My weekend with the Beautiful People! A314 mx134 to the rescue

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
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Here goes, I’ll try my best to explain without giving out too many details on the who’s and what’s to give my report on A314 and mx134 and instant sexy and how it cut through the insincere sweetnes of some and commanded respect and awe. (I used a few drops of eow too)

Over the weekend I had to attend a social event/fundraiser with what might be considered very self absorbed beautiful people, (my nature is truly that of a homebody, but no one really knows that) Even though it is fun to dress up but deep inside I always dread actually going. Also amongst the 500 people attending I knew I would have to interact with some pretty strong, controlling personalites, (women that many are afraid of). In addition to all this I would be introduced as an “honored guest” which would then put me on display as well as being critiqued from head to toe. And one more thing to add is due to the position I hold I knew there would be a lot of sticky sweetness from a few who are vying for a position that I have influence over. What I wanted to do was feel comfortable and be able to hold my own while being “real” myself and have others be themselves around me. Being put in the spot light when I have no insulation from real friends makes me usually try find a safe corner. Anyway, when I arrived I was amazed at the power players confiding in me and not only that but I found myself saying things that most brave do not dare. A few examples of the evening were, one very powerful woman who at a function a few months ago didn’t aknowledge me and pretended not to remember who I was, (we had even had a dinner together before with a group of people we both know) she made eye contact and said hello and in her speech she mentioned me twice. This may not seem like a big deal but if you knew this person she has always put out some kind of jealous or superior vibe. Next was with the two other women that scare most and are aloof to many, they both were very gracious and throughout the night sought me out to talk with and the most astonishing thing of all was unexpected comments from the strongest and publicly acclaimed beauty…she kept telling me how beautiful I am. It was an odd thing because she would be in the middle of a conversation and suddenly blurt out, “you are so beautiful”. I was taken aback completely by this kind of behavior from her. She is not one to stroke anyone and usually chews up beautiful women. Everything in their opinion from my dress to my shoes was awestricking to them. And about the other women who normally approach me for future brownie points…they stayed at a distance with only brief “hellos” Even more surprising the guest of honor who is not from here asked me to take her out for a night while she is here, she said her hosts had taken her out but she didn’t care for the venue. And the last thing was, again it wouldn’t seem so odd if you didn’t know the person ,but I have known this man as an aquaintence for over 20 years, he and I have mutual friends but we do not socialize together although we have been to many of the same functions without anything more then a hello, (he has a high opinion of himself as well,probably well deserved though) well, he came over and sat with me and started a conversation and opened up about some things going on in his life. I can tell you this is a very odd thing for this person to do, he has had more then a few opportunities over the years but never made an attempt at conversation other then saying hello. He didn’t hit on me, he was very respectful and just talked. I didn’t have a chance to meet any potential cuties, with all the new girlfriends hanging out though…hahaha

So my power mix to deal with hardcore female personalites is about 4-drops A314, 2-3 sprays mx134 and 3 sprays instant sexy. I am glad the event is over and the next one I have to attend I know now I won’t dread so much.

I think I would like to add to this mix though, a bit of instant openess, maybe it may make me more open and I will attract more then just the stronger types while keeping the insincere ones away.

A Respect for Women?
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Fantastic! Crack those shells!

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Great info!!! I looked but couldn’t find descriptions of MX134… what is it for?

Anyone knows if there’s any product to help boost people’s comfort at a “sweeping” level when I’m near them – without me having to give attention to each person for too long?

At any large or busy events I have limited time to linger and chat with any particular person. So it’ll be so good if a group of people can feel at ease when I just say hello to some or just being near them. Of course, our own presence, personality, vibes and all that matter but if I can use something to help “conserve” my time or energy in doing so then… I’m all ears! Having to talk so much (or too much?) is an exhaustive task sometimes.

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Here’s my tentative hypothesis, so far born out in my experience:

A314 in the right dose (with some alphanol and Instant Shine) seems to give me a “social pass” – people are glad if I open a convo with them, but are also accepting of just a non-verbal recognition: a squeeze of the upper arm or pat on the back. Especially if I’m in a convo with someone else, and I’m taking the time to notice them, a simple greeting ‘rings their bell’.

I’m still not quite sure what you mean by “a ‘sweeping’ level when I’m near them”, can you elaborate?

@LadyT: All right! Thanks for a fun insight into the social situation you were using the pheros in – you seem to have captured the essence of the dynamics so well.

