Alright so I’ve been using A314 and IH at work to get this girl I like. I was using ammo but I ran out so these are all I got left. Truthfully the products have opened a few doors for flirtatious conversations but really nothing major or worth considering a good hit. It’s been about a month and results are more positive than negative but today I tried something different. I figured I got nothing to lose so I sprayed 2 sprays of IH, one spray to each side of my neck and I sprayed 2 sprays of my Coolwater by Davidoff on my forearms. So we’re at work and I can’t even remember what I said to her but I said something and she lunged into me and gave me a hug but the type a boyfriend would get. It sounds so juvenile but considering how shy this girl was when I started off this is a big deal here. So my question is, what does this mean? I know physical contact is an obvious green light but is it my imagination or what? Let me know hat u think and if there’s something else I can use with Coolwater. What about A314? Thanks
If you have been hitting her with A314 and IH for a month, then the trust, confidence and connection properties of these products are begining to help her get over shyness towards you and give you some pretty clear IOIs.
Another thing to consider is that you may be developing fallout in her.
If IH is the one that tipped it in to the open for her, then look to capitalise on it in your next mix and yes, A314 is indeed a candidate but I would also consider something happy and feelgood like IS, or even P96, which IME can help her feel good enough to express any developing feelings towards you. I’d suggest starting with the 10mcg spray and dose-up.
It is also worth considering that this is the time to introduce a small amount of a sexual - something like TUTH but only a tiny amount at work.
Then you need to start to look for ways to get this away from work and into an environment where you can use more overt products over your base mix - TUTH for one certainly but a disinhibitor like P83 (again 10mcg) might also help get her feelings out in the open. P130 and P86 are also viable and worthy of consideration.
Around shy women and with mixes like this, too much too soon going against you is a possibility, so don’t rush to hit her with a panty-scorcher or she may pull right back from you. Look to introduce your sexuals/disinhibitors more slowly, observe her responses carefully and bring them-up at a more natural pace as her trust/confidence and yearnng for you develops.
But to begin with, A314/IH/IS or IH/IS are both excellent work mixes with fallout potential and would be covered nicely by your cool water. Personally I would advise the A314 oil due to its subtlety and longevity but you will have to juggle your topups of IS and to a lesser extent IH carefully to match A314’s longer activity. P96 could also be used reasonably freely at work but other than a small dose, to help focus your sexual presence, I wuld leave the likes of TUTH or P83 for after work.
Also remember not to crowd her now - She’s opened-up her emotional side to you, so give her space and a little room to mss you between exposures - This really does help any developing feelings along nicely. 
some more info about her might also help us give better suggestions - age, a bit more about her personality and any info about any past romantic involvement/interests etc might help inform our suggestions but don’t go prying obviously. That can be a real passion killer.
Thank you for your response! Yea she’s opened up to me lately but this is the first physical moment. It happened out of nowhere and so fast which caught me off guard. She’s 25 and I guess you could say shy until she’s comfortable enough with certain people. Very independent lives on her own etc. she’s never commented on how I smell and not to toot my own horn but I’m the best smelling guy at my job no exaggeration so I know she notices it , just never said anything. So being that in all the time I’ve been experimenting I notice the first major thing when I paired up with my cool water. So I want to incorporate that now to see where it goes. I’m not shy to talk to her or tell her how I feel but the problem is saying the right thing and how. I’m naturally sweet and aggressive at the same time if that makes sense so I am pretty straight forward when I say things and I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable. This is a critical point now and I don’t wanna mess it up after all the work I put in. Also she’s told me in the past she’s not the type to want to get married and can’t see the point in being with one person for the rest of their lives. Don’t know how to take that so enlighten me please lol
Fallout does IME tend to hit the independant ones hardest and most confusingly. She is maybe wrestling with a whole range of feelings, some of which might be quite alien to her.
Sounds like you are doing the right things to me. The sweet/agressive thing can set-up a kind of emotional dissonance that is ultimately very attractive to many women - but let her build her feelings naturally and without any pressure from you. Don’t worry about saying the right thing, a lot of this is better served by nonverbal communication (actions, not words) so don’t be looking to have any talks for a long time yet. just keep re-exposing her to the base mix, steer it as best you can for the immediate situation and demonstrate all your attractie/quality traits but in a way that is not putting any pressure on her for a relationship. This has to come from her So treat whatever happens between you in the moment and in a happy/easygoing way that lets her keep the appearance of her independence.
The hug could have been some form on unconsious shit test and she will know you failed it if you start dogging her steps like a lovesick puppy. However, you will pass if you remain the man who lets her go her own way and isn’t bothered - because you have plenty of options yourself.