of the negative thoughts in my head, but didn’t make me as sexually driven as I thought it would.
Hard to tell if P79 did it’s job. I haven’t tried out just B-nol and P75 together yet.
Tomorrow I have a class with TG and I wanna try out a mix that will make not want to keep his eyes off me. He looked at me once or twice today, but I’m pretty sure on Monday he through me a lot more glances…
Any ideas for a sexy mix? Keep in mind he is about a row away from me and this class only lasts 1 hr 15 mins, unlike the 3 hr art class.
Hmm..where to start. So TG is in two of my classes…I’ve been talking to him a little bit and he msg’d me on fb about an assignment today (no big). I also caught him looking my way a few times and he seems to wanna be near me.
Anywho…
Even with all this info it’s hard for me to figure out if he likes me or not. Sounds high school-ish, but I really don’t know what approach to take. I am so shy…
One of my friends knows him and her guy friend is close friends with him…I wanted to tell my friend to ask the guy something about Noah, but that just seemed childish…I’d rather do it myself…or drop some obvious hints, but I don’t know what to do and I’m afraid he doesn’t like me like that.
So here’s what I need. A rockin good combo for confidence and sexiness…something that will draw attention to me and I need some way to get him to interact with me. I have a class with him tomorrow…
Any thoughts on combos or ideas for interactions? Thanks
EDIT: I think I’m thinking too much about this breathes
Hmmm I’m new to this trying to recommend for girls thing but from my take
I’d say a shot of IS/a, maybe a half shot from your P75 so that would be 1.25 mcgs and a good healthy dosage of P83 to bring the boundaries down on your end and on his end socially (Im sure you have your own optimum range) and 2-3 shots of IS.
I say this based on the fact youve said your a little shy yet you like this guy and you have your priorities straight and know what you want. I didnt really read too much about the guy but as a dude myself (I hope I dont get ridiculed for this) I do like it when a girl meets me 30/70 and creates a “possible” situation for me to open the girl.
I dunno what your approach is body language wise with men when it comes to garnering attention but if you can work a decent smile Id say do it but if not share a look with him that you know expresses your confidence but at the same time warrants his attention. Pique our curiosity. Thats what makes us want to talk to you from my perception anyway.
I’m not a ladies man like P51 or CK by any means but a lot of girls on a daily basis try to get my attention and the look that I’ve tried to explain just now is what does for me. Many girls flip there hair or shake their foot or just look at me but it doesn’t convey a quality that makes me want to explore. A perfect semblance of the look in their eyes along with the an facial expression showing a slight sexiness, poise, down to earth positive energy is what I’ve discerned as a great weapon when done correctly by a woman.
I as a guy I have to feel compelled and drawn in as if following a tunnel hoping to find the light at the end. The journey being majestic yet inviting although not easy. When a girl tries too hard it turns me off just like that.
Don’t sweat it please. The less you think about it the more natural you can be and with pheromones on your side you’ll be a girl to be reckoned with. To be upfront I’m horrible with women but honestly when I let the best part of myself shine and I dont think about what can transpire or what could go wrong or if Im saying the right thing I’ve had some girls mesmerized with me afterwards even though Im usually too self conscious to act on it.
I’m curious why you said to use a half a dose of P75 o.O?
What I’ve found is that B-nol makes me the least shy. IShine can make me feel happy, but doesn’t always give me the straight-up confidence. I might substitute the IShiine with B-nol. I like the idea of using instant sexiness tho. I haven’t used B in a long time. I used A the other day, but it made me kinda mean o.o It doesn’t mesh with my personality well.
I usually smile and laugh at the funny things he says. No touching yet, but I definitely let him know he makes me happy when he talks to me.