Well I have already mentioned that I am a social wallflower, well that is until I put on IS-A, Instant Openness, Instant Shine and my all time fave MX274 (I really love and am addicted to this one).
Well on my last order I received a sample of IS-B. I tried it all by itself because I wanted to see the reaction I would get. I got a reaction alright, I was ignored. It was almost as if I was invisible. No one would even look at or talk to me. Boy that felt lonely. Perhaps it is not a good one to use if you don’t have an out there personality or perhaps for me it needs to be mixed with some other mones.
I am going to try it again just to make sure. If it happens again I will try mixing it with Instant Shine & Instant Openness to see if it makes a difference. Will keep you all posted.
It is possible the IS/B exacerbates your natural wallflower tendencies instead of playing up the “I’m a porcelain doll, come take care of me” vibe. It may be that you need that TAL to balance out your innate tendencies.
Thanks for the advice ladies. Can you elaborate a bit more on what TAL does? Also what other pheromones can it be mixed with and what would be the effects? Could I use it with IS/A? I am so fascinated with pheromones layering and effects. So much to learn!!
Siren, think of it as balancing out your natural signature. I lean to the assertive side so I do better with products containing more TAH than TAL. Ariadne’s suggestion is right on. You can always add some straight TAL to the IS/B to overcome the feeling you’re getting. And yes, you can use IS/A to balance IS/B as many of us do. That may be the ticket for you, as it’s Tal heavy, and you already have it. Great if you need a little more sexy confidence. Adding socials like Shine will definitely help lift your spirits and Openness will encourage communication between you and those around you. One thing to always remember, I’m sure you’ve read this on the forum before, pheromones will not do the work for you. You’ve got to put yourself into it. That means when somebody looks at or smiles at you…you back..if you have the opportunity say hello…you get the picture. If you stand around and wait for people to come to you, you’ll have a long wait. If you don’t act congruent you’re going to run into trouble as well. If you haven’t checked out renny’s thread on congruency, in the sticky section of the mens forum, you might want to do so. It’s great.
Hang in there, keep experimenting, it just takes some time and a little patience to fiqure it out.
You are right. I am super shy about initiating conversation or saying hi to anyone. I know the pheromones will not do it all for me but it has given me the confidence to make an attempt. I am slowly getting better.
Thanks for the info on TAL and usage, and for the encouragement.
Totally not working!!! I tried it for the first time today and I sprayed it 2x hair, 1x wrist, 1x chest, 1x back of neck at 5pm. It’s now 7pm and hubby hasnt said or did anything He even seems more moody in a bad way. I hope this isnt a sign of our times.
He even seems more moody in a bad way. I hope this isnt a sign of our times.