My (re)introduction

Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!
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Hello All!!

My name is… well “syntax” and I am pretty new to pheromones. I am a 27 year old male from California.

I have used pheromones a bit in the past, you see I stumbled onto this site about 2 years ago when me and my girlfriend had broken up. She really is the love of my life, and when we fell apart I was devastated. So I gave it about a month of zero communication, but I REALLY wanted her back into my life.

I read books and gathered information in restarting relationships, and SLOWLY we began to make contact with one and other. Just a brief text at first, then a phone call, then I was able to meet up with her.

When we met up I really wanted her to see me in a new light, so I decided to use some of the pheromones offered on this site. (I actually can’t remember if I already got the 25$ GC, I may have) It was my first time using pheromones and, long story short, we took our time, didn’t rush things, and got back together. :smiley::smiley::smiley:

Did the pheromones help? maybe (probably). Would we have gotten back together if I hadn’t used them? maybe (probably). But I really truly believe they gave me an advantage of appearing “different” to her.

Fast forward 2 years (now we have been together over 5 years) and we find ourselves in a long distance relationship where we see each other once a month (if we’re lucky). So she was coming to visit for the weekend and I just wanted to make our little time together as special as possible. So it popped into my head “pheromones.” So I placed an order and it came in time for the weekend, and we had the BEST time together! I felt like we had never been closer.:slight_smile:

So now I am sold on the products. I really want to learn more, and make our relationship as full and rewarding as it can be. I am more than willing to put in the hard work that any relationship (especially LD) requires. I am hoping that pheromones will be just that little something extra.

There is one thing: I am completely honest with her, but I am worried about her knowing that I am using pheromones. I haven’t told her, and am worried about her finding out. I don’t want her to think I am trying to manipulate her in some way. I do want to be honest, but I must admit, I think I’d rather have her not know (is that wrong?)

I am even apprehensive about posting this because I had visions of her finding a bottle and seeing the forum web site on the label, and tracking down my posts and making the connection.

I am just worried that if I straight up told her “I’m using pheromones to try to attract you”, then when true feelings of attraction come up, she will question them, always thinking “wait, am I being manipulated?” Which goes without saying would ruin everything.

So that is my introduction, if feels awesome to be part of this great community, and I have a lot more products to try now (even bit the bullet and went for the A314.)

I am hoping the pheromones will HELP to enrich my life and relationships in ways I never thought possible.

It’s wonderful to feel so welcome!:slight_smile:

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Hi and welcome…back. I’m glad mones worked for you not once but twice! Awesome.
Now to your question.

Some people might call this semantics or lawyer like loopholes but here is my take on it.

Mones as they occur naturally communicate information about us, health, genetic fitness, even our state of mind. The are produced by the body and sent out via sweat, urine and other avenue’s where they can become airborne and picked up by other humans. The information communicated isn’t processed consciously but on an instinctive gut level that’s more subconscious than anything.
Telling her that you’re wearing them brings the conscious mind into play and would likely interfere with her interpreting the instinctive feelings she’s getting or any inclination to act on them.

How then can you use them in good conscience? By choosing a product or mix that you feel reflects who you are, and throwing in an enhancer here and there to reflect your mood.
Feeling sexy in a fun and playful way? A spray of TuTH and a spray or two of IO.
Feeling more romantic, TuTH plus IH.
Going out and just want to have a good time, a couple of sprays of IO and Shine.
In the end it’s not mind control so it’s no more dishonest than wearing a shirt you know that she likes and thinks makes you look sexy. You wouldn’t tell her that you wear that shirt at the times when you want some would you?
If you’re trying to be congruent with the signal you send out, then it’s not really dishonest is it?

Now I do advise finding a good consistant “base signal” that reflects you as a person, either the you that you are now, or the you that you may be working on becoming. This becomes your signature, enough so that she could walk into a room blind folded and know you’re there or at least were there recently. This is the signal that would make her think of you when she smells your scent on your shirts or something like that.
The others are to be added on occasion for enhancing the mood you’re in. Just like in nature. When an animal is randy he throws off a phero signal to say to the female “Hi, this is me…could I interest you in some D!c*?”

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Are you saying I should come up with a mixture that I wear like all the time? Or maybe like a default mix, that I always wear when around her???

As for now I was thinking of only using mones around her (money issue)

What I actually would really like to do is use mones when we both go to a club or bar, and try to get “noticeable attention” from other women without looking like I’m trying to get it. I know that would up my value in her eyes. Then when we go home together I want her to have the feeling like, “All those other girls wanted him, and I got him!” That would be awesome and keep her intrest in me high

Thoughts?

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Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

The game (life, in this context) provides the rules. Any rules made by society about unfair use of the rules to our advantage are just people wishing they’d thought of it first or trying to gain power.

You’re having a moral dilemma about using pheromones? Don’t worry about it. Girls do similar things, like dressing sexually and wearing makeup to play on the fact that men drool at beauty. Men, now have pheromones to take advantage of the fact that women subconsciously react to certain molecules (smells). Women also have boobs, men do not. Never forget that. It’s a gender war, never feel bad because you’ve found a way to get what matters to you.

Moral dilemma aside, there’s no reason to tell her at all. It’s the same as using cologne, she uses it too you know.

All is fair in love and war.

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Ammo is good for general “all around” attraction. But if you want to create a “He’s all MINE!” sort of attitude A314 is kinda famous for that. It’s called Fallout and it’s supposed to create a possessiveness in women toward the wearer.

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LMAO I love it! And I couldn’t forget even if I wanted to

Cool I just got my first A314 bottle in the mail today (man its small)
I always thought it was too expensive, but last time I was here it was ummmmm 40$ cheaper :angry:

I’m hoping it’s worth it and my hopes aren’t to high for it. Actually I cant wait to wear it around her :slight_smile:

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Hi and I am glad you decided to join the forum again. Your GC was already issued quite a while back so I’m not at liberty to issue another.

I’m really happy that got back together and even after all this time things are still good. You know what they say about LD? Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

In regards to the mones just be honest. A314 is a very good product to help confidence and as far as the other stuff. There is nothing wrong with a man looking to stay sexy for his girl. It’s the same thing as going to the gym. Use it and it will all be good.

Welcome.

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Thanks for the warm welcome!

I wasn’t looking for another GC, just wanted to reintroduce myself, and talk about my current situation :slight_smile: