Yeah I understand…cant always go by astrology, but it does help to look so you can save urself time.
I hung out with TG last night and I think the main reason why I made him seem unattractive is because I was afraid he’d hurt me. He’s been texting me every day tho and we had a good night last night so I think I’ll continue this and see where it goes. I think it’s time for me to stop seeing the problems and try to focus on the good because I think this could be a good thing But who knows. It’s still casual so nothing too serious yet.
I trust him completely. Plus he lives with my bff so theres no way he could be sneaking around with another girl. If he was there would have to be a lot going into it lol. And knowing him he wouldn’t go through the trouble, or hurt a good friend that way. I think us having been friends for 2 yrs prior to this has made it easier to trust and harder to cheat (if theres even a desire for that. Honestly i don’t see why people cheat) so I’m not worried at all. He straight up told me when I asked him if there was another girl involved and he said no.
It’s hard when theres a lot of guys who aren’t trustworthy tho so I understand you concern. Thank you
well that’s good, at least you know! and yeah, i’ve never gotten the whole cheating thing… if you care so little about the one your with to just go sleeping/making out with random people why not just break up with them?
hope your thanksgiving went well and i hope this guy keeps treating you better! sometimes they need to be told/reminded what they’re doing wrong because they just don’t realize it.
Thank you Hope your thanksgiving was fantastic.
I haven’t tested it in a while. Last I remember testing it P78 didn’t do much for me.
I’ll probably research it a little though and see what it does and what it pairs well with. It may be a pheromone I need to pair with others to get good/any results.
Yeah, I’ve learned I need to set the boundries/rules early on. Me and him aren’t official dating yet. This is a trial run. I think I like the fact that he’s willing to dig deeper to get to know what I’m all about (Just found out about that last night while talking to him). I can’t stand people who don’t dig deeper. I like personal men.
I do care about him. He is my good friend. But my mind has been messed with so many times that I freak myself out and think something is going to happen so I tell myself not to like him so I wont get hurt. Which is bad. So now I’m trying to just chill and go with the flow to see where this takes me. I’m willing to give him a fair chance and so far he is opening up to me more than I’d hoped and showing he really does care. I really value that, but at the same time I’m going to keep my options open. Nothing is official. Gonna see where this goes.
I feel so bad, but it just feels so right…psh like we haven’t all heard that one before.
EST (100 mcg 2 sprays to neck) P83 (25 mcg 2 sprays; hair, neck)
Effects: I went out with friends to a bar so they could buy me shots. TG had told me he’d be there, but my bff said he had work till 8 (we arrived at the bar around 7:30) and that he didn’t want to come downtown so he’d meet us when we got back to their place. I had asked about TG, but really I was interested in if scopio guy would be there. Him and his friend both showed up, as well as my guy bff, who was very touchy feely with me (He wasn’t drinking) and two of my friends who I knew from my old school.
The waitress was overly friendly to us. Sharing with us about her cats and the animals she kept. She even showed us pictures o.o
Me and my girl bff went to the bathroom at one point and she asked me if there was anything serious going on between me and TG (D). I told her we were casually dating and she told me I should go home with Scorpio guy and that’s when I told her I’d been thinking about a lot and really wanted to get to know him…it wasn’t a lusty feeling…just this wanting to be near him… o.O My dad is a scorpio so maybe it has something to do with that.
Anywho, I told him he needed to come to my bff’s apt and he ended up making it there…only problem was TG (D) lives at bff’s apt with her and her bf.
It was a looooong night, but TG finally went to bed without me and I was left with scorpio. We talked for a long time…we had talked earlier as well…and I found out a lot about him…found out we have a lot in common too.
There was no kissing, but I ended up tickling his arm and hand which lead to him brushing his fingers against my legs…which felt ridiculous good…my brain got so fuzzy I couldn’t form sentences. He just kept smirking and laughing the whole time…whatever, let him have his fun
I’m proud of myself for not going in for the kill and kissing him. I went with my instincts and waited. He texted me this morning, even though we didn’t sleep a wink XD Really hoping this one will go somewhere…found out recently that my moon sign is a scorpio so that may help my chances since sagXscor isn’t that good a match. Read I gotta go slow or things could turn bad. My dad’s a scorpio so I should be able to handle him…right? o.o
Just let things go with TG, don’t say anything to completely cut it off, kind just let it naturally drift away, cause just in case in the future, you won’t have those severed ties. Yes, you can typically still get back with them (we’re men afterall) it’ll be easier that way.
For the most part, most of the girls I dated/messed with, we just naturally let ourselves drift away, and some in the future were later hookups and open possibilities.
The less bridges you burn (lack of a better term) the more options you have next time you travel that road.
Well lets see. Unless you know his birth time and place we all know you cant simply plan out how it fits and doesnt fit. I know you know that already but I am simply referring to it before I give my own thoughts.
First of all you really have to feel him out. You know your your father inside out like clockwork and if not still more than any other person in your life besides your mother or any siblings you may have. Its a very well known fact that daughters starting from a very young age build their social muscles and some really learn to bend their father’s to their will in terms of pushing the right buttons and turning the right knobs to get what they want. Use what you’ve learned about your dad in terms of subtle persuasion and amorous intent and see how he responds. If you really want to get into you can compare it to your fathers INDRA (astro report) in the respect that if he isnt responsive to how you are with your dad you’ll have a better inkling to where his energies reside. I’m a real mutt when it comes to my designation but even though I’m an air sign my energies reside much more in earth which dampens my sociability in lots of ways.
There are light and dark sides of every sign but with Scorpio remember there are the optimistic kinds and the gloomy kinds like a yin yang sort of thing. I havent had the pleasure of meeting too many Scorpios but they rule the nether regions so when it comes to sensuality their king even over libras like myself (So I’m not surprised you found the touching electrifying). I dont have to tell you this just be wary because my mother and even some of friends of past have been won over by scorpios with not so pleasant experiences. From what I recall true scorpios never forget when wronged by or very slighted by an individual. I suppose as long as nothing awful happens to them they shouldn’t be absolute in their rigidness when it comes to forgiveness. Its all about all the stars in unison though that are all telling when it comes to a Sun signs perceived weaknesses.
No matter what Sun sign the guy is we all have 1-2 dominant energies. Between Fire, Earth, Air, and Water the percentages can soften or harden the Sun sign tremendously. Sun being the ego, Rising being the outward personality, and Moon having to do with your personal life and how you handle emotionality - Those 3 are the most important.
But in keep mind mercury and venus are very important as well. I don’t dwell on the thinking aspect of Mercury too much but it can bring light to how a person comes to a conclusion or rationality and it does have a good impact on the person’s interaction and deduction methods. If you could learn his venus sign that would be great because not only is it a indication of how he loves or falls in love but how he flirts when hes interested in someone. Its all about personality compatibility but in a astrology sense I would say its about whether you fit each others Venus sign preferences at least for the initial part of the relationship. The fact that your dad is a Scorpio explains a bit about why you may gravitate towards this particular guy because no matter what people say I think people marry a “part” of their fathers and mothers when choosing a mate.
But like you mentioned take it slow. Feel him out and see where it goes.
If it makes you feel any better about the mismatch thing you read about signs my dad and mom were totally aligned Sun sign wise and their marriage was a pure and utter disaster. I dont like to mix astrologies but in long long term relationships (5+ years) the Chinese Zodiac signs are a better indications of how a couple will do in the long haul. My mother is a rabbit and my father was a horse and in many ways I consider that match probably the 3rd worst possible match for rabbits as that is what I am so I keep track of it.
I’m regular joe when it comes to this stuff but Im glad you think Im knowledgeable
Yeah, that’s funny cus I was thinking the same thing. I don’t ever just make clean breaks. I usually just drift away so that there is leeway for things that could happen in the future.
Well I’m glad I got you all fired up. With the whole Prince William and Kate marriage fiasco going on they actually did a segment on them astrology wise but there a really great match and the fact their both Dogs will make the relationship quite comfortable in the long run.
I figured you were a snake considering your 2 years younger than me. Earth snakes are a good middle ground between the other elemented snakes. To be a girl in the year of a snake especially when earth snakes are hard working is a blessing. I have tough time ignoring the charms of girls of 1989 I only know this because I’ve had many ins and outs with girls born in that year so I snoop around and learn a little more.