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wow good to know that A314 works on a female with other females. I’m surprised that 4 drops didn’t lead to an OD on you, i’ve been expecting to use only 1 drop. May I ask where you put the drops? also - which A314 did you use - regular or mutant?

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Nunya, since by a twist of fate (we live across the country from each other, and in completely different worlds) I actually know Lady T., I think she can pull off four drops of A314 for several reasons. For one thing, she is physically beautiful, as in a “10” in a very feminine way. She isn’t ever going to come off like a man. She is dealing with a group of a people who are, for the most part, obsessed with image, theirs and everyone else’s, so the whole strata is very high status to the point of near-hysteria. And, these events, while they look social, are usually some kind of work, really. It isn’t very relaxed and trust is non-existent. As glittery as it sounds, it’s pretty damn brutal.
We all think we would like to have her problem, but it is no easier than anyone else’s stuff. She really is a homebody but she has to be around these people for her work and when she looks beautiful, it evokes jealousy, (women or men competing for her) or outrageous liberties from men who have the attitude, “I like it, I’ll buy it”. But if she wasn’t beautiful, they’d kick her out! And she is not just there to trade on her looks - she has a career to tend to and she has to play nice with all these people, not have them fighting with or over her. And they ARE still people - finding ways to evoke their better qualities is worth doing, for everybody involved.
Add to that that anybody who gets to know her quickly finds out she is a real sweetie - she’s always trying to take care of people and lift their spirits, often to her own detriment - and she has a lot of stuff to deal with. Plus, who wants to be constantly ranked by appearance and not get to relax and have fun with the people around them and be cared about for who they are? So her use of A314 is very situational and the situation exaggerated over what most of us experience.
If I wore four drops of A314, heaven knows what would happen, although I may try some day just to see. I am experimenting with a spray or two of MX102, and that seems to go just fine. It backs people off without pissing them off. I rarely have a problem with other women (I do not evoke the competitiveness LadyT does) and I don’t when I wear the MX102 either. Quite the opposite.
Softened with Liquid Sunshine or Instant Openness, people still want to be around you and talk to you. I have a long way to go to figure out what its range is on me, but it seems to be something like, she’s strong, that makes me feel safe as opposed to there is strength there, it makes me feel threatened and I want to run away or duke it out for dominance. And it doesn’t seem to be any more masculinizing in small doses than wearing a very tailored suit - especially when it’s a suit tailored for a woman that takes into account your own natural attributes and using other pheromones. In fact, sometimes something like a tailored suit makes you look even more feminine, in contrast, and I think pheros could be like that too. It’s always going to be a balance of things, your own and that of everybody else’s around you. And finally, I think opposite sex pheros in small amounts or balanced, can give off the impression you have the opposite sex in your life, not that you ARE the opposite sex. In the case of A314, that would be a strong, powerful, respected man behind the scenes. Who wants to mess with that? -none in high doses would be a different story for everybody, male or female, but my understanding is that A314 is geared more to the -rone aspect. Although she did have an experience with a man who really would like to be disciplined while using A314 that was not desirable to her :slight_smile: So there is never going to be one-size-fits-all. What is interesting about the pheros is that if it didn’t work the way you wanted, it sort of outs what’s going on with the people you got the “bad” response from- and in the end, it’s not really “bad” , it’s all just information.
Anyway, sounds like LadyT backed em off enough to give herself the space to be who she really is - to everybody’s benefit. It doesn’t get better than that. You go, sweetie.

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yeah i’m fascinated by that actually. you would think once you strip all the status away, we’re all basically just animals, and should react in some sort of uniform way to a good dose.

But it does seem to be really situational. well i’m glad she was able to be top dog, in a pit of vipers - whatever it takes. I’m totally not going to be afraid to experiment with higher doses now tho.

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Give yourself credit…

the pheromone mix you applied MAY also have had an effect on your body language, the subliminal signals you were projecting, that allowed you to relax, feel confident and conguent in a way that intuitively put others at ease. I have often wondered… or suspected, that a good percentage of the phermone impact derives from how it opens up the wearer of the pheromones, who is getting the strongest dose of them in the first place. I’d wager that IF the pheromone user already has a great set of social abilites and a strong presentation that comes from true confidence and refined experience, that it is the deepening of these qualities and perhaps the reduction of self consciousness or self critical chatter that allow one to project “star quality charisma” … let me offer you a comparison… some years ago I tested pheromones in a variety of group settings, including some which might be consider cultish, and others which might thought of as bohemian… in these cases, the participants weren’t all that socially skillful, in fact they were somewhat crude and marginal… my conclusion was because they lacked the bedrock of whatever factors permit one to function (to any degree) in more sophisticated social/professional/political environments, they simply didn’t have the right stuff to call on when pheromones triggered some basic limbic mind activity… in plain speech, they couldn’t hold their liquor… and often I saw ridiculous, silly, clueless behaviors amplified or unleashed… people turning into the worst garralous blowhards, pontificating bores who would not shut up, or yowling jackasses, or regressing to strange preadolescent singing along with the television… this was a combination of alcohol, party vibes, pheromones, and a few other drugs that emerged from somewhere or other… but I saw variants of this in cultish settings where other odd things emerged…
All of which greatly strengthed my belief that pheromones MUST work in concert with skills and abilities… If you have great elegant results with pheromones, the chances are excellent that the pheromones allowed YOU to manifest YOUR superior qualities… they didn’t magically make you into someone other than you potentially are… they probably helped you have the confidence to rapidly manifest what you naturally have…
This is one of the beauties of skillful pheromone experimentation, the discovery of one’s best self and the opportunity to interact with others in the “best self” state of mind until these potential selves become consistent day to day actualities.

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tacitus - vkat mentioned soemthing similar in another thread - about how pheros are showing her aspects of herself. I have to admit the few times i’ve used them in social settings - I do tend to just be my best self, and the first time i used them reminded me of nights I’d had 3 or 4 years ago.

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Tacitus, I not only think it might be the things you mention coming into play, I think it probably really is those things to a great degree and you have it nailed.
When we apply these pheros, we do so with INTENTION-and everything follows intention. We’re really asking ourselves what we want to experience from others rather than just reacting to whatever we get. And as Carrie’s sig quote says, the questions really are the most important part of the process.
For example, my recent desire to own my power and not allow people to treat me without respect and to find a way to do that that is not cruel or hateful. When I apply what I hope is the corresponding phero, I am saying to myself I am ready to follow through with that. I find I do have conflicting feelings and buried beliefs and have to sort through what power means to me and the kind I want to have, what that would look like to me and if I deserve it and what I give up by refusing to be a victim. It’s time for me to deal with this. Honestly, I just wanted a date, but here I am :stuck_out_tongue:
So that’s why I keep saying I don’t care if the pheros are only working on me, although I also don’t see how they could and not on anyone else. But I don’t care how the links in the chain are forged as long as it holds. Lord knows the most difficult person I’ve ever tried to influence or change is by far myself and I’ve tried just about every way there is, ad nauseum. Other peoples’ amazing results were never mine. I’m old enough and creative enough to have been a lot of different people in my life and bits of them all seem to be rattling about in there, often with conflicting opinions. (Can’t we all JUST GET ALONG?) The pheros seem to call forth a response from me by touching something more primal and circumventing my inner conscious blah blah woof woof, which keeps getting wrapped up in old arguments. And I am seeing a response to whatever is happening to me on the outside, I think. It’s a trip worth taking. I’m getting excited which is why I can’t shut up :slight_smile:

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Hey Mark,
What I meant by a “sweeping” level:

Having me to walk through a group of people who don’t know each other and just smile and say: Hey how’re you doing all? (or like you said non-verbal recognition)… is enough to make people who near me feel at ease without having to stop and chat with each of them. Sorta doing it in a batch vs. individually, so I can then move to the next group and do the same.

Imagine the time saving and voice conservation? :wink:

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Calian mx 134 is a test sample I received, I also have an order in for some, look for it under experimental test mixes, and Nunya, I used the regular A314
As vkat mentioned I did receive one undesirable response from A314, well, atleast it was not the response I was looking for when I first started testing it. I used it when I had a meeting with a man that has a more mild personality, his reaction to me was certainly not what I was looking for, he was extremely turned on from the get go, inappropriately so. He seems to like powerful women…I’m sure other factors played into it with whatever was going on in his life and such, or perhaps it was just a fluke. I did however have another situation that it provided some relief with a stronger alpha male type who has come on way too fast and way too strong, disregarding my very clear feelings about it. I guess he thinks I will see the light at some point, I don’t really know other then he is accustomed to getting what he wants. Both of these people are part of my circle as associates or professionals that I currently interact with and it is important that I maintain a good realationship with both, basically I need both of these two to behave and put their personal feelings or impulses aside. I have a meeting tomorrow night with another invasive type of male that I also need to maintain a good realationship with, in the past he has proven to be quite a handful and I usually do not like to deal with him one on one. This will really be a true test.

In the meantime, I am waiting for my order of Tal, perhaps to use on a daily basis instead of having to pull out the heavy artillary of A314 unless totally needed.

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so LadyT do you typically use 4 drops or were these business environment reactions with lower doses. I 'm trying to get a feel for how to test it out. It’s going to be in a primarily business environment with all sorts of personalities - and particularly strong female personalities. they are not females I want to appease. As for the males - i need them to respect and trust my opinions and knowledge from getgo, as opposed to admitting they were wrong after the fact.

basically, considering the politics of my current situation - I need people to acknowledge i’m a player and my structure is set up in such a way that I’m unable to show that on my own. It’s unlike anything i’ve ever dealt with before.

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Four drops really is a lot. I ordered some A314 (mutant) yesterday myself. The mutant is stronger, so I will be careful.
It says in the description that men normally use two drops of the regular A314- the mutant would be even less! Of course that’s their body chemistry, not ours, but we are in uncharted territory here so be careful.
Is there time to experiment with dosage beforehand? Do you have your A314 yet? Have you thought about trying MX102? I got that as a sample and think it comes in a test pack. Of course it was for men but maybe you could call Jasmin and see what she thinks about trying those out.
The way I understand it, the MX102 is the closest version to regular A314. Being a spray, they should affect people quicker, but not last quite as long. It sounds like you’re looking for a “Don’t even start with me” mix. There are other women here who’ve used A314, but I don’t think they use much more than a drop and it’s softened with something else. You can always excuse yourself and add more if you think you really need it. I think the oils last longer but also take a little longer to work…so if you’re using the oil you might want to wait a bit before rushing for more.
Of course, your situation is a little different than most - I don’t think you care anymore if they like you as long as they treat you with respect and don’t try to mess with you. I hear that. It’s a big step, isn’t it? The mental shift alone will probably bring some change, you may not need a huge dose of A314 to go with it.
Also, it sounds like you are not feeling as good as you could right now. I did not get the same effects from anything when I was feeling down. Instant Honesty was particularly difficult for me. I seem to be able to use it now but just a spray, somewhere on the back of me.
When using MX102 I have always used a version of Instant Openness or Instant Shine or Liquid Sunshine so I don’t know what it would be like on it’s own. Maybe today is the day to find out.

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I used 4 drops because of the large crowd and high pressure situation. I normally use 3 drops in a smaller enviornment. I started out with 1, then 2 and didn’t notice any real results. When I fist went up to three, I had a really short fuse that day almost like I had a bad case of pms (maybe I did, but the timing was off) Like everything that I have been testing, it seems to take a while before it has an effect on me. I think too, you should try the mx 134, That really seems to evoke a positive feeling from others on me.

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LadyT - so with the 3 drops the short fuse was a temporary thing? What made you decide to stay at that dose? The reason I’m choosing to go with A314 is because of the oil format. If mx134 was oil as opposed to spray I would get that instead, but oils tend to be a more mellow ride for me. With sprays i personally get a really intense rush, and then a crash. I still use sprays, but more as a window dressing/finishing touch sort of thing. But for the core of the mix, i’d prefer an oil.

vkat - i’m not sure I’ll have time to experiment before my meeting on Tuesday, because the order still hasn’t shipped yet, so I’m not sure it will be in before the meeting. But if it doesn’t make it - I’ll just have to take the meeting as it comes, and do my best. The situation itself I have time to work with tho.

and yeah - i’m my attitude is at an all time low this week, because the politics are putting pressure on my department, and people are sharing the wealth in stress. And I know the cops were messing with me - I never get that irritable hormonally, not since i sorted out soem health problems I had a few years back. You’re right tho - I am beyond the point of wanting to appease anyone. I really started thinking about it, and I think my general introversion is stemming from my problems at work, and not understanding why my coworkers treat me the way they do. (and this has been going on since like my second week at this job - i’ve been here 2+ years now) I’ve been trooping along making the best of it, and as I said - I’m liked in the company at large - but i think when you spend 40 hours a week filled with self-doubt and wondering what’s worng with you that your team appears to not want you on it, it starts affecting your life in general.

And when I realized that it pissed me off, so now, f*ck them - they’re not going to break my stride and affect the rest of my life - everything i’ve tried over the past 2 years hasn’t worked, and the only person being affected is me, so time to take the gloves off and get back to being who I really am. And that’s a strong and in-control woman, love me or hate me. If they hate me enough to get me fired, because i’ve re-asserted my backbone - no worries - i’ll miss the “stability” and bennies, but I will always find another job. So much like you - I want to use the A314 to help me find myself again. :slight_smile